How to choose between reality and love

When you meet someone you love in your life, you should cherish it. Even if the reality is cruel, as long as two people work hard in Qi Xin, even if the result is not satisfactory, there is at least one shoulder to lean on.

The reason why they want to give up is, in the final analysis, a question of money. Suppose they give up, imagine the best result: the woman marries a rich second generation or a successful man under the arrangement of her parents, and then has children, but does the rich second generation love her? China is still very traditional, and the concept of enough is still there. Your girlfriend will be looked down upon by her in-laws, and the rich second generation will be satisfied that she is a woman. Definitely not. Even if you don't marry the rich second generation and marry a man with a successful career, do you know that before the age of 30, how many people can have a stable career except the rich second generation? Can your friends accept the age gap? There will be a generation gap. If a woman doesn't have a man she really loves for the rest of her life, it will be very painful.

What about the man? Can he marry a rich second generation girl or a successful girl? Or work hard and wait until you are nearly 40 years old and have a successful career to consider getting married?

Advise your friends that money can be earned, but if you lose your feelings, you will never have it again.

I have a friend who married a poor husband, borrowed money to get married and borrowed a new house. But my friend said that she loved her husband very much and didn't care about that.

Another friend won't let her parents see her husband, get married and have children. Her husband is very kind and loves her very much, and she is very satisfied.

Parents love their children. Let your friends talk it over with their parents, and they will understand.