What kind of performance do people with high emotional intelligence have?

Your own summary, try to write some comprehensive for everyone:

1, don't open your mouth to say that others have low emotional intelligence, and don't open your mouth to say that others are wrong.

2. Don't persuade others to be good, and don't suffer others; You have suffered from me, and you may not be as good as me.

3, stupid birds fly first, diligence can make up for it. An idle youth, a poor age.

It doesn't lose my heart to say only three words when meeting people. No matter how close a friend is, he won't reveal his privacy casually.

5. Some things can be done but can't be said, and some things can be said but can't be done.

6, do not say irony. Don't talk to others in an imperative, negative or questioning tone. Don't express negative emotions.

7. Filial piety is not ignorance, but respecting the old and loving the young is mutual.

8. It is rare to have a bosom friend in life, and it is normal for bosom friends to be sparse.

9. It is duty for others not to help me, but it is mutual affection to help me. Remember to pay the debt of gratitude.

10, to avoid storming the strong, the weak is the best way.

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12, don't tell others what to do under the banner of I am good for you.

13, speak slowly, people taste slowly. Speak without aggression. Listen carefully, grasp the key words in the conversation and find the voice of * * *. Continue the topic naturally.

14, help others to follow three principles: if you can't do it yourself, don't help; Poor character does not help; Lost contact for a long time, suddenly unable to help.

15. Speak slowly. There is pause and logical thinking. Let the other person hear what you are saying clearly. It is important to keep a clear point during the conversation and say it in advance.

16, try to restrain yourself and want to interrupt others' desire to speak. If you have any comments, wait until others have finished.

17, high emotional intelligence, supercilious, emotions don't hang on the face, even in the face of people you hate.

18, praise others to praise specific places, don't generalize.

19. Go to a friend's house and bring some fruit gifts. Don't be empty-handed. Remember to be polite at all times.

20. Never make friends with ungrateful people. No amount of enthusiasm can warm a cold heart.

2 1, if someone is angry with you, calm down and let him light the fire. He will be ashamed of himself in the future.

22. Worry is left to yesterday, and hope is left to tomorrow. Rest and relaxation are as important as focusing on work.

23. Don't pretend to talk to friends; Don't be crazy when talking to your parents; Don't choke when talking to customers. Listen more and talk less when facing the leader, and the leader will ask you again.

24. Adults' jokes are half-joking and half-serious. Might as well take it seriously first.

25. Taking advantage of others consumes hard-won human feelings and trust.

26, a blockbuster. Don't pretend, weigh the pros and cons and get away with it. Get along well.

27. Make a fool of yourself in public. As long as you are not embarrassed, others will be embarrassed. Humor is also the best solution.

28. Silence is sometimes an answer.

29. If someone wants to fool you in public. On the contrary, you should be especially polite to him. The other party will bring shame on themselves.

Replace "thank you" with "thank you", replace "mm-hmm" with "good", replace "I can't" with "I can try", replace "you are too bad" with "you have a lot of room for development" and replace "you are beautiful" with "Wow, you are so beautiful".

3 1. Be patient with the elderly and children. When you lose your temper, you should also consider the occasion and way. Do something, and get angry after three minutes.

32. Bar ktv is a place to vent emotions and enjoy drinking. It doesn't matter if you can't sing well or drink well. Self-confidence is free and easy, driving the atmosphere.

Don't regret what you have done

34. When a friend is in a bad mood, talk to you. Don't talk big. Take care of each other's emotions first.

35. Don't just argue with people about right and wrong.

36, not because of loneliness, lower the standard of mate selection. Life is better than death, lest the future trouble be endless.

37. No Monday morning quarterback. Don't say, "I knew this would happen." "I told you."

38. Accept criticism and suggestions with an open mind and take criticism as the driving force.

Silence is the greatest contempt.

40. Put yourself in the other person's shoes, and your opinions and suggestions will be more acceptable.

4 1, don't try to be brave in front of people better than yourself. Don't sell in front of people who are worse than yourself.

42. Don't tell all the truth and all the lies.

43. Learn some psychological knowledge, legal knowledge and self-defense. You can better protect yourself.

Learn to be grateful, smile and stop complaining.

45. When friends get together for dinner and chat, pay more attention to the person who is unfamiliar to everyone.

46. Don't pout when eating, it will affect your image. Shut up and chew slowly.

47. Challenge what you are not good at and what you can't do. The more challenges, the faster progress.

48. Don't always listen to your relatives and friends. In your life, it is still you.

49. Don't ask questions that the other person doesn't want to answer. Learn to speak for three years, but shut up for life.

The better, the fewer friends. Don't be afraid of loneliness.

5 1, not fragmented learning, insist on reading. A person's growth needs a lifetime to complete.

52. Good friends will lose each other. But the person who always hurts you is not your friend.

53. Don't be sarcastic when being ridiculed by others. Self-mockery and self-mockery are more likely to hit each other in the face.

Keep smiling. People who love to laugh are not bad luck.

55. When a friend is sad, it is useless to talk more. Have a drink with him or go out to see a movie.

56. Take the initiative to force yourself to grow up, knowing that society is no better than parents, and no one is used to it.

57. Be mysterious and don't show your cards easily.

58. When there are many women, men should not tell jokes.

59. Learn some new skills in your spare time. Enhance your core competitiveness, foster strengths and avoid weaknesses.

60. Learn to use nice words, draw a circle for each other and cover up your shame. Usually praise each other more.

6 1, actively adjust your emotions, and don't vent your troubles at work on your family.

62. The really smart people are those who can admit their ignorance.

63. Always compete with peers, not fools.

64. Don't argue with your elders when they say something wrong. Ideas formed in decades cannot be changed by a few words.

65. keep a low profile Luck is the modesty of the strong, and life is an excuse for mental retardation. No one will be lucky forever.

66. Always look for reasons from yourself. Take the initiative to admit your mistakes, and you can correct them when you know it. Communicate calmly when you have problems, not with people.

67. Misfortune comes from the mouth. Don't say a word when you are not sure whether you should say it or not. Your hesitation speaks for itself

68. Just entering a strange workplace environment and doing some small things to take care of colleagues around you can quickly narrow the distance with everyone.

69. First impressions are very important. Don't stare at people when you meet a particularly good-looking opposite sex. This is very impolite.

70. Be a low-key person and do high-profile things. Everyone likes people who are powerful and low-key.

7 1. Clean up WeChat friends regularly to make your social circle more direct and efficient.

72. Set small goals for yourself regularly and motivate yourself. Always have confidence in yourself.

73. Always greet villains. Smiling and praising won't offend the villain.

74. Don't bicker with others.

75. Don't compete with your superiors. Avoid exposing your lack of ability prematurely because you are brave.

76. When things happen, don't blame or complain. Can play emotional cards

77. Life is like a play. It all depends on acting.

Some people push their luck, while others bully the weak and treat them differently.

Smart people are generally easygoing and easy to get along with. Fools often lose their temper instead. I don't know why, I touched his so-called bottom line.

80. Turn an enemy into a friend, achieve balance, advance and retreat freely, and succeed in the upper position.

8 1, don't cheat a person who trusts himself casually.

82. If you want a promotion, get closer to the leaders and think more about what they need.

83. Don't talk about the private affairs of your boss and colleagues, and don't ask about privacy. Newcomers who have just entered the company should not be busy choosing side stations.

84. It is difficult for an honest official to break housework. Don't get involved in other people's family disputes and keep your distance.

85. If you do something wrong, admit it at the first time. No excuses, save each other's trust.

86. When you encounter a problem, try to solve it first, and don't make it a habit to trouble others.

87. Don't expose a boaster in public. Don't interrupt others when they are talking.

88. Recognize the complexity of human nature. Know that adults wear masks.

89, don't joke, don't expose people's scars and pain.

90. Get along with others and don't try to change them. Learn to accept the differences between others and yourself.

9 1, be modest, but not too modest. When the other person praises you, a "thank you" is enough. Generously accepting compliments from others is a high emotional intelligence.

92. Don't hang your emotions on your face. Be good at hiding your emotions.

93. Observe words and feelings, and judge each other's thoughts through other people's facial expressions and actions.

94, high emotional intelligence is to be exquisite. The exchange of interests and resources is inseparable from you.

95, take the initiative to report to the superior leadership, let the leadership leave a good impression on you.

96. Only those who have seen the flowers bloom can understand the gentleness of the wind. High EQ gives people the feeling of being as comfortable as spring breeze.

97. On holidays, don't send mass blessing messages and bargaining links.

98. Being a guest in someone else's house can detect the host's mood. It's almost time to leave voluntarily.

99. Don't rummage through other people's things.

100, willing to share their knowledge, information and skills.

10 1, don't tell the truth if you see it, do nothing.

102, let what you can't say rot in your stomach.

103, help others sincerely and don't expect anything in return.

104, the attitude towards the bottom people is a person's truest character.

105, the so-called reliable means that there is an explanation in advance, the chess pieces have landed, and there is an echo afterwards.

106, be kind and gentle when getting along with outsiders.

107, friendship and love, stay with whoever is comfortable, and stay away when you are tired.

108, the positive energy is bursting, and the whole person is like a shining little sun.

109, save face for others in public. Failure is a kind of happiness. Keep more goodwill in everyone's heart, and the income will double at the critical time.

1 10, maturity is not smooth but round.

1 1 1. Have a sense of time and have faith. Unswervingly Be responsible for your words and deeds.

1 12, encourage and praise children. Support his hobby. Pay attention to parent-child relationship

123, people who don't take advantage of others and know reciprocity deserve to make friends.

124, try to remember everyone's name. Even criticism can make people feel warm

125, people who are so powerful that you can't believe have stories behind them that you can't imagine.

126, birds of a feather flock together.

127, saying it's taking, listening is giving. People with high emotional intelligence know how to listen.

128, a gentleman is cautious. If you can't talk to your face, don't talk behind your back.

129, people with high emotional intelligence should not compromise everywhere, please everywhere. While taking care of others' emotions, you can stick to your own bottom line and stand firm.

130, selling your privacy and secrets, you can't get real friends.

13 1. Treat others sincerely, and others will treat you sincerely. People with high emotional intelligence know how to make others comfortable in interpersonal relationships.

132, don't send voice to the leader, remember to type. The information content is simple and clear, to the point.

133, don't make a simple statement. If you are closer, you will change your habit of speaking casually.

134, it is not difficult to work hard, but it is difficult to find what you are good at. Stick to it all the way, not by temporary passion, but by real interest and learning.

135, no harsh words, no soft things. Don't wronged yourself, please others.

136, don't make a fuss, don't just go along.

137, don't explain your private affairs to others too much, people who know you will naturally understand. Save your time and energy for those who love you.

138, a person's strength begins with letting go of arrogance.

139. The quickest way to lose someone is to get too close to him.

140, don't complain to others. There is no such thing as empathy.

14 1. Most excellent people are clear-headed and purposeful, and seem to be somewhat unsociable. In fact, they all have their own circles

142, accept other people's views first, and then refute them.

143, what you can see in your circle of friends is what others want you to see.

The company has a vice president who drives his own car to the company before going to work in the morning. Because there was no parking space, he had to park on the side of the road. He had something to do in the morning, so he went out by car because the distance was not far. After a while, his phone came.

He told me that when he was in the car just now, he saw the traffic police posted a note there saying that the car keys were on his desk and asked me to sit in the car. I told him I couldn't drive, and I didn't understand. He told me to take the key, press the unlock button and sit on it. Because I still have a job, although I promised, I was very unhappy.

I sat in the car and felt very hot. I really want to go down. He called me and said, I'll tell you how to turn on the air conditioner and radio so that you won't feel hot. After turning on the air conditioner, I sat in the car and closed my eyes. Suddenly, his phone rang again and told me that there was a box of hibiscus king in the middle of the car. Don't you like smoking? Take it. I was very unhappy in my heart. Seeing the vice president's operation made me feel indescribable comfortable.

I stayed for a while and saw that the traffic police didn't come, so I turned off and got off. He came back at noon and brought me a bottle of drinks and a box of cigarettes. You said that this person can handle affairs and has high emotional intelligence.

There are still many manifestations of high emotional intelligence, and I have summarized a few.

1. People with high emotional intelligence never look down on others and laugh at them.

2. People with high emotional intelligence never complain, but are calm, practical and not noisy.

Keep a low profile, you won't do anything if you don't talk enough.

4. Know how to straighten your posture and position.

People with high emotional intelligence never make trouble for others.

6. People with high emotional intelligence know how to share benefits.

7. People with high emotional intelligence don't follow the crowd.

After reading several interviews and reports of Hugh, I feel that Hugh's EQ is really high.

1. Facing the scandal of being photographed by Zhuo Wei, Hugh was not angry, but was put on camera.

2. At the Magnolia Award Ceremony and the weekend, Jin Dong and his good brother Wallace Huo, who played the big brother Ming Lou in The Pretender, were also nominated as Emperor. When Hugh was honored as emperor, the host asked him what he wanted to say to Jindong. Hugh said, "We are family in the play, and we are family outside the play. No matter who takes this prize, it belongs to our family. " . The host asked him what he wanted to say to his good brother Wallace Huo. Hugh even said "the heart will tell him".

3. In an interview with Beijing Youth Weekly, the host asked: "The metabolism of the entertainment circle is very fast. In the past two years, many small fresh meats with high popularity and high value have emerged. Is it stressful to be "fresh meat"? "

Hugh: I have no pressure. Small fresh meat has a shelf life. You can't always be a little fresh meat. If you always eat small meat, you put a lot of preservatives. What is the end point of small fresh meat? Its destination is old bones. I am now in the process of going from small fresh meat to old bones, and I am in a state of being connected by flesh and blood.

Moderator: Can this state be described by a dish in Shanghai?

Hugh: (laughs) Hehe, I used to make an analogy. Now I look like a Shanghai dish called "salty Du Xian". You want bacon, I'll give you bacon, you want fresh meat, I'll give you fresh meat

When Ruby Lin got married, together with a group of friends, he generously teased whether Hugh had come to rob relatives. At this time, Hugh's high EQ question and answer reappeared in the Jianghu, and tactfully responded, "I actually understand the significance of me in his (Wallace Huo's) life. I used to form a cp with Jianhua to protect you. Seeing that you are so happy together, everything I have done for him is worthwhile. As a brother, I am really happy for Wallace Huo. "

6. Hugh and Liu Shishi attended the "Love Package Launching Ceremony" together, and they were asked to talk about their feelings. Liu Shishi is a little nervous. She can't say anything. She could only smile at the silence. Next to Hugh quickly took the microphone to help her out. "In fact, I don't think it is necessary to say too much about public welfare activities, mainly in action."

7. Hugh played Li Xiaoyao in The Legend of the Sword and the Chivalrous Man, shuttling between Zhao Linger and Lin Yueru. When asked if he could start over, Hugh quipped, "I'll choose whoever can survive." Because I have played too many roles, I am left to take care of the children alone. "

Hugh is knowledgeable but not cynical, with an attitude but not extreme, with a high face value but not greasy, too spicy but not arrogant. I think the real unpretentious Hugh is more attractive than TV.