The mode of speech of confident people

1. Confident people are lively. Confident people will show a lively life in their faces, gestures, words and deeds, and appear full of confidence in life. We can find and experience this kind of evaluation by psychologists in our own lives. Confident people are not only full of vitality, but also bring a vibrant atmosphere and optimism to the people around them. 2. Confident people are frank. Confident people can always express their opinions directly and frankly, even their own shortcomings. This frank and unabashed character is a sign of confidence in yourself. Confident people always say what they want to say, instead of looking at others' faces and saying what others want to hear. 3. Confident people are modest. Confident people can accept criticism with an open mind and admit their mistakes frankly. Whether you can accept criticism with an open mind and admit your mistakes frankly is an indicator to measure a person's confidence. In our life, people who are not confident just refuse to accept criticism, and always try to make excuses when they are obviously wrong. 4. Confident people are generous. Confident people can naturally and freely express their appreciation, affection and liking for others, and can also naturally and freely accept others' appreciation, affection and liking for themselves. Those who are not confident are easy to be jealous and don't want others to surpass them; Confident people, on the other hand, can appreciate and accept others generously and frankly. 5. Confident people are relaxed. Confident people will show a relaxed manner in their daily words and deeds. Confucius said that "An upright man is open and poised while a petty man is anxious and worried.", that is, being a "gentleman" is flat and broad-minded, while being a "villain" is often embarrassed and sad. There is no doubt that self-confidence is also the basic condition of Confucius' "gentlemen". They will be relaxed in their daily lives instead of falling into heavy depression all day long. 6. Confident people do what they say. A confident person's words and deeds are consistent, and what he says is often consistent and coordinated with what he does. Therefore, his appearance, voice and behavior will also show an inner harmonious atmosphere. As the saying goes, "A word spoken by a gentleman is a lost cause", and it should be done when it comes to it. This is what confident people show and keep. 7. Confident people are open. Confident people will have a basic open attitude towards new ideas, new experiences and new opportunities in life. The society is developing and changing. Whether to actively and openly accept this development and change or passively and stubbornly reject it will be another indicator to measure self-confidence and unconfidence. 8. Confident people are humorous. Confident people can face concrete life with a humorous attitude, including frustration, tension and frustration in life; Confident people can naturally find humor in life, and can find and appreciate humor in themselves or others. Humor is a natural and relaxed attitude, and it is also a manifestation of sensitivity and wisdom. 9. Confident people are brave. Because of self-confidence, self-confidence, including confidence in one's own personality, one's own ability and one's own destiny, confident people can always face complicated situations or challenges in life with a relaxed and natural attitude, showing a kind of tolerance of great wisdom and courage. 1. Confident people are decisive. Self-confident people are decisive, especially on major or key issues. Self-confident people can always show a decisive quality and style. Because confident people have the courage to take responsibility, they will not be indecisive because of the importance, and they will not think twice about avoiding bad results, so they will maintain their consistent decisive style.