The truth of a newly married couple: wake up at 4 am to see what the mother-in-law really looks like?

Men and women usually think that marriage is a world of two people, but it is not. There can only be two people in love, but marriage also includes both parents.

Among these complicated relationships, the most difficult one is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Because two people who had nothing to do with each other, because of the same man, are now a family.

In fact, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not so difficult to deal with, and mother-in-law is not as bad as daughter-in-law's thought, but they have not understood each other yet. With the experience of the newlyweds, they saw the other side of their mother-in-law.

Letters from readers:

Mr. Zhou is 29 years old and Ms. Chen is 30 years old.

Mr. Zhou and Ms. Chen are a newly married couple. They live with their parents-in-law. Because of this incident, Ms. Chen also had a big opinion with her mother-in-law, because Ms. Chen wanted to buy a house and move out with her husband, but her mother-in-law insisted that the young couple live at home.

Therefore, Ms. Chen has a great opinion about her mother-in-law. She thinks that she is a mother-in-law and is afraid of taking her husband away, so she will do this on purpose.

Later, Ms. Chen got up at 4 o'clock in the morning and saw her mother-in-law busy for this family before she really saw her mother-in-law's true face.

1. I woke up in the morning and smelled chicken soup.

After the marriage, the relationship between Ms. Chen and her mother-in-law has been very weak, even rarely talking, but her mother-in-law didn't say anything, just busy every day. Soon, Ms. Chen became pregnant. The whole family is very happy about the upcoming baby. Only her mother-in-law's expression is faint, so Ms. Chen feels uncomfortable.

However, when Ms. Chen woke up the next morning, she smelled the real chicken soup. Later, she learned that it was her mother-in-law who got up early and was cooking chicken soup for her.

For the sake of the children, I have been adjusting my sleeping position for them all night.

Ten months passed quickly and I gave birth to a beautiful little princess. I am very happy and happy, but I am afraid that my mother-in-law will abandon this girl, because after the baby was born, her mother-in-law did not show how happy she was.

However, after the child was born, I didn't intervene in taking care of the child. I just need to feed the children every day. I woke up one morning and found my mother-in-law carefully posing her child for sleep.

I didn't know until I overheard my mother-in-law say that she didn't sleep much all night because she was afraid of affecting the child's head shape, and she had been adjusting the child's sleeping position.

My mother-in-law always accompanied me when I was ill.

I remember once having a high fever and losing my mind. Later, when I woke up, it was early the next morning, and it was my mother-in-law who could accompany me. She is showing me a bottle. The thermos bottle at her hand is full of hot and delicious rice porridge.

These repeated experiences have greatly changed my view of my mother-in-law. In fact, my mother-in-law is a very good person, a person with a cold face and a warm heart, so now I have accepted her from the bottom of my heart.

Besides, I found that living with my mother-in-law is actually quite good. You don't have to take care of your children, and you don't have to worry about eating and drinking every day. My husband and I just do what we want after work. This life is very happy.

Emotional summary:

In fact, it is not difficult to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Just remember one sentence, that is, "mother-in-law is also a mother." People's hearts are all meat. As long as you treat each other sincerely, my mother-in-law will definitely accept you sincerely.

If there is peace at home, everything will flourish, so always be kind. This is the way to get happiness.