Why is it so painful to love someone?

1 Of course there have been such people, which is an indelible mark of life. With him, everyone else in the world can be ignored. Even if I can't catch any clues about love, I am deeply grateful to him for accompanying me through a long life. Even if people look back at the past at dusk, they are glad that someone shed tears for him.

2. We always feel fear: fear of going to work and going to school during the New Year, fear of changing jobs, fear of traveling, fear of meeting strangers, fear of falling in love and fear of getting married. In fact, every fear contains an opportunity to move forward, which is the break of the old balance and the arrival of new hope; It is a breakthrough, progress and growth! How to overcome fear? Go!

In fact, whether you are here or not, I have been in the same place, nothing has changed, silly and cold. A friend said that the sunny day has changed, and Nirvana bathes in fire. I really don't feel anything. It's just a busy form to fill in the time. It's not that hard. Occasionally, just for a moment. I forgot after crying, and later I can't remember why I cried.

4, sick, one person; Bored, hiding alone; Pain, a person blocking; Walking alone in the street; On the way, a person thought; At night, a person's bed gradually became accustomed to a person's life, becoming silent, indifferent, unreasonable, unwilling to talk and unwilling to see me. It's not arrogance or nonsense, but I'm tired of those dependencies that may be lost at any time.

Along the way, I have grown not only physically, but also psychologically. I bid farewell to myself who loved fairy tales in those years, and when I encounter difficulties again, I will not hide in the corner and cry alone, because I have learned to share, whether it is laughter or pain; When my heart aches, I will shout loudly in the wild. In my opinion, this is not a declaration, but a liberation.

6, life is: another day in a daze, fate is not an opportunity, but a choice. Life is short, and a hundred years is fleeting. Colleagues, brothers and sisters, children, long or short, good or bad, are just accompanying each other. Being together is a kind of fate. We should cherish, maintain, support and tolerate each other and form a strong overall synergy.

7. If a person has never tasted bitterness, it is difficult to know the taste of sweetness. Facing suffering bravely and overcoming it optimistically is also a kind of practice. Without eternal night and winter, suffering will eventually pass, and sunshine will always come after the storm. Don't be afraid of the end, all the ends are new beginnings. In the end, we will find that life is like a circle, and the end point is also the starting point.

Love a person's heartache character.

8. Life always makes us black and blue, but in the end, those injured places will definitely become our strongest places. Perhaps, love is a kind of fate. What you deliberately pursue may not be available for life, but the brilliance you didn't expect will come unexpectedly in your indifference.

9. People are more or less looking forward to the future and missing the past, but they never know the danger of the future. People never know what will happen in the next moment, the next minute and the next second. Maybe there will be another scar, and the pain will remind me. The water is still dripping. Can the fate of a person who dare not face the future really be as he wishes?

10, the road was trampled, just on the steep hillside, destroying the traces of grass. The bare slate road is full of fallen leaves and a thick layer. Ye Er is crimson and withered, but it is not dry. It's a little soft to pinch. Turn it down, the dead leaves are moist and moist, and the fragrance of the soil is everywhere. The leaves on the ground are all wet water.

1 1. Treat me with waist-length hair and faint red lips. When I change myself, work hard, improve myself and become what I want. I guess I was over marriageable age at that time. However, nothing, at least I try to be an excellent person. You don't want it. At least there is someone else. Just because I am young, I am qualified and have capital.

12, many good things in life are obtained through choice. A good mood is the only wealth in life that cannot be deprived. If you have a good attitude, you will have a good mood. Don't regret yesterday's disappointment, don't worry about today's loss, don't worry about the gains and losses of the Ming Dynasty, be indifferent to fame and fortune, be content with happiness, let nature take its course and be free.

13, I almost forgot that without love, we still have that friendship. It is better to dance in the thunder and lightning than to hide in the wind and rain, even if you are soaked through, it is also a pleasure to enjoy life. One day, a month, a year, I looked at you, not deeply. One day and one month, I met unexpectedly, which has nothing to do with my heart. How do you know that after a long time, you will faint in twos and threes and stay in my heart.

14, worry-free every day, good mood every day. If you have a good attitude, you will have a good mood. Don't regret yesterday's disappointment, don't worry about today's loss, don't worry about the gains and losses of the Ming Dynasty, be indifferent to fame and fortune, be content with happiness, let nature take its course and be free. Take off the mask of vanity, be yourself, strive according to your inner guidance, live according to your own wishes, be indifferent, quiet, elegant and calm.

15, the day when I entered Qiu Lai in summer should be the most favorable season for my feelings, but I, with my wandering thoughts, wandered in the streets of the old south of the Yangtze River, stroking the mottled courtyard walls. How many corners have years worn away? A person walking in an alley, only to find that time has passed by me with a touch of his fingertips, leaving only a wandering memory.

16, there was no road in the world, but more people walked, and it became a road. There is a road in the world, and there is no road without people. There used to be many roads in the world, but they were all blocked, so there was no road. There are many roads in the world, only one is determined, and the result is a dead end. There is a dead end and a way out. If you walk into a dead end, if you have the courage, you can also make a way out.

17, the saddest love in the world, we don't love each other, but we have to be together. Someone can cheat you once, and the shame lies in her; But if she can lie to you twice, it's your shame. Money can't buy everything, but it can buy me; Violence can't solve everything, but it can solve you. I thought you wouldn't look back when you turned around, so why are you crying?

18, be a simple person and be practical. Don't indulge in fantasy, don't make much ado about nothing. Be happy, cheerful, tenacious, enthusiastic and sincere to people. Sincere, calm, generous, tolerant and normal. Always full of hope for life and smile at difficulties and hardships. Read more books and watch more. Eat less and eat good food. Have a dream, even if it is far away.

19. Life is like this. It is inevitable that there will be pain and injury. Whether I caught it or walked away, those things could not be separated from me. Although some things cannot be turned back, some memories cannot be sorted out, and some people can only be buried forever. Dry my tears, I want to go my way. If you really deserve love, I will miss you forever. Thank you for accompanying me.

20. When dealing with people, always keep a sincere heart, not make public, not humble, like a quiet person, with words as partners, simple heart and simple life. Don't talk about sadness and joy, don't talk about thinness and coldness, let time drift by, laugh it off, it's annoying, calm and calm. Enjoy the flowers and wait for the full moon.

2 1, love a person, not to possess her, but to make her live better and happily. But after all, because of various concerns, I gave up again and again. Perhaps, when one day, we can have the ability to pursue all the beauty and face all the difficulties, at that moment, we will tell you without hesitation that I like you.

22. Have you ever wished you were a hermaphrodite and could get rid of any thorns in your own world? Whether it is a light bulb hose, carrying heavy objects, or going home alone at night. So stubborn, with four words written on his face: stay away from strangers. I think most men of the same age in this world are so disappointing and unreliable. I want to be lonely, I want to be lonely, I want to go alone.

23. There are too many excuses to forget many things, forget to eat, forget to sleep, forget to live, forget to tolerate, forget to understand, forget to listen and forget to tell. We are always stingy with our own language, but I think you are stuck in your throat and can't say it. If you love someone, you must let him know, because you never know whether he just loves you.

24. To do things for people, we should think more, do more, prepare more, do more, persist more, sweat more, suffer more and taste more loneliness than others. The more you pay, the more experience you accumulate; Pay a little more, you can show a little more talent; A little more virtue will bring you one step closer to success.

25, holding hands for a long time will gradually become paralyzed; Happy for a long time will lose feeling; Hugging for a long time will make the body stiff; After a long time, friendship will get deeper and deeper; Love will become shallower and shallower after a long time; Hatred for a long time will hurt yourself; Pain will disappear for a long time; If you are free for a long time, you will be confused; After a long time, I will wait for the rabbit; Calm for a long time will lose passion; If you tolerate it for a long time, you will hide evil people and shelter evil people.

26. Can a person snuggle up in the past memories and vaguely see the phantom? I couldn't help but feel my heart, reaching out and gently touching the thin white and cold tone. The temptation of gently touching even made it melt in my own hands forever and disappear. Life is like this, you can never keep your promise to be together.

27. Please leave strongly, so that you are no longer in my memory; Don't give me an excuse to wait if we don't meet again. Please refuse mercilessly and let me accept that the story is over. Life has ups and downs, and you can't lose your mood without anything. Life feels tired, half from survival and half from inner comparison!

28. Restrain your temper and be silent occasionally, because impulse is the devil and will make you do irreparable things. The bigger the temper, the less able it is, and the first-class ability has no temper. This is the person who can really do great things. Whether a person can achieve great things depends on his temper. The bigger his temper, the less likely he is to succeed.

29. Nothing is eternal, and nothing is long-lasting. Make an excuse, anyone can go first. Everyone will be tired, no one can bear all the sadness for you, and people always learn to grow up by themselves. Be brave and don't change for anyone. If they can't accept the worst you, they don't deserve the best you.

30. Do you often have trouble doing things? You are not hard enough on yourself and others. Therefore, you are always sticky, you can't bear to refuse others, you can't make up your mind to make yourself better, you can't extricate yourself from the past, you are indecisive, you must be cruel once, otherwise you will never live out of me.

3 1, I think, bet my soul, then forget it from now on! But I can't give up in this world of mortals. Then simply, keep this silent past and let it grow quietly in the bottom of my heart, without disturbing, forgetting or giving up. In every morning and evening, every spring comes and goes, gently lift it up, silently recall it, and cherish it warmly.

32. Perhaps happiness is to accompany you through a lifetime journey, cross a bridge called Helplessness, and have a sip of soup called Meng Po. Maybe very tired, very tired, but never thought of giving up; Perhaps the scenery along the way is charming and full of temptation, but they maintain their initial feelings for each other; There may be disputes and differences, but they will still listen and acquiesce; Maybe we can't be together every second, but we will always have a place in our hearts.

33. Sometimes things always need to be accommodated. Those who want to be close and heart-to-heart are better off giving in. This is not cowardice, but wisdom. You might as well give in to what you are determined to go on and what you have achieved. This is not compromise, it's life. Besides, for other things, if you don't dump me, I won't dump you. This is called character.

34, no one said good night, just tell yourself; No one sent breakfast, so I cooked it myself. No one cares about sunny and rainy temperatures; Plan a complete weekend without an appointment. Always staring at the water in your hand, always thinking that getting rid of being single will make haste, waste time. Nothing is wrong except making yourself more wonderful. If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come.

35. When people are tired, rest; When you are tired, just calm down. When you grow up and mature, this society will see through. Tired and sad, just squat down and give yourself a hug. Because no one in this world can sympathize with you and pity you. You cried, tears are your own; You are in pain, and no one can feel it. Then you have to smile with tears.

36, easy to meet, relatively fragile; There is always a feeling of being ignored; Pay far more than you get; Very stubborn, used to the cold war; Laugh happily in front of others, but feel lonely when you are alone; Quiet in front of strangers, fooling around in front of friends; Sitting in front of the computer, I don't know what to do, but I don't want to turn it off; Don't like waiting, but always wait; Often inadvertently in a daze.

37. Life is short, don't underestimate yourself, work hard; Life is unfair, don't torture yourself, look down; The trough of life has become a solid cornerstone for me to rebuild my life. So don't be afraid of failure; As long as you live, you will inevitably face failure, unless you are careful as if you have never lived in your life. If so, your failure comes from giving up your life.

38. You are always naive to think that you see me thoroughly. In fact, I hang my happiness on my face and hide my pain in my heart. My expression can express thousands of feelings, but the most painful part is not easy for you to see. What you say inadvertently, what you do inadvertently, may be a sharp knife that hurts me. Because I care, I get hurt.

39. Since I chose to go alone, I can only leave the world with a lonely back. Suddenly, I was suddenly enlightened. Loneliness is a bitter and sweet wine, which blows away the tired breeze and is the antidote to imprison the spirit. But loneliness needs the courage to persist and a person to taste, so loneliness has become a bright rainbow.

40. The same world, as far as the heart, as far as a stranger, is addicted to its own world, walking on its own way of thinking, unable to communicate, communicate, cross, merge and meet. Only by silently enduring the tempering of years, the hardships of days, the bitterness of cooking smoke, and the trivial things with mixed flavors, the initial feelings are buried, and the poetic taste is gone.