How to be a stepmother

As a person who is abused by her stepmother, how to be a stepmother.

First of all, I have never recognized this stepmother, from my primary school until I graduated from college. The reason is that her IQ and EQ are too low, and she regards me as an opponent. I have also thought deeply about how to be a stepmother. I hope that the children of single-parent families will not be tossed by the stepmother, and the stepmother will not toss the children. Legally speaking, as long as the child is underage, you have the responsibility and obligation to monitor and raise it. Of course, children also have the responsibility to be filial to you. This is on the premise that your relationship is good. If you and your husband want another child, it's normal for the older child to hate your child, but if he likes children better, he won't care about it. In addition, as a stepmother, don't complain in front of your husband. Before, because I bought three clothes, my rural woman complained and told my dad that she was 19 years old, so she could buy clothes for herself at work. (The reason is that she 17 years old graduated from high school and went to work in the city to wash dishes. ) That night, I threw my money in the living room angrily. As a result, my dad dragged me out in the middle of the night and talked until 4 am. I'm willing to listen, because I'm worried that my father won't say that he is not feeling well and can't sleep in the middle of the night. I am a heartless person, so I slept soundly after listening to it. Generally, this kind of thing is to cry all night, gradually fall asleep, and live like nothing happened the next day. So I think being a stepmother still needs to have high emotional intelligence and IQ, and also needs to keep pace with the times. You'd better not say it without thinking. Especially the example I gave, isn't this a quarrel? ! I think for a child who can remember, the key to being a stepmother is to make friends with her and love her well, but when she makes a mistake, she should also talk to her about why she made such a mistake. It is time to educate her and tell him to do so. Treat it with a normal heart ~ ~ Don't appear to have low emotional intelligence and IQ, which will be looked down upon by children. How to walk into a child's heart? Well, my advice is to be sincere, because sincerity can always be seen. The rural woman in my family is not sincere to me, but she only does the most basic housework on the surface, but like my clothes and room, she never touches it, and she doesn't know if I am sick. This stepmother is really a failure. If she wants to get along with me, I won't refuse him. After all, it has been many years. So a drop of water wears away the stone, you can try. Come on! Don't be silly. Please give your child a brilliant childhood and a wonderful adolescence.