After four years of marriage, my wife holds her mobile phone every day without any communication. Is she still alive?

Thank you Wukong: With the progress of the times, mobile phones have become a part of people's lives, bringing convenience as well as troubles. From the perspective of friends' family, his wife is addicted to playing mobile phones, and quarreling is useless, which will only lead to family disharmony and lack of interaction and communication between you. I suggest you find a suitable time to have a good and frequent chat with your wife, exchange ideas with each other, and talk about the impact of being addicted to mobile phones on your health. thank you

Topic: Have you ever thought about getting married for four years? Why does my wife hold her mobile phone every day, and she doesn't look after the baby and clean the house? Is it to take care of the children or clean the house? Is she naturally lazy or not in the mood to do these things? ..... I think you are also responsible for your wife's behavior.

Women want to be cared for and cared for by men, and they also want to communicate with their loved ones on an equal footing. They like to listen to sweet words and are willing to pay for their loved ones. You have been married for four years. Have you reflected on whether you respect each other and communicate equally? I don't know what happened after you were married for four years, which made your wife ignore the children. Now, is your home and you still worth your wife's efforts? You can put yourself in your wife's shoes. If you were her, what would you do?

If you married your wife like this four years ago, did you communicate with her? If you really communicate like this, it means that your wife is naturally lazy, irresponsible, or doesn't take you seriously at all! Why not stop loss in time! And gave birth to innocent children!

Water under the bridge. Let's talk to her first. As a man, he can support his family and take responsibility. Don't play "male chauvinism". Talk to her more when something goes wrong, care more about her, and have a romantic day. I think your wife will change.

It's been four years. Why ask? I really don't want to put up with it. Let's communicate first. Give her a deadline to rectify. The effect is not good. Extend the deadline again to see if it is effective. If she cares about you and your family, she will be restrained.

Don't lose your temper directly, don't give an ultimatum directly, and have a buffer time.

You can wrap her with your mobile phone. You can give her more red envelopes every day. Money can be more or less. She will be very happy, looking forward to you, thinking about you, waiting for you, and acting quickly.

My wife only looks at her mobile phone and can live without communication.

Most women can control themselves. Once they have children, they are all to her.

And she doesn't communicate with you, which means you have problems, too. If you are a person who can make her feel more interesting and meaningful than a mobile phone, her attention will definitely shift to you.

I often say that "mobile phones have harmed a generation", and many people object to my remarks, saying that "times disease" and "mobile phone disease" are the same for everyone. Thinking about myself, I only play mobile phones at noon and night in the morning at most, and the total time is no more than three hours. What do you write at night, not playing with your mobile phone? The rest of the time is work and communication. I haven't been married for 4 years, and I hold my mobile phone every day, and I don't communicate with my family. Isn't this a "disease"? I guess it's past nine o'clock.

As an adult, lack of self-discipline and self-discipline is very dangerous, which will not only affect normal life, but also lead to obsessive-compulsive disorder, loss of motivation or ability to think and work, unnecessary waste of precious time, occupation of rest time, and bad for health. Neck disease, eye disease, blood disease and mental health will all affect a person's life order.

I hope all adults will set an example for young people, especially children, and use their mobile phones moderately within the specified time, for themselves, for others, for children, for families, for society and for the country!

Hello, I am Xiaoyu. I'm glad to answer your question. Nowadays, mobile phones are like spiritual opium. Men, women and children are holding mobile phones and watching eating and going to the toilet. I always look at my mobile phone when I have time. Mobile phones have affected our relationship, but couples still have to communicate before in life. I believe many families have your questions, so communicate more. When you have time, you can put down your mobile phone to enhance your feelings!

Thank you Wukong for inviting me. Hello, target. I'm glad to answer this question. I hope it can help the subject. Your comments and corrections are also welcome.

According to the subject's description, it was really his wife who did something wrong. She likes playing online games, not taking care of herself, children and family. This is a bit excessive, but since you and your wife are married and have children of their own. So I still suggest that the questions should be cautious.

Many people say that Chinese marriage is a bit of a moral kidnapping, because once you have your own children at home, you can't easily ask for a divorce, even if you are unhappy, you can't show it, let alone ask for a divorce. However, we have to consider the innocence of children, who really need the warmth of family.

Therefore, I suggest that everyone should try their best to save their marriage, spend more time with their wives, and try to understand what causes her to indulge in games, so as to prescribe the right medicine.

Finally, I still hope that no matter who is right on both sides, I will not always go against the wrong side, because at least one person is willing to pay, and the relationship can last. Therefore, I wish the subject can save his wife here, and I wish everyone good health and all the best!

Supervise your wife every day.

If you stare at your wife like a thief every day, it is estimated that it will not only have no effect on your wife's addiction to playing mobile phones, but may also be counterproductive. But if we change the way, it should have a good effect. As long as your wife answers the phone for a long time, your parents will ignore you, or do something for you, or simply invite your wife to have tea and chat, and your wife will gladly accept this way.

Make suggestions in a caring tone

If your wife thinks about collecting all the time every day, she will pick up her mobile phone when she is free. You can give your wife some advice, but you should pay attention to the methods. If you use the tone of command or scolding, it is likely to arouse your wife's "rebellious feeling." You can persuade your wife in a caring tone, such as paying attention to health, such as taking a rest with your eyes.

Directly "spoil" my wife's mobile phone

If your persuasion doesn't work and your wife is still playing with her mobile phone, you can just hold her mobile phone and tell her in a "doting" tone that I want to be with you for the rest of my life. What should I do if I don't pay attention to rest and health now? No matter how angry his wife is, she will listen to you very sweetly.

Help his wife arrange her daily time

My wife who plays mobile phone every day is really free. If she is busy every day, how can she have time to play with her mobile phone all day? Then, please "help" your wife to arrange her daily time, for example, let your wife do something for you or let her do something at home. My wife has time to play mobile phones, so it is better to do something else, which is good for her health and can prevent her from indulging in mobile phones.

Take time to exercise with your wife every day.

Modern people are busy with work, and migrant workers will arrange their time very full whether they are doing business or not. The more money you earn, the worse your physical fitness. Playing mobile phone again is like walking. Make time every day to go out with my wife and go shopping. This will not only enhance the feelings of your husband and wife, but also exercise each other's health. The most important thing is to ask your wife to put down her cell phone.

Control "evil" with "evil"

My wife's addiction to playing mobile phones will definitely have an impact on the family. If persuasion doesn't work, then you can take an "evil" way to your wife, that is, when your wife calls you or wants you to do something for her, give her a dirty look, let her feel it, then pretend to be affectionate and smile at the mobile phone. Usually your wife's attention to the mobile phone will be shifted to you, okay? When appropriate, give your wife a showdown and talk it over.

"Exercise before going to bed" makes the wife sleep well

Generally, women will have their own jobs during the day, so playing mobile phones will be put at night. Usually, after I go to bed, I hold my mobile phone and don't let go. Chatting, playing games, grabbing red envelopes, so happy. I am ashamed to tell you, don't blush, hug your wife, give her your tenderness, have a sweaty "bedtime exercise" together, and then hug each other and sleep well. What mobile phone are you playing with? Shh, keep your voice down.