How can married people get along with the opposite sex to avoid suspicion?

There is a saying that "those who are clear are self-clear, and those who are turbid are self-turbid."

It means telling us that "people who have never done bad things are not afraid of ghosts knocking at the door at night;" People who have done bad things will naturally feel guilty when knocking at the door at night. "

Although this sentence is particularly reasonable, in reality, it always seems to be self-evident. Because in other people's intuition, judgment and speculation, first of all, I always believe what I have seen with my own eyes, and rarely think about others from an understanding perspective and perspective.

For example, "For example, if you see a man and a woman sitting together, talking and laughing, there will be some ambiguous physical movements from time to time, such as scraping each other's nose and gently pushing each other ... In this case, most people will think that their relationship is unusual, right? Actually! They may just be friends and colleagues!

However, it is no wonder that people will speculate in that direction when they see scenes full of ambiguity in other people's eyes. As for whether you are pure or not? I don't care! Others only believe what they see, don't they? "You shave your nose and gently push each other. This is not normal. Can you make these physical movements that only close people have? " Ghost letter!

Therefore, from this example, we can know that whether you have a family to get along with the opposite sex or no family to get along with the opposite sex, the first thing to do is to keep your distance in communication. This distance refers to: the distance between your bodies, including "the distance between walking and sitting together, just keep the normal communication posture."

Furthermore, in the process of communication, stop some body movements, for example, when talking about happiness and emotions, you must restrain your body movements. Some people are used to patting each other with their hands in order to praise each other for speaking well and being moved. You should know that this is "men and women give and receive without kissing"!

When others see it, it is easy for others to misunderstand.

Third, avoid dating or going to the movies at night. If necessary, you'd better bring your best friend or friend. If a woman of the opposite sex always asks you out at night, it is likely that she has an agenda. At this time, the first thing to do is to politely refuse. Everyone knows the word "discretion".

Fourth, don't accept gifts from the opposite sex easily, especially expensive ones. You know, people give gifts. Of course, light gifts are another matter. When you receive expensive gifts from others, there must be expectations behind them. Such expectations include: asking you to give TA spiritual feedback, such as gratitude, gratitude and so on. Or physical dedication, etc. ...

Fifth, try to avoid shopping with the opposite sex for a long time. For example, if you spend all day with a man and have nothing to eat, drink and drink, others will misunderstand that your relationship is not simple unless you bring friends and girlfriends.

Try to choose daytime when dating the opposite sex. If it's just the two of you, don't get along too long. Eating, drinking tea or something is only half a day at most, right? After half a day, they went back to their homes.

In short, as a married person, when communicating with the opposite sex, you should keep your distance, be polite and respect others, and try to avoid provocative or suggestive language in your speech, because it is easy for the other person to have fantasies and misunderstand your meaning.