These three qualities are indispensable on the road of growing up after 1995.

Zeng guopan said: "a person who likes reading can't have a bad character;" A person with good character will never be unlucky in this life. "

The process of growth is the process of breaking cocoon into butterfly. In this process, we need to work as hard as anyone to become an excellent person. However, if a person wants to achieve sustained success in his career and life, it is not enough to work hard, but also to cultivate three indispensable personalities.

0 1 Modest people are more powerful.

The second of kazuo inamori's six great efforts is "modesty, not pride". He believes that modesty is the most important personality factor of human beings.

When I was in primary school, the Chinese teacher often warned us that "modesty makes people progress and pride makes people fall behind". At that time, I kept reading with the teacher, but I didn't understand the meaning.

I didn't understand this until I grew up. Looking at all kinds of people around you, it turns out that those who are confident and arrogant are sometimes not liked by others. On the contrary, those who are modest and prudent can always get praise and recognition.

Sharp-edged when young and ignorant, modest and sincere when young and promising. This is the growth track that everyone should follow.

When kazuo inamori started his business when he was young, he always believed an old saying of China, "Only modesty is bliss". When the company was running smoothly, the scale was expanding and becoming arrogant, he kept telling himself to be modest and stick to this motto all his life, which made him achieve great achievements in his career and life.

Montaigne wrote in the Complete Works of Montaigne: "The growth process of truly knowledgeable people is like the growth process of wheat ears: when the wheat ears are empty, the wheat ears grow rapidly and proudly, but when the wheat ears are mature and full, they begin to be modest and hang down their awns."

Appreciating a person begins with talent and ends with character. I like Dong Qing because I always have a cordial feeling when I listen to her hosting the Spring Festival Gala every year, but I really begin to admire her, starting with readers, and admire her talent and insight.

I still remember watching a CCTV program "The First Lesson" a long time ago. Dong Qing interviewed a 96-year-old famous translator-Xu Yuanchong.

In the video, Mr. Xu is sitting in a chair, and Dong Qing is kneeling next to the old man on one leg, listening to the old man telling his story. When asking questions, he also leaned close to the old man's ear and spoke slowly.

In a short video of three minutes, kneeling three times, Mr. Dong Qing and Mr. Lao Xu on the stage let the audience see the embodiment of two Chinese virtues:

The old gentleman devoted his life to cultural undertakings, translation and cultural development.

Dong Qing, who was interviewed on his knees, explained the virtue of modesty and taught the children a moral lesson of "respecting teachers and valuing education".

At that time, many netizens commented that "this kneeling is the most beautiful pride of chinese". In Dong Qing's actions, we can see her devotion to culture, awe of knowledge and respect for her elders.

Humble people are often the most powerful.

A progressive life needs constant recovery.

Kazuo inamori said in Six Strives: "When I was young, I was sometimes arrogant. Therefore, as a compulsory course every day, I have to reflect on myself. I am embarrassed, I still can't reflect every day, but as long as I realize it, I will reflect immediately. "

Introspection is a mentor on the road to growth. In introspection, we learn to accept our imperfections, admit our immaturity and witness our growth. At the same time, we should also face up to our own shortcomings, learn to criticize ourselves and correct them in time.

Looking back on the course of self-reflection this year, I saw a person who changed from laziness to self-discipline I think this is the charm of self-reflection.

I like what Meng Wei, a master of handbooks, said: every day's reflection, your progress is in the sky; Reflect weekly, and your progress is weekly; Reflect on the month, and your progress is in the month.

Therefore, how you choose to treat life, how life will give back to you, and the reason for your harvest are all the fruits you planted.

Gratitude is the highest attitude in life.

Every time I see the news of Ethiopian Airlines crash recently, I think that I have to take Ethiopian Airlines every time I return home, and I will unconsciously think, "You must know how to be grateful when you are alive." This is also the fourth principle of kazuo inamori's six major efforts.

Buddha said: "No matter who you meet, he is the one who should appear in your life. This is no accident. He will certainly teach you something. "

Knowing how to be grateful is a compulsory course for everyone in his life. Since I was born, I have thanked my parents, teachers, leaders and colleagues for their kindness. With a grateful heart, we can find all kinds of beauty in life and feel the happiness of life more easily.

I made a video call to my mother this morning, but it took a long time to get through. At the other end of the video, the mother is wrapped in a headscarf, her face is dusty, her lips are chapped and her hands are covered with mud. She and her father are farming in the sand. Seeing these suddenly made me feel very sad. Mom said it was going to change, so she hung up the phone in a hurry.

Growing up, my parents taught me to be polite and grateful. In my life, I always say "thank you", even if it is a small matter, I will seriously say thank you.

I thank my parents for their kindness. Although they didn't give me a luxurious life, they never let me starve. Although I don't have enough assets, I have never slacked off my studies; Although it didn't help my career, it never stopped me from pursuing life.

Because of gratitude, I met many noble people on the road of growing up. Someone taught me how to love, someone taught me how to bear grievances and sadness, and someone taught me to keep learning in life.

Anyway, I have a deeper understanding and expectation of life because I know how to be grateful.

Bi Shumin said: "Learn to keep yourself happy, be grateful constantly, and face the bright place. After a long time, you will naturally learn the trick of getting along with joy. I hope that as soon as you stand up, people will see the brilliance of life from you. "

Pay the same efforts as anyone else, let us make great achievements in our career, know how to be modest, know how to reflect and know how to be grateful, so that we can go further and longer on the road of life and career.