Learn how to persuade and impress from "Snow Monster Adventure"

Yesterday I went to see the recently released cartoon "Snow Monster Adventure" with my friends. Although it is a cartoon, I have to say that you can learn a lot from an adult's perspective. This is also one of the charms of the movie. Even if people watch the same plot, the same scene, and the same ending, only they know their inner feelings best, and the occasional emotions cannot be expressed in words. In fact, the same is true for fitness, and it is true for many things. Therefore, people will feel particularly happy if they see accurate words that can express the feelings that are close to their own hearts.

Let’s talk about “Snow Monster Adventure”. One of the scenes that particularly impressed me was when the heroine persuaded the hero Miguo to believe her words and explore the unknown, incredible new world that subverted the three views of the snow monster family. Although Mi Guo has always been obsessed with the heroine, generally people tend to accept what the person they like says. At the same time, the heroine showed him a lot of "evidence" - proving the existence of the new world. But Miguo still can't abandon the "iron rules of the village" that he has "adhered to" since he was a child.

A lot of times, it’s really hard to let go of old ideas that you believed in in the past. It’s also difficult to make radical changes from the past. If you want to quit drinking and eating late night snacks, and become a person who loves sports and develops good living habits. So how do you take that step?

In the movie, the heroine did not continue to argue with Miguo because she did not believe her words or the evidence in front of her. She turned around and said, "I'll take you somewhere." What follows is a more romantic scene, with the two of them enjoying the beautiful scenery and exploring caves together. The male protagonist was naturally moved in the end and agreed to explore the unknown new world.

Some people may think that this is a routine. Yes, but this illustrates a very simple and simple truth - when you want to persuade and impress someone, even if that person is yourself, to make changes and accept new ideas, what should you do more effectively? , is more appropriate?

As the saying goes, move with emotion and learn with reason. Note that "moving with emotion" must come before "knowing with reason". To make changes, first of all, it is not enough to just talk about it. We all know that actions matter. But many times, I know it’s important in my heart, but I just feel like I can’t control myself. At this time, it is useless to force yourself, just like you can't forcefully change the thoughts in other people's brains, unless you have super powers to control others, just kidding.

Then what we should do is very simple - to impress others and ourselves. You can choose the method you think is appropriate. Of course, this is also based on a certain understanding of the other party.

As for facing strangers, many so-called routines are actually based on theory and experiment. It is said that the times are changing with each passing day, but human nature remains unchanged. Mastering some psychological knowledge means learning some routines, which can play a certain role in most situations.

But more, we should take this opportunity to understand each other and understand ourselves more deeply. It's not easy to change yourself, and it's even harder to change others. Although there are many lonely moments in life, people are still creatures that need companionship. Maybe one day, you really want to persuade the person you like to travel to your favorite place with you. Well, how to impress and convince them?