Dear, can you take some time to talk to me every day?

Text/Little Deer’s Happy Garden

Each of us longs for beauty, yearns for an extraordinary life, and strives to make ourselves look stronger. I know very clearly how I want to get better and live a fulfilling life, but sometimes it is easy to ignore the company of people around me.

We spend all our time on ourselves or communication devices, even if we find a little time to spend with our families.

Recently, I suddenly felt that I should do something. I didn’t want to waste time in ignorance, so I participated in a writing check-in activity. I immediately felt that I had found an organization. I really liked this thing. I have written before, but I just didn’t stick to it.

I finish my homework on time every day, and the available time is not too generous. I have to take care of my baby, so he can only do his own thing during his lunch break. As long as you have time, read the articles on the Internet, learn other people's writing methods, and clean up when you have time. My days are quite fulfilling, and I really like this feeling of fullness.

It’s just that when I was pursuing my dream, I forgot the existence of one person, and that was my child’s father. When he has time, he quickly helps me take care of the children or cook, and whenever I have time, I quickly look at my mobile phone. He says that I am a mobile phone addict, and he never uses his mobile phone unless he deliberately contacts his classmates.

Later, we sat on the sofa and talked for almost two hours while the children were sleeping. He listed many of my "crimes". Sometimes my unconscious words and actions hurt his heart, and he was worried about causing a quarrel, so he kept silent. But as time went by, he felt that I still hadn’t changed, so we should communicate with each other when we have some free time.

It’s been a long time since we sat quietly at home and chatted together. Since we had a child, he has been busy and I have been worried. We are both very busy and it’s very late when we get home. I’m so tired that I can only think about rest. I miss that feeling very much, but the time the two people spend alone together will become very little, and some conflicts will arise due to lack of communication.

My child’s father said that I gave my time to my child, my mobile phone, and my bed, and he became transparent and ignored it. He really hoped that we could watch TV and chat together. I participated in writing activities again and had some time to write quickly. In order to complete the task and weigh the pros and cons, I abandoned him and chose writing. He was quite sad and felt that he was not as important as his mobile phone.

Don’t lose your original pursuit of family happiness because of so-called personal pursuits.

His wish is that I can talk to him every day and have our own space, instead of having to rest separately at night. Now it has become a luxury, and communication has become a topic of discussion in the future.

We spend a lot of time with our family members. We are also patient when facing our parents, but we tend to lose patience when facing our loved ones. Maybe she also feels that he is by her side every day, so it doesn't matter if she speaks more or less.

Managing the relationship between two people requires the efforts of both parties. It is easy to fall in love but difficult to stay together, and life is not easy either. There is no good that should be taken for granted, only by giving can you get something.

Every morning he cooks and takes care of the kids, so I can do something I like. Thank you for his support.

Time makes us cherish each other more, and also makes us understand that companionship is the best love, both for parents and lovers.

On the road to your dreams, don’t forget that the person you love is by your side. Take time to maintain your relationship. Don’t let love get further and further away from us. Take some time to express your love.