What to say when asking a girl out to play?

The chatting method for asking a girl out to play is as follows:

1. Chat about your future. Tell us what you think of the future, what you think about in the future, and what your goals are. Girls usually have a crush on boys who put in the effort and take action. When talking, talk about your feelings as much as possible, and don't make it difficult to realize. After all, it is what you promised to realize. Otherwise, girls will think you are a pimp.

2. Talk about hobbies, friends, and family. You can ask her what she likes to do in her spare time. If you have the same interest, that would be great. Just talk about that interest. If not, learn about her hobbies. If you are not familiar with each other when you are dating, you can first talk about your situation, such as your friends and family, provided that the other person is also willing to share these topics with you. Any inquiry should make the other party feel relaxed and should not make the other party feel tense like a trial.

3. Let her talk about her plans. Some girls actually have ideas, but boys usually only pay attention to their appearance. So you can also ask tentatively to see what she thinks is the most important thing in life based on her plans for her future. This kind of topic is usually rarely discussed, so if you do talk about it, it will give her a unique understanding of you, which will leave a deep impression on her. Of course, don’t make the atmosphere too boring when talking about this kind of topic, and always look at the other person’s face. If the other person frowns, you should help change the subject.

4. Talk about gossip. Talk about the news or some celebrity gossip, or what is the most exaggerated gossip she has ever heard in the company? Or ask her what she would do if she were Wang Baoqiang or the like, to judge whether she has the same concept.

5. Talk about childhood past. Some interesting stories from childhood, although full of embarrassing moments, are always memorable. You can even talk about your first love, your elementary school classmate you secretly liked, or some embarrassing things you have done. These contents can enhance mutual feelings.