Have you ever been suspected by others? What are your psychological feelings? How do you win the trust of others? (About 2 words, not too many)

The current social reality is a serious crisis of trust. Suspicion between people is too normal, but what is the reason for suspicion? Mostly because of misunderstanding! Misunderstanding leads to suspicion, and suspicion will lead to more misunderstandings. The more misunderstandings, the more likely it is to lead to a crisis of trust. This is a vicious circle. It is difficult for anyone who is misunderstood to accept it psychologically. After all, it is impossible to happen from your own point of view. At this time, you should think about it from another angle. What kind of mentality do you have when you misunderstand others? It is still this mentality of being very sure that things will happen, and the misunderstood person is just as sure that things are not like this when you are misunderstood. There are always two sides to things, so you can't make him unhappy just because he makes you unhappy, which will only cause more misunderstandings. Start a new vicious circle.

There is no shortcut to win the trust of others.

First, be honest with others, regardless of their status, status and relationship with you;

Second, be tolerant and patient. Take a step back. If you don't give up, I'll give up. I'll explain later when I have a chance.

Third, be rational, and never let your emotional value reach the extreme, whether it is positive or negative.

If you talk a lot, you can ignore the gossip behind you.

Tell me about the solution to the suspicion and misunderstanding. My personal experience is more abstract. Hehe _

Learn Tai Chi to be soft and firm. When the opponent's fist hits, if you also attack with your fist, it will only hurt both of them. Try to solve it in another way and catch his fist and pull it hard along his strength.

It's easier said than done, depending on how you realize it, hehe.