What's it like to be isolated by everyone?

A person can't be isolated by everyone in the world. Anyway, there will still be a few friends around, but if you are isolated by most people, you feel uncomfortable and insecure. Others don't understand your pain yet.

Although isolated by them, you are still eager to join them and want to integrate into them, but they will not accept you, which will make you feel lonely, desperate and very uncomfortable.

What if you are isolated in your life?

1, don't get into a dead end. Many people will fall into a dead end if they don't handle interpersonal relationships well, and they will think that they have problems and blame themselves too much. In serious cases, they may even have doubts. No one can believe that the whole world will isolate itself by magnifying the pain.

This feeling is very uncomfortable, in fact, there is no need to blame yourself. First of all, it is someone else's fault to isolate others. You don't have to blame yourself at all, and you don't have to complain about everything

2, don't deliberately cater to others. Many people are isolated by others in their lives or dormitories. They feel that no matter what they do, they are two people, but they are alone, which is very embarrassing. Look on the bright side, why do you feel wronged? This will make you feel more wronged.

3. Speak out. If someone breaks your bottom line, speak up. Don't be afraid. Otherwise, the gap between you will be deeper. Even if you don't stay with these people in the future, you will still have a shadow in your heart and always have a knot. This is really not worth the candle.

4, keep yourself, don't let other people's words affect your words and deeds. This is very important. If others isolate you, they will definitely belittle you. Of course, you don't need to care about other people's opinions, and you don't need to care too much.

5. Have your own circle of friends. Some people say that no matter what kind of people will have friends. The world is so big, no one will be liked by everyone, and no one will be hated by everyone. If you don't live well in this circle, you must have a friend in other circles that you can really meet.

Doing the above points well does not guarantee that you will not be isolated at all, but at least you can get rid of the feeling of being isolated and try to be yourself. You may not have many friends when you are isolated, but you won't have none.