The girlfriend asked for a gift of 300,000 yuan, and after the man collected it, he married a girl born in the 1990s. Do you think what he did was right?

Introduction: The girlfriend asked for a gift of 300,000 yuan, and after the man collected it, he married a girl born in the 1990s: Don’t use money to test your relationship!

Betrothal gifts are a stumbling block for young people on their way to marriage. The reason why many young people do not get married is because they do not have the material conditions for marriage.

Getting married requires a lot of money. Buying a house, a car, a wedding, and three betrothal gifts cost money; it is difficult for a rich man to be a man without money.

Any young man who can get married and start a family without relying on his parents in his twenties is considered a successful person.

I think: When couples are together, their relationship should be the most important thing. Get married when it’s time to get married. If the conditions are good, then it should be grand. If the conditions are good, then it should be more low-key. Don't try to show off your weight to the public, over-consume, or let money affect your relationship. It will be a waste that outweighs the gain.

Xia Fu, 28, has been in love with her boyfriend for five years. When it was time to get married, her boyfriend Xiao Qiang panicked because his job had just stabilized and his family was not very well off.

Xiao Qiang’s parents had already done their best to give him the down payment for a new house, and they were unable to prepare a 300,000 yuan gift.

Xia Fu is the eldest in the family, and she has two younger brothers waiting to get married.

The reasons why the parents want a bride price of 300,000 yuan are as follows: on the one hand, because their daughter is indeed outstanding and deserves the 300,000 yuan gift; on the other hand, they are worried that their son will also need to pay a bride price when he marries a wife in the future.

Xia Fu had no choice. She also wanted to get married, but her parents' orders could not be violated. She urged Xiao Qiang to borrow money from relatives and friends every day.

Xiao Qiang loves his girlfriend very much. During the five years they were together, his salary was basically spent on buying gifts for his girlfriend, going on dates, and traveling.

In order to get a wedding gift of 300,000 yuan, he and his parents also went around borrowing money, which offended all relatives and friends. Anyone who has borrowed money will understand. Seeing his parents begging for help made him feel really uncomfortable.

In three months, Xiao Qiang sold all the valuable things at home and borrowed everything he could. Finally, he collected enough for the 300,000 yuan gift, but Xiao Qiang couldn't be happy at all. .

The experience of borrowing money during this period of time made him suddenly grow a lot and see the ways of the world more clearly; at the same time, he was constantly reflecting on his relationship.

Why did my girlfriend of 5 years, who knew her family didn’t have so much money, ignore her own embarrassing situation? Not only did she not help find a solution, but she also helped her parents speak.

The urgent desire to get married disappeared in Xiao Qiang's heart. He seriously thought about his relationship for the past five years and decided to break up and find a more pragmatic woman to marry.

Xiao Qiang told his girlfriend that since his family couldn’t afford the money and he couldn’t afford to marry, it was better to break up.

My girlfriend was immediately stunned. She never imagined that it would be like this. Has five years of youth been wasted like this?

But no matter how much she cried, it could not change the fact of the breakup. Xiao Qiang's heart had become cold towards her.

Later, Xiao Qiang went on a blind date and found a well-matched girl born in the 1990s. They were quite suitable in every aspect, and they only asked for a bride price of 80,000 yuan.

The remaining 220,000 yuan, plus the gifts received, will all be used to pay off debts. After getting married, there will be no need for debt and no need to bear too much pressure.

Xiao Qiang is very happy that he made such a choice. Not only did he not let his parents sell the iron, but he also married a better girl.

But in the mouth of his ex-girlfriend Xia Fu, he became a complete heartless man, saying that he had been playing with the relationship for five years, but when it was time to get married, he married someone else.

For such an ending, I think no one is wrong. It does not mean that a family does not belong to the same family. People with inconsistent views will divorce even if they get married.

I think: Xiao Qiang’s choice is also quite difficult, but in the long run, he is right, he chose a wife that suits him.

Don’t use money to test feelings or human nature, because it cannot stand the test. Only when a person is in real difficulty can he know who his true love is.