How should adults correctly enlighten children who have experienced domestic violence?

The world is not always full of goodwill, and not every child can grow up healthily and happily. Many children will experience domestic violence in their childhood. Some of these children have been well guided and can grow up healthily, while others have left a lifelong shadow in their hearts.

So how should adults correctly enlighten children who have suffered domestic violence or children who have experienced domestic violence?

Careful companionship, let children believe that the world is still warm. Every child who has been abused by domestic violence is anxious and afraid. They can't trust others, and they are always afraid that others will treat them maliciously. Therefore, they will keep a closed space for themselves in their hearts. This space does not allow others to enter, and they dare not go out easily. At this time, adults must be patient with their children and use their care and love to heal their inner pain. And tell children not to be afraid, no matter what happens, they will be protected by adults and grow up healthily under the care of adults.

Lead children to participate in outdoor activities and play with them. Children are the most spiritual and tacit. They can talk to each other in the process of companionship and conversation and become good friends. Adults can often lead their children to take part in some outdoor picnics, or play football and basketball, and guide them to play with other children more often, and slowly get out of the shadow area in group activities.

Watch some warm movies or listen to some soothing music with your children. Every adult of us feels scared when we are hurt, not to mention young children. Therefore, for children who have suffered from domestic violence, adults can often take him to see some inspirational and warm movies to let them know whether the warmth in this world is eternal; Listen to more soothing music to relax them and gradually forget those unhappy things.