What kind of life do you want?

Everyone's life is different, and no one is better than anyone else.

I am born after 95, which is an embarrassing age, no matter how old or young. This may be the age of newcomers in the workplace or the age of graduates. Most of my parents were born in the 1970s. The 1970s was an era of reform and opening-up, and China's social living standard was greatly improved, so our growing environment was relatively rich. We are not faced with the dilemma of not having enough to eat and not wearing warm clothes. We are also faced with the pressure of life brought by the progress of the times. Of course, this ever-expanding pressure of life is slowly passed on to people in the next era.

We have been taught to be excellent people since childhood. Because in this situation where everyone is working hard, if you don't work hard, you will be left behind. We must work hard to make ourselves excellent. First of all, you should be admitted to a key school, then enter a key class, then take the first place, get treatment, develop all kinds of good jobs and offer to graduate.

To be honest, I really just want to be an ordinary person.

Of course, this doesn't mean that you don't need to make progress. Money is endless; People cannot be the best. Also, good grades, entering a good school, getting a good offer is excellent? I don't think so.

Xiaoxue, the sister of my relative's family, and I are in the same class, but she did not take the college entrance examination, but took the college entrance examination in advance. Although the admission process was a bit bumpy, I finally got into this institution. Sister Xiaoxue graduated from my junior year because she studied for three years. After graduation, she entered a steel enterprise in my hometown through her own efforts and became a financial officer. Eight to five every day, rest on weekends, and work overtime occasionally. The salary is enough to support her to live in this small town. Although she spends an hour on her way to work every day, I envy her this life from the bottom of my heart.

My hometown is a small town, without the pressure of buying a house like a big city, and it is also a place with beautiful buildings. When Xiaoxue graduated and started to work, it was also the time when I started my internship in a well-known Internet company in China. I was in Beijing and Xiaoxue was in my hometown. When I was an intern, I rented a room in an old community near the company, and Xiaoxue lived at home. While working overtime in the company at seven o'clock in the evening, Xiaoxue's sister was walking with her family in the street of her hometown. At 9 o'clock in the evening, when I walked out of the company with street lamps, Xiaoxue's sister was sitting on the sofa with her mother watching TV dramas, talking and laughing.

From beginning to end, I think Xiaoxue's sister is excellent, because she has done what I can't.

A few days ago, I read Mr Cai Chongda's skin. In this book, Mr. Cai Chongda introduces his former friends, whose last life may not be so beautiful in the eyes of the world. But I think we are always bystanders, and we are not qualified to stand on the moral high ground to judge other people's lives. Everyone is born with a different starting point and a different final destination. No one is superior to anyone, and there is no comparative significance.

There are often many people who criticize us from a good angle and tell you what to do, but sometimes think about it carefully, is this the life you want?

In the first twenty years of my life, I experienced several life-and-death parting and illness. This made me deeply realize that everything is a trivial matter except life and death; People other than family and friends are destined to be passers-by.

After realizing the life I want, I will relax, stay with my family and enjoy life. But the life I want is not an excellent life in the eyes of others, but a very ordinary life; What I want in life is to have dinner with my family and take a walk with my parents after 9: 00 to 5: 00.

Of course, study hard, but there is only one Bill Gates in this world. I know that people's desires are endless, in this impetuous world. But people still have to be satisfied.

In fact, after all, I just want to be an ordinary person and live an ordinary life.