When you are old, who will love the painful wrinkles on your aging face?

Reading Cao Xiaowen's Silent Waiting, the movie version shows two old people eating in the cafeteria: the old man helped the old woman to move her feet with difficulty, and it took them about ten minutes to walk from the restaurant door to the dining table and chair. The old man helped the old lady order her favorite things slowly. The old man put them on the plate one by one and slowly returned to his seat. When eating, the old man carefully cut the meat for the old lady to eat. Looking at the old lady eating with relish, the old lady's face looked pampered and satisfied with love. Although the two old people didn't communicate while eating, every subtle movement conveyed an unspeakable tacit understanding and meticulous care. Especially after dinner, the old lady has to go to the toilet, and there is only a small corner between the men's and women's toilet doors. The old lady went for too long, about half an hour. When the guests went to the toilet frequently, the old man shrank tightly and waited patiently.

The scene of two old people eating, and the scene of the old people waiting patiently for their wives to go to the toilet, have been deeply imprinted in my mind inadvertently, touching and unforgettable.

In fact, there are many such warm and moving pictures in life. In the park, I often meet an old man pushing his paraplegic wife for a walk, which seems relaxed. In fact, he ate and slept behind his back day after day. How many little-known hardships he has to accompany and take care of. An ordinary couple named "soul mates" are often brushed in Tik Tok. The wife became a vegetable four months after giving birth to her son. The husband spent 20 years feeding her a mouthful of rice and a mouthful of water like a child, taking care of her daily life and awakening the memory of her sleeping for six years. Now my wife's health is slowly recovering. He dresses his paralyzed wife neatly and beautifully every day, and her face is always filled with a happy smile. He insisted on making simple promises for more than 20 years. He is very sad that he has to bear it, but his face is old and his heart is unwilling. He silently promised his love in his heart and never broke his heart until he was old. His constancy to love is touching. Ordinary husband and wife love each other like a stone. I believe he will awaken the miracle of love with the song of love.

In ordinary life, when our own face is fading, can we also have such lucky gaze, companionship and care? In the long years, when our body is weak and our soul has nowhere to place, can there be a person who silently waits for each other without regrets?

The essence of marriage is companionship and responsibility. I hope to win a heart and never leave each other. Love in youth depends on mutual tolerance and understanding. In the second half of life, lovers not only have love and companionship, but also have the responsibility and responsibility of love. Young couples stay with each other when they are old, but the sunset is the most beautiful. I would like to cherish the person who accompanied us through the storm in ordinary life, love at home, tolerate and bear each other, and when we are old, there is someone who loves the painful wrinkles on our faces!