Why do some women want to marry rich old men?

Old man, what did you say, old man? My husband is 30 years old, and I always call him uncle. 70-year-old man, 20-something girl? There are very few people with such a big age gap. 20 years away from being an old man. . . .

There are many reasons. Mature men, with more experience, will make women feel that they have re-recognized the world, so they are more attractive to women, have excellent material conditions, have more experience in dealing with emotional problems, and make women feel that older men know how to take care of themselves better.

A little girl in her twenties, looking for an old man in her sixties and seventies. Yes, this is a gold digger who wants to be opportunistic, controlled by money and blinded by material things, and knows that money is not equal to happiness. In order to satisfy their vanity, most material women would rather marry a bald old man than live with their beloved boyfriends of the same age. But material girls are not necessarily bad girls. Maybe she has a family that can reassure her. Nothing is absolute, and no one's life is a copy. . . . .

There is a woman who will marry an old man because of true love, and there is also a woman who lacks fatherly love. Of course, this situation is rare.

Because her parents divorced, her father was not at home all the year round, or her father seldom cared about her children, which caused serious psychological obstacles to the girl and made her timid.

When this kind of girl meets a mature and steady old man who knows how to take care of herself, she feels that she has found a harbor. Maybe you will mistake this feeling for love. . . .

There is another kind of woman who will marry an old man because she loses confidence in love.

Because of the failure of feelings or marriage, marriage is betrayed and disheartened about love. I think I've seen it clearly. It is better to marry love than to marry money. If you don't give your heart, you won't be sad.

If there is no suitable second marriage, you will choose to marry an old man. Some women aged 40 to 50 don't have to worry about their children when they grow up. With family conditions, there is no more pressure and trouble at home. There seems to be no reason to continue the marriage that was originally reconciled. At this age, there are not many choices and requirements for divorce. It's not surprising to find a widowed old man. . . .

Once, a beautiful young 23-year-old girl had a caesarean section. After the child came out, the midwife came out with the child to inform the family. When she saw a bald old man waiting at the door, she went over and said:

Are you the child's grandfather? This is your grandson. Look how cute he is!

The old man smiled awkwardly like constipation and said:

I am the father of the child.

As the saying goes, turnips and cabbages have their own tastes. Some people like the beautiful life they have created by themselves. Some people just enjoy ready-made results. If treating material comforts is very important in your heart, then older people are not a problem at all.

The old man has struggled all his life, and naturally he has no status and no money. He can find an old man with strong financial resources and enjoy his contacts and economy. For many girls who have struggled all their lives, this is undoubtedly a shortcut.

Of course, if there is love, I also believe it. After all, now, age is not a problem, and height is not a distance. Life is your choice, whether you are happy in your heart or look happy, and the taste can only be understood by the parties themselves!

Marry a rich old man, you can enjoy material life easily without sweating or hard work. This is a woman who longs for comfort and enjoyment. Generally speaking, people don't agree with this marriage model.

Although the above examples are only individual cases, they can reflect that some young women have problems with their outlook on life and values. They don't want to create a better life through personal struggle, but rely on their own face value, rob other people's husbands through improper means, grab other people's wealth, and then live a life with nothing. This is the real reason why some young women are willing to marry rich old men.

Why? Do you need to ask this? First of all, women are interested in money.

As long as the woman who is willing to marry the old man, nine times out of ten are money-worshipping and materialistic women, who put money first. As long as you have enough money, the old man 100 is willing.

What kind of family education there is, there must be what kind of children. It can be said that most women who are willing to marry rich old men have defects in family education, live in a money-worship house, or grow up in an environment full of material and money, and are influenced by other sisters.

Second: women like the nature of money. Some women are born immune to money. They can do anything as long as they give money. It is also reasonable to marry a rich old man.

Third, the construction of social environment. In the environment we live in today, there are too many desires for material money and too many temptations for money. Some women can't stand the temptation of money, so they abandon ethics and choose money. For example, be a mistress, marry an old man, and sell yourself for money.

Fourth, I am afraid of being poor. Some women are determined to be rich because of poor environment and poverty when they were young. However, they have no skills, no ability to earn money, and they can't find rich people of the same age to marry. Under such circumstances, they had to find an old man.

Fifth, true love. I have to make some exceptions. I have true love with the old man, but the other is rich.

Sixth, the fatherly complex. Some women want to marry a man like their father, so they marry an old man who is thirty or forty years older than themselves. In this process, it happens that the other party has money.

Age is not the problem, money is the problem. To say that a 20-year-old girl is looking for her grandparents, if it has to be love, it is simply shrimp and eggs. As for why, no one knows.

It doesn't matter if you are older, as long as you have money; Ugliness is nothing, as long as you have money. Any name, provided that the other party has money. Maybe there is true love in it, but it also happens to be rich.

A very strange phenomenon, no matter which old man has few wives, the man must be either rich or expensive. And such earth-shattering love has never happened to the poor old man.

Is Cupid's Arrow of Love also made of money?

In the name of love, it's just an excuse to find yourself a chastity memorial arch. Clearly naked, but it happened to appear openly, will only make others laugh. If you ask me, I don't want to be ashamed, so why care about this fig leaf?

What is marriage? For them, this is just a money transaction. They can put it off when they are young, and they can remarry after the old man dies. Everything will be fine when they get the money.

In any case, the road is my choice. As a bystander, any criticism is useless, but the biggest insult to marriage is to use the banner of love.

You can insult yourself, but please don't insult love.

For some girls, age is not a problem because:

1, girls who have no love experience often meet people who are good to themselves and will be moved. Maybe the communication started with their brother or godfather, and they were prepared or taken care of at the beginning. After a long time, they made out for a long time, and they broke through the defense line. When uncooked rice is cooked, it will naturally go with the flow.

2. Girls who have been in love encounter troubles, such as falling out of love, or having an emergency at home. Someone lends a helping hand, just like being rescued from falling into the water. Naturally, they are grateful to each other and committed to each other.

There is another kind of people who are tired of playing, tired of the world, or girls who are engaged in special occupations. They are very pragmatic. Finding a rich advocate can save a lot of hard work and get rid of the pain, and their age naturally doesn't matter.

4. Then there is the situation. I have no intention of getting married, but I am pregnant unexpectedly and can't stand the temptation of abortion or other conditions. It is also married.

5. There is also an old man who has power, ability or personality charm. No matter how he talks, how he talks, how he dresses and how he behaves, he is mature, generous, romantic, patient, considerate and considerate, which is why girls are attracted to get married regardless of the world, parents' opposition and money.

Generally speaking, women can choose three kinds of men: those who have no money, those who have no money and those who have money. As for women who have no feelings and no money, unless they have a tendency to abuse themselves, it is estimated that no one will choose. The young woman in the topic will secretly love the rich old man, perhaps because she is rich and heartless, or of course she is deeply rich.

However, most of them should be rich and heartless. A woman is only interested in his wallet, not in the man himself. There are a lot of these now. At an early age, I had enough wealth, including luxury clothing bags, leisure travel all over the country, luxury cars and villas, and stepped into the life of decent people in one step. These are things that office workers may never be able to do for a lifetime, so many girls who rely on beauty have taken this shortcut. Of course, if they are interested in this rich man who happens to be single, I think they have no right to discuss it. Men exchange money for beauty, while women exchange beauty for money, each taking what he needs. I'm sorry if I'm attracted to people with families. Gossip alone requires a lot of psychological endurance, and I have to hide and live a shady life. Even if I buy more bags, I don't think I will be happy. One day, I will be exposed, just like Uncle Xiubo said: I will go to jail if I don't fall in love.

A few cases are affectionate and rich, and some girls like this mature man, who happens to be rich. Maybe I fell in love with this person first, just because he is rich, or because of his rich charm. As long as it is a reasonable law, we should all bless it, such as "sister with milk tea". Before the accident, her husband's eyes were full of admiration. I'd rather believe it was love. More famous are Weng Fan and Yang Zhenning. Although many people think it is because of money, people walk silently year after year. No love? After all, love can transcend age and geographical restrictions.

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Why do some women want to marry rich old men?

These women, even some young girls in Seeds of Love, have many such situations in the reality of today's social life.

Most of these women, regardless of their feelings, are rich in money, money in their eyes and money in their hearts. San Qian is closely linked, and they are called full-fledged gold diggers, living a life of nothing for the sake of enjoyment.

Use your face value to marry a rich old man. The old man thinks that when he walks into a business scene, he brings light to his face, and at the same time he can satisfy and cater to his sexual desire. The two cooperate, use each other and covet selfish desires.

Two people don't have true feelings, just don't care. In fact, they are all poor creatures.

Both sides have mutual greed, which may be the most fundamental reason why these women are willing to marry rich old men.

It is one of the most harmful and serious failures in today's society for a woman to secretly take his money and find a new lover she loves without telling the old man.

Why some young women marry rich old men depends on how this question is put. Have a plenty of emotional collision, committed to each other. There was a young woman who went to work at the age of eighteen and met a kind boss, who was already in her fifties. Divorced, the woman's father was seriously ill, and the boss took over his father's life with money. In order to repay the boss, the woman promised herself. However, parents don't want to bring it back because they are much older than themselves. Do not agree to get married. After being together for two years, my parents still don't admit it when I have a child. Women are 40 years old and men are 767. The child was admitted to a key university. But they never leave. Rich or poor. Others are only interested in the money, status and connections of the elderly, laying a solid foundation for his future success. In fact, the elderly are regarded as a bridge to happiness. She is a woman with a unique mind, and she can raise a pretty boy when she is rich. Morality does not exist. This is an invisible front. This is a blatant challenge to the thousand-year-old traditional culture of morality and filial piety. In today's society, people laugh at poverty rather than prostitution. Women can do anything for money.

Although the cause of this question is somewhat complicated, the answer is not difficult to find as long as it is carefully analyzed. This is a special phenomenon in the real society. Although the number is small, it happens from time to time, which not only reflects women's brand-new views on marriage, but also reflects some helplessness of women, and also illustrates another interpretation of marriage under the rapid development of society. The reason for this is the following：

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This figure has recognized the pulse of real marriage.

Women's greatest desire for marriage is economic security, and men should be reliable. Since ancient times, marriage has been based on feelings. In this regard, the views of both men and women are very consistent, and stability is the basic requirement of marriage.

But now the marriage has changed a lot, and feelings are no longer the most important thing in marriage. In the environment where the economy measures everything, feelings yield to the economy and retreat to the second line. The increasing pressure of survival makes people full of fear about their future life, especially women, who have a strong sense of survival crisis. After witnessing some examples of "poor couples losing their conscience", they have strengthened their views and requirements on marriage: marriage must be stable and the economy must be stable.

In view of this, some women turn their eyes from those young people who have lost their hair and are not firm in speaking to rich old men. Compared with young people, rich old men can give women a sense of security economically, and old men are often rich in social experience, not only rich, but also have many practical social relationships, and because of their age, they rarely cheat, so that the economy is secure and people are reliable, which meets women's expectations for marriage. Age is not a problem.

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Make money by legal means.

Several women have an ulterior but well-known dark idea of looking for a rich old man: plotting the old man's money! These women's ideas are simple and realistic. They know that the old man is very different from their own age. To put it bluntly, after marriage, they expect the old man to die early, then inherit the old man's property with the value of the first heir, and then marry the man they like. In this way, they will have a heavier and greater say in the newly formed family in the future.

This is a means of getting something for nothing. What they pay is only a short period of youth, but what they get is heavy and rich. People are not ashamed of this kind of marriage, but their practices are legal and fully protected by the marriage law.

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Revenge on one's predecessor after a failed marriage or relationship.

In most unhappy marriages, women are the most painful. After being hurt, in order to vent hatred or resentment against his predecessor, he will go to the other extreme: find a rich old man to anger his predecessor and achieve the purpose of venting his dissatisfaction. But this kind of behavior is not desirable, it is irresponsible to yourself, and you will regret it one day after a long time.

04 can't get rid of the thick daddy complex.

Father has always been a great image in his daughter's heart. From small to large, daughters will regard their father as their patron. When she was wronged and hurt, her first thought was to find her father to make a decision for herself. Since then, the image of her father has been firmly imprinted in her heart.

When they reach marriageable age, they will unconsciously compare their partners with their fathers. After various comparisons, they sadly found that none of these young boyfriends was better than their father, so they were disappointed with the young man and turned their eyes to the old man who was very different from their own age, which was in line with their psychological expectations. So they thought they had found what they wanted and married the rich old man without hesitation.