"You deserve it. You can coax it with a slap." The daughter was slapped back by her husband and her mother was heartbroken. what do you think?

Everyone's marriage is different, and each has its own happiness and distress. Lin Ya went back to her parents' house because her husband slapped her. At that time, her mother was very sad after seeing it. She once discouraged her daughter from getting divorced, but her daughter was soft-hearted and her children were small. However, when mother saw it in her eyes, she felt pain in her heart and could only swallow her tears. Unexpectedly, the son-in-law came over and coaxed his daughter to take new clothes and go home with him happily. Seeing this scene, Linya's mother really had mixed feelings and felt very sad. Domestic violence is a problem in some families. There is only zero tolerance for domestic violence. Tell each other your bottom line firmly and stand up bravely. Only when you are strong can you stop this from happening.

The daughter was beaten back by her son-in-law, and the mother was anxious. If she finds that the other half is not suitable and will not give her happiness, she should leave in time. If she continues, she will be in a dilemma, and the longer she drags on, the harder it will be to leave. In many people's marriages, there is often a kind of person who just forgets the pain after getting rid of the scar, and Lin Ya is such a person. In her mother's words, her daughter lived for more than 30 years and became more and more timid.

As a mother, I have reason to say this about my daughter. Half a month ago, when she saw her daughter being beaten by her son-in-law and crying back to her mother's house, she was not only heartbroken, but also angry. If you want to blame your daughter, you can swallow it. Just let her rest at home, and don't worry about other things. Even the neighbors couldn't help feeling wronged when they heard about it. It's not that the old mother ignored it. It is the son-in-law who is born with a bad temper and dares to fight with his parents. He doesn't care about the consequences. If he is angry, it is his daughter who suffers.

Every family has its own problems, and so does the daughter's marriage. One year, my daughter went back to her mother's house for the New Year because her son-in-law had a fight with her mother. Originally, my father-in-law stopped the fight, but somehow I got involved. Three people got into a fight and scared my daughter to call the police. Later, his wife went back to her daughter and made an excuse to take her back to her family.

Daughter Lin Ya got married in her early twenties, and the couple gave birth to a lovely son. The originally happy life was ruined. Everything in the family depends on the daughter, not only to take care of the children, housework and children's tuition, but also the expenses at home are borne by the daughter. The son-in-law spends money like water, is hedonistic and doesn't work at all, which makes her daughter very miserable. Not only that, my daughter's in-laws don't help me. In fact, their conditions are very good. They not only have houses and shops, but also have savings in their hands, but they just don't want to spend a penny on their children.

The son-in-law has a violent personality and it is fruitless to persuade her to divorce. She can only give up. According to other people's encounter with such a family, she must have divorced long ago, but her daughter has a bad temper, a good temper and a big heart, and no matter what others say, she will not hold grudges. My daughter was bent on marrying her son-in-law. As an experienced person, my parents saw at a glance that this man was unreliable. What was even more outrageous was his in-laws' condescending attitude when they first met, as if they loved to marry or not. But the helpless daughter is trying to identify this man. No matter how she and her wife persuade him, it is useless until she is pregnant with a child.

Maybe my daughter's marriage started badly, so I don't know what happened today. This is not the first time they have beaten their daughter. After seven years of marriage, they have moved hands many times. They used to just push or kick, but now they directly beat their daughter "beyond recognition". The old couple advised him many times. Every time the son-in-law comes over, she is in tears, kneeling down to apologize, and her daughter always forgives him. I am anxious about this and my wife, and the pain is in my heart.

Treating domestic violence with zero tolerance and protecting domestic violence by law when necessary is a very heavy topic for families and society, but it must be mentioned. Especially in China, many women are suffering from domestic violence. According to the data survey, about 20% of women have suffered from domestic violence, which is really surprising. In fact, domestic violence does not exist between husband and wife, or it is considered domestic violence if you move your hand. In fact, it is domestic violence that family members hurt each other with words and actions. And regardless of gender, sometimes men are also victims.

However, in such a huge set of data, only 10% people were identified as domestic violence, because many people adopted a tolerant attitude and the space was secret, which was difficult to prove. Since 20 16, China has promulgated the anti-domestic violence law to protect every member in marriage, but the effect is very small. Many women, like Lin Ya, put up with it, and only let themselves fall into a whirlpool and can't get rid of themselves.

Even children know that they are suffering, but in real life, many people are deeply involved and don't know it. Lin Ya hasn't divorced yet, even though her husband didn't do anything, he still beat himself. Even though I know that my parents love me dearly, I am reluctant to leave. Such tolerance will only encourage husbands to be more presumptuous and lay a "bomb" for marriage. It is only a matter of time when it will break out. For such a marriage, it should be cruel, otherwise it will not only hurt yourself, but also the families of both sides. A person's life is short. Be kind to yourself, and you will welcome people who cherish yourself.