Why don't men admit to cheating (men who accuse their wives of cheating)

Only serve the original wife, mistress and man do not disturb. In the case of conclusive evidence of extramarital affairs, many derailed men not only make no secret of no remorse, but even say such things to their wives:

"What's the big deal if I don't get out of the way?"

"In this society now, which one has a career and nothing to do outside?"

"Then someone's husband also cheated. Why don't people make trouble like you? "

"You didn't force me to cheat? You are not good to me, can I cheat? "

It's jaw-dropping

People who cheat are not only completely unaware of their mistakes.

On the contrary, a gesture of "I am derailed, I am justified" in turn accuses my wife.

Cheating is obviously their fault. Why are they so righteous?

Although their attitude towards their wives is equally bad, they also do harm to their wives.

But from their psychological analysis, it is not the same:

The first type: in the eyes of men who regard derailment as ability and success, there is nothing wrong with derailment itself.

He doesn't feel how much harm cheating has done to his wife.

Because in his subconscious, there is nothing wrong with monogamy. Being able to cheat shows that he is capable.

So wives, if they meet such a man who is still living in the Qing Dynasty.

We'd better stop loss in time to avoid losses.

Such people are not worth our efforts.

And it is difficult for us to change his values in a short time.

Second, he's just bluffing.

In fact, he knew in his heart that he was wrong and he was untenable.

However, if he apologizes to his wife, it means that he has to face her criticism and apologize to her.

If the wife cries, makes trouble and hangs herself, and sues her parents and colleagues, she will be ashamed and lose her job.

So in order to protect their face, the wicked complained first.

On the other hand, blame the wife first and knock her down with momentum.

Third, because there are too many dissatisfaction with the wife accumulated in the marriage.

This kind of man endured many years in marriage and accumulated a lot of dissatisfaction with his wife.

I didn't want to solve it through marital communication, but chose to escape by extramarital affairs.

But in his heart, he decided that his cheating was his wife's fault, and he didn't feel that he was wrong.

I feel like I'm cheating. Anyway, this marriage will be fine.

For this kind of man, if you want him to return to his family.

What a wife needs to do is to find out the problems in marriage and make changes.

Wives, when we hear cheating men accusing us.

When we hear that men have no regrets or even blame us.

Don't think: he treats me like this, he has no feelings for me, and he doesn't love me.

Don't blame yourself for a man accusing us, because it's not our fault that he cheated.

We are responsible for our marriage, but we should not be responsible for men's infidelity.

Even if there are problems in our marriage, it should not be an excuse for men to cheat.

Let go of these grievances and sorrows, and then think about how I should go the next way.

Do I still want this marriage?

If so, can I really forgive him?

Does he deserve my pay and forgiveness?

If not, am I ready for a divorce?

Have my life been arranged after the divorce?

Wives, I know everyone has too much grievances and too much sadness.

But if we are confused by men's attitudes, we are always immersed in negative emotions.

How can we solve the problem, help ourselves out of the predicament and get out of the pain of her husband's betrayal?