The fireworks of being a man

To be a man, you always have to light a cigarette to get angry. Being out of touch with others is a derogatory term in my eyes. If a person can fly like smoke and land like fire, he must be a stunner, whether he is a man or a woman.

This man's fireworks must be like Su Dongpo-optimistic and open-minded no matter what happens.

"People have joys and sorrows, and the moon is full of ups and downs. It's an ancient problem. I hope people will live for a long time." This is the law and philosophy of the world. A person's life, always can't have a pleasant journey, certainly will not be bumpy all the way. Su Dongpo can recognize, understand, and even after being separated from his younger brother for seven years, he can still say hopefully, "I hope people will live for a long time, and thousands of miles will be beautiful." What a state this is.

when you say he's in the spring and snow, he's also getting up from Liba. Su Dongpo once took a prostitute to see an old abbot. The old abbot was angry. He wrote, "The woman in the stream stole a look, but the monk in the mountain didn't frown, but she was worried that Maitreya was born late and didn't see her grandmother when she was a teenager." It's fun to think about it. Su Dongpo always takes part in a geisha banquet in his life, and he never hesitates when he asks for poetry.

However, if people are half-hearted, he is so devoted to his wife that when she died, she wrote, "Ten years of life and death are boundless, and I will never forget it without thinking. A thousand miles away in a lonely grave, there is nowhere to be sad. " He "doesn't think"-he still tries to live a good life without missing all the time, but he has "unforgettable memories"-when the time comes, the past suddenly jumps to his heart, and a sentient and righteous man suddenly jumps to paper, which is interesting.

But if people only know the wind and the moon, they can plead for the people and watch the people's livelihood decline. In the process of fighting against Wang Anshi, they warned the emperor to write, "Today's imperial court can be described as unsuitable. Your majesty does not seek for its roots, but wants to overcome it with strength. What is it? " "An Shi thinks that being virtuous is virtuous, that being a fool is a fool, that being yes is right, and that being wrong is wrong." The two big heads who dare to rebel against the establishment are much more attractive than many mercenary villains now, and he has won.

people can also get down. After being demoted, they can still visit Chengtian Temple in the middle of the night and make Dongpo meat. Without water, firewood can't afford to smoke. Don't rush him when he is ripe, he will be beautiful when the fire is full. " Eat lychees. "There are 3 lychees a day, so you might as well be a Lingnan person often." I can't afford to eat mutton and pork, but I can't eat persimmons and litchi.

I don't fear the monarch in the world, but I don't live up to myself in the world. I have affection for my loved ones and am interested in my lover. No matter what the situation, you can be optimistic and open-minded, happy and sad. Compared with some men in today's society who bully their superiors and deceive their subordinates and think they have both ends, it is really too pyrotechnic and human.

after talking about men and women, I think the word tenderness must be the keynote of this woman's fireworks.

it's hard to tell what tenderness is. But I always think that gentleness is not a quality, but an ability.

It must not be like Lin Daiyu in A Dream of Red Mansions. Daiyu is by no means gentle, but I think she is only gentle.

It seems soft and weak-tears at flowers, tears at water, tears at my brother, and tears at my brother. In fact, the ice is cold, and I always can't see through the world of the Grand View Garden, even I don't understand Brother Bao. Not warm enough. What is temperature? I think it should be the ability to understand things and put oneself in another's shoes.

this gentleness must not be like Xue Baochai, and Xue Baochai is by no means gentle. I think she is only gentle. She seems to be able to keep things in order around her, but he is too strong on Jia Baoyu and thinks he is good for Baoyu. I hope he can do what she thinks. But I don't know that she doesn't understand him at all. What is softness? I think softness is neither cold nor tough, just like water.

and I always feel that as a woman's fireworks, they are both less coquettish.

I personally understand that women's fireworks are gentle and coquettish.

this "coquettish" is by no means a derogatory term. It comes from Guo Feng and Li Sao. To put it bluntly, it is Wen Tao, and to put it bluntly, it is a kind of heartfelt softness to life, and the belief that the future life must be beautiful. If you want to understand the "coquettish" of the world population, it is also reasonable. To change the civilized word is sexy. After all, Mr. Gu Long also said: "Ladies are a little bit like prostitutes, and prostitutes are a little bit like ladies." Haha, it's a bit vulgar.

who has fireworks? After thinking for a long time, it must be the king of "Girl Country" in Journey to the West-capable, beautiful, daring to pursue, letting go, knowing the mood and knowing how to advance and retreat. "Mandarin ducks and butterflies fly together, and all loves makes people drunk. He quietly asks the holy monk if his daughter is beautiful." This kind of person, don't say that Tang Priest is ecstatic, and women are ecstatic.

But a woman is an emotional creature. It is not easy to have fireworks, and it is not easy to achieve one of them. Therefore, this kind of perfection has only appeared in the mythical The Journey to the West, so Mr. Jin Yong can only divide this kind of fireworks into seven people in The Duke Of Mount Deer, namely, gentle and lovely Shuang'er, beautiful Ako, passionate and unrestrained Jianning, mature and sensible Su Quan ...

There are many kinds of women in the world. Different places, different times of birth, or as spicy as Chongqing women, full of laughter and scolding, or as calm as Jiangnan women, full of femininity. But in any case, you can't lose your anger, at least you have to be gentle. Otherwise, it would be too boring. Have an understanding of the facts, be able to put yourself in the other's shoes, be neither cold nor tough, and be comfortable to relax.

To be a man, no matter whether a man or a woman has to light a cigarette, Li Bai always feels that he is depressed because he can't touch the ground, and Du Fu is "I stroke my white hair. It has grown too thin" because he is too fond of it, which can't be compared with Su Shi's "old man talking about teenagers, holding yellow on the left and holding blue on the right".

It's so fairy-like. It's always floating. Who can catch it? The world of flowers on earth is still very fun. Don't always think about being a fairy when you come to the world.

It's boring to be too angry. You can't see the flowers, birds, insects and fish on the ground all the time. There's nothing to see in the underground mud land.

The world is a world where people can't get up and down. When they come to the world, both men and women should try to get involved in fireworks and cry when they get up and down. Don't waste these decades of life.