What psychology is it to look down on parents?

Looking down on parents is a sign of vanity and hypocrisy, and feeling distressed is a reflection of inner fragility. As the saying goes, dogs don't think their families are poor and children don't think their mothers are ugly. People can live a humble life, but they can't be unfilial, live a poor life, and repay their parents' kindness. We don't lack food and clothing. We are loving mothers. Parents will not ask their children to support beyond the limit. On the contrary, they will tighten their belts and help their children do many things they can.

Some children will be overbearing because of their objects, which will make them feel distressed and painful, but they will not underestimate their parents. Parents are eternal flesh and blood relatives, and the fact of existence can never be touched. No matter what mask you wear, people in the circle will definitely talk about it, and parents will also point at the spine. Parents are the most important people in life. How can you look down on them? It hurts to have practical actions. It is unfilial to use two words to disguise indifference. These two words are implemented, and there is no contempt. Only the most important people in life will feel distressed.

It is a disguised state of mind to look down on people who are distressed. Distressed is to love, love, lose the feeling of pain, cherish, regret and loathe to give up. Looking down on people means contempt, neglect, contempt, lack of seriousness, disrespect and disdain. I attach great importance to those who are in distress. Spears and shields are sold. It's incredible. Perhaps it is false sympathy; Perhaps it is the resentment against parents in the bones, and later the conscience found out; Vanity is too heavy, I cover myself up, my heart is indifferent, I lose myself, and then my conscience finds out and finds myself; Dislike parents, and later conscience found; I was hurt by my family, pretended to be contemptuous, forgave my parents, and began to feel sorry for my parents.

If you love your parents dearly, you should give up yourself, act filial to your parents and do your best to be kind to them. There is a saying that "the tree wants to be quiet but the wind will not stop, and the son wants to raise it without kissing it." From Han Ying's Poems of the Western Han Dynasty and North Korea, the general idea is that most trees don't like to sway with the wind, but the wind never stops. When his son grows up, he hopes to support his parents and repay his kindness, but his parents have passed away and his.

The pain of parents' childbearing and rearing is like a drop in the sky. Although parents have always been good to their children, they can't give up their affection, and they can forgive mistakes. Parents are too old to hurt their children. This situation is rare, but it exists and should be forgiven. Buddha said: "The appearance of bad guys is to teach us a lesson and a lot of truth. Relatives and friends are all arranged by God to help us. Therefore, in any case, we must face the world with gratitude. " Therefore, the kindness of parents is a blessing in previous lives. Every generation should follow the example of the next generation and do what they can for their parents with their own practical actions. No matter what the reason, we should set an example for our children, leave a way out for ourselves and establish a sense of family for future generations.