Six shining pearls shine "the great event in your life"

What are you most afraid of in this life? What are you most afraid of in this life?

"Where did this life come from?" In the pursuit of this life proposition, perhaps 75% people will say: I want to return to my true self.

Occasionally open the book "Important Events in Your Life", and the crystal-clear and moist "pearls" shine with charming brilliance and emerge from the book.

The first "pearl": the most tangled time is precisely the most critical time in your life. Choosing according to your own talent and becoming yourself is your most important mission in this life.

Sometimes, when we want to follow our talents and our hearts, we suddenly find that our parents, relatives and friends are on the opposite side of ourselves, and they want to be "that kind of person".

At this moment, listen to your inner voice and make your own choices.

1938, 17-year-old Sun Daolin was admitted to the Philosophy Department of yenching university. It stands to reason that he should become a philosopher in the future. The Sun family belongs to a noble family, and several generations have been famous poets and calligraphers in the south of the Yangtze River.

His grandfather was a juren before the Qing Dynasty. After my father returned from studying abroad, he worked as a technician (now chief engineer) and inspection engineer in the Ministry of Communications of Beijing government. His mother, Fan Nianhua, also came from a famous family.

However, due to the "encouragement" of their old classmate Huang Zongjiang, they performed a play together, so Sun Dao mistakenly embarked on the road of performing arts.

194 1 February, when the Pacific War broke out, yenching university was occupied by the Japanese, and more than 20 teachers and students were arrested, including Sun Daolin.

Sun Daolin, who was released, went to Shanghai with China Travel Art Troupe despite his family's opposition, and officially joined China Travel Art Troupe on 1943 to start his career as an actor.

After the founding of New China, Sun Daolin joined the Shanghai Film Studio as an actor and director, and starred in films such as Reconnaissance Crossing the River, Colorful Spring, Revolutionary Family, Early February Spring, Li Siguang, Thunderstorm and Very Big President.

Sun Daolin graduated from the Philosophy Department of yenching university with a high cultural accomplishment. His performances are profound, natural and passionate, and his works are excellent works of China Film Performance Gallery.

The second "pearl": the initial heart is a call, you only need to find your own "sparkling" moment in those "sparkling eyes" or see others "sparkling" moments.

Once, he came home with a friend and saw his 4-year-old son writing on staff paper. Father asked him what he was doing. The son replied solemnly, "I am composing music." The child's behavior made two adults smile at each other. Facing the crooked notes on the paper, they thought it was just a child's prank.

However, when the careful father carefully looked at his son's work, he suddenly cried to the guests with tears in his eyes: "Come and see! How correct and meaningful this is! "

Xiaotian has started his creative career with "sparkling" eyes! It was also the moment when his father discovered his "bright spot" that made him recognized as a "child prodigy" musician at such a young age.

So, your future lies in those "sparkling eyes".

Unfortunately, many people are getting farther and farther away from their original intentions and talents, and they may not feel anything when they are young. But with the passage of time and the improvement of self-awareness, they are more and more painfully aware that they can't pursue their talents and become their true selves, so they are depressed, muddle along or give up on themselves.

Thirty years ago, Disney released a family comedy Lonely Home, which set off the children's film market. The film tells the story of Kevin, an 8-year-old boy who was left at home by his parents at Christmas, fighting with two stupid thieves.

After the film was released, thousands of audiences were attracted by Kevin as a child and Kevin's actor Macaulay? Kuljian also became famous. He is very talented and lucky. He became the darling of the film industry at the age of 10, with a salary as high as 8 million dollars.

At that time, no matter who looked at it, Macaulay's star path was bright, but in fact, the child star only lit up for three years, and then it quickly declined. Since then, he has fallen into the bad habit of drinking and taking drugs.

Not long ago, he just entered the threshold of 40 years old, and his exposure was not as good as that of ordinary people.

I hope that in the long life, there will always be some moments when you are awakened by dreams and create "sparkling eyes"!

The third "pearl": to do one thing with peace of mind is to give up other things.

A messy heart is messy in life, and the process of choosing is a process of giving up.

I can't let go of anything I want. Under this kind of "greed", we either try a little in all aspects and play a lot of spring water, but we can't drink a drop of spring water; Either when I work hard in one direction, I yearn for another direction that makes my eyes shine, and I have become a "transparent person" in decades of entanglement.

Giving up is difficult and painful, and no one wants to give up easily. However, we have to make a choice and focus on the mission of "polishing our eyes".

Cooper, the author of this book, and his classmate Ethan have many dreams, but they are also faced with confusion: which way should they choose? Which way should I give up?

Cooper doesn't like the finance major his parents chose for him. What he really likes is psychology. Ethan's ability is outstanding. No matter studying or exercising, he likes what he does, but what he particularly likes is literature and writing.

After some struggle, Cooper chose another school to study psychology. Ten years later, he became a famous psychotherapist and established the largest psychological rehabilitation center in America.

On the other hand, Ethan is in a dilemma. He said with emotion: "Being a writer is doomed to be poor. My parents and sister need my care, and I can't let them down. "

In the end, Ethan gave up his literary dream and turned to medicine. But Ethan has been thinking about his literary dream, thinking, "Maybe I can find time to write something on the weekend." In the end, he couldn't "walk two roads at the same time", and he was drunk and decadent under the inner entanglement.

The fourth pearl: people who are not simple often have a simple heart.

Remember the American Joan of Arc? For more than forty years, she has only focused on one thing-fighting for equal rights for women.

At that time, women had only two fates, either to marry and be a slave or to be an old maid and endure humiliation and poverty all their lives.

At the age of 25, susan anthony voluntarily chose to be single. She is committed to the reform of prohibition, because many men beat their wives after drinking. She gave speeches on various topics, calling on women to enjoy equal civil rights.

Susan anthony's eating habits, dress, way of speaking and way of thinking have been so concise and powerful for more than forty years. Her perseverance, grace and composure infected everyone, including those who opposed him.

The painter in the novel The Moon and Sixpence, a 40-year-old man, suddenly abandoned his family and career and pursued his dream alone.

Because he knew that he had been living a dead life for 40 years, he had no soul, and the core of his soul was his dream: painting, so he made such a crazy move and abandoned his family to realize his dream.

This dream needs investment. After making a choice, his life became pure and incomparable, and nothing could be accommodated except dreams.

Simple and easy to focus, focus is easy to get carried away-enter this realm and you will be invincible.

The fifth "pearl": Only by letting go of yourself can we go faster.

Let's talk about the painter in The Moon and Sixpence.

In fact, many people do things for fame and fortune, which is driven by desire.

Because this society will regard fame and fortune as the only criterion to measure a person's success.

In order to achieve this standard, people must constantly pursue their own wealth and rights, but in fact we don't really need these, we are just kidnapped by the outside world.

So, why don't people look for their inner driving force? Why can't you do what you really want to do?

Painters abandon everything to paint, whether someone will buy their own paintings or not, just because they like them.

This is an internal driving force. Only this kind of driving force can make the painter overcome everything and not give up easily.

In the flame of desire, in addition to enterprise, there is possessiveness.

"Career" doesn't care about success or failure, and "possessiveness" is obsessed with results.

When you can do your own thing with passion and then let go of the result, you will be free.

The sixth "pearl": Only when people don't sway with the wind can their hearts shine steadily.

Remember the experience of Gandhi, the "Indian Mahatma"? Through constant meditation, he grew from a timid lawyer to a brave civil rights leader.

He learned from the Bhagavad-gita that a simple life can bring unity of mind.

So, when Gandhi lived in London, he lived in a room with only one room, cooked by himself, ate only vegetarian food, repeated prayers over and over again, and cultivated himself in meditation.

As a result, love, courage and peace became more and more profound in his heart.

Finally, let's experience "life events" again. What's the big event? Is to use your talents and become yourself, not others.

Dear friends, are you ready? Start your own "life event"! Or, you have been trying to "be yourself", simply focusing and struggling unhurriedly.