How to deal with people, speaking skills

Chatting with others is different from normal communication and speaking, so communication skills are very different from chatting skills. Because chatting is usually an informal communication, it is necessary for everyone to master the methods and skills of chatting in order to better improve their relationship with everyone.

Chatting with 1 cannot be equated with talking in a meeting.

First of all, make it clear, chat and talk. A particularly eloquent person may not be able to chat well with others, because he only cares about himself and doesn't consider other people's feelings at all, so chatting is different from formal communication, and it needs randomness and responsiveness.

If we don't talk much, we will try to ask questions. As soon as we ask questions, the conversation will begin.

If you don't talk much and have poor communication skills, you should ask as many questions as possible at this time. If someone says something, you should ask, why? Is there a better way? How did you handle it? Can you teach me? Wait, you see, through such a simple rhetorical question and question, did you instantly break the embarrassment of chatting? This method is suitable for people who are not very eloquent.

3 learn to kick the ball-throw the question back, and the embarrassment will soon be gone.

Everyone must not be playing football, just thinking about wrangling and kicking the question back when chatting with others. Is it more effective to find someone to answer the question? For example, if someone talks to you about a topic, you are unfamiliar with this topic and can't respond more. Then try to throw this question to him and let him answer it himself. At this time, you can not only continue to chat, but also make others feel respect for him and make him have a sense of face and honor in front of you. Can such a chat really bring people closer?

4. Learn some divergent thinking.

Divergent thinking is an important way to chat, but talking about the current topic is very narrow, but through this topic, we can also think of a lot of things and talk to you about the topic of children, so that you can talk about the lives of boys and girls, children's learning, talking about learning books, and writers who write books. According to this idea, it is

Try talking to aunt walking the dog several times.

If you are really stupid, try talking to your aunt who is walking the dog for a while. From them, you will know what divergent thinking is and what grounding gas is. The parents he talked to you are all things that you deeply feel. Talk a few more times, and you can come up with some reasons to talk to others about him.

Reaction is more important than skill.

Everyone should remember a principle. When chatting with others, the response is more important than the skill itself, so actively responding to others can make up for your lack of chatting skills.