I bought an air conditioner for my mother during the Spring Festival, but she gave it to my brother's house. Can you accept this?

My name is Jiang Xiaoli. I grew up in the countryside with a modest family. I have a brother who is four years younger than me. Mom said that when she gave birth to me, she was coldly treated by her grandparents. But when my brother was born, grandma's face was full of joy. A mother's child is precious. Since my brother was born, my mother has devoted all her efforts to him.

After being sensible, I obviously felt the difference between myself and my brother. I study hard, hoping to change my destiny by reading. I was admitted to a key university in the college entrance examination. I work and study every winter and summer vacation. When I graduated from college, I successfully found a good job in a big city because of my work experience.

In the third year of work, my husband and I got married after a blind date. When I got married, my mother-in-law gave a bride price of180,000. On the wedding day, my mother only married me two quilts and a box. Although my mother-in-law didn't say anything, I obviously felt that she was a little unhappy. Later, every time I got a bonus or a raise, I told my mother-in-law that her attitude towards me had eased a little.

02:

My in-laws and I have lived under the same roof for three years. Generally speaking, we get along well. Later, we bought a house and moved out. Every weekend, I go back to have dinner with my in-laws.

Because my husband is the only child of my in-laws. Since my husband and I got married, we have lived in our in-laws' home every year for the New Year, and we have never been back to our parents' home for the New Year. But I give my mother 1000 yuan every month, and I will give it to her every holiday. I secretly saved all this money from my husband's family.

My brother got married last year 10, and my mother called during the Chinese New Year, hoping that we would go back for the Chinese New Year. After discussing with my husband, I decided to go back to my family for the New Year. We bought a lot of clothes and nutrients and stuffed them into the trunk of the car.

We got home on the 27th of the twelfth lunar month. My mother told me that it was too cold in winter and too hot in summer, and I always wanted to buy an air conditioner. I thought to myself, it is not easy for my mother to live in the countryside in this life. Now that she is old, she should enjoy it. So the next day, my husband and I bought a cabinet air conditioner. This was originally a very happy thing, but later it became very unhappy because of this air conditioner.

03:

My father has been in poor health. Last Saturday, I went back to the countryside to deliver medicine to my father. As soon as I entered the room, I found that the cabinet air conditioner in the living room was gone. I asked my mother, "Mom, where did you get the air conditioner?" My mother said flatly, "Your brother didn't buy an air conditioner when he got married. Now your brother-in-law is going to have a baby, so I will move the air conditioner to their new house."

I was angry. My brother doesn't have air conditioning. He can buy it himself, and an air conditioner doesn't cost much.

I think in these years, no matter what I do, my mother only has my brother in her eyes, and I can only contribute to this family for free. The more I think about it, the angrier I get. I didn't even eat lunch and said to my mother, "I'm back!" " "Then I drove away.

I really don't understand. My brother and I are both children born to my mother, and the palms of our hands are covered with meat. But in their minds, how can the gap between us be so big?

Emotional conclusion:

Hello, Jiang Xiaoli, you were born in a traditional family, living in such a family, and it's difficult to make a bowl of water even with your elders. I don't know why, many girls are both excellent and smart, but their parents don't pay attention to them. When I grow up, I pay a lot to my family, but my parents turn a blind eye.

What you feel is endless prejudice and stubbornness, and all your efforts have not been affirmed. But you don't have to be too angry. Because your parents' behavior has solidified, their disputes will only make family relations more tense.

As children, we just need to have a clear conscience towards the elderly, and wait for the elderly to have no regrets after a hundred years. As for what the old man did, as long as there is no question of principle, we can relax. Then we will be happy ourselves.