What is the name of a wife writing a robe on the anniversary of her husband's death?

If you are a little particular about the anniversary of your loved ones, such as burning incense to worship, then you'd better worship your mother-in-law first, and then celebrate your husband's birthday after the worship and ceremony. Your husband will be happy to see you take your fucking anniversary seriously. If you don't pay that much attention there, you can sound out your husband first, see what his birthday ideas and arrangements are, and then do what he thinks. Generally, men don't pay much attention to birthdays when they are in their prime, but your husband's birthday is special and should not be too grand and lively. Just show your mind, such as cooking two good dishes and buying a small gift, and your husband may accept it better.