How do lung cancer patients usually die? What kind of pain have you experienced?

My husband died of lung cancer. He checked out and left two months later! At that time, I was one month away from 48 years old!

At first, he had an irritating cough. We thought it was a cold, so we hurried him to the hospital. I took a picture in our county hospital at that time. The film shows that the lung texture is clear and there is no problem. The doctor gave him an infusion for three days, and the result was still not better!

In the morning, he was washing in the bathroom when he suddenly coughed. When he clears phlegm, there is blood. I was confused at that time. I said I couldn't see it in the county hospital! Immediately find the scalper and hang up the number of Sichuan West China Hospital. The number is 3 pm. I remember leaving at noon 12. At that time, he also drove me to Huaxi Hospital. When we got to the hospital, we told the doctor about the situation. The doctor said we wouldn't know until we had a CT scan. Because West China Hospital is a big hospital, there are many people who check on doctors every day. The doctor wants to make an appointment for CT. It's the third day! It will take three days to get the report after CT! So back and forth until the sixth day, we made an appointment with the doctor again! During this period, his cough became more and more serious!

He drove us together the day he picked up the report. After going to the hospital clinic, I quickly got off the bus to get the report. He drove to the underground parking lot, and I read the report on the automatic report machine! In an instant, my hands trembled, and the tumor in the left hilum was 2.4CM! Tears can't hold back, so I quickly took out my mobile phone and called my husband and brother. He said don't worry! Doctor, wait and see! At this time, my husband has parked the car and contacted me by phone. I quickly wiped my tears, put the report into my bag, and waited for him with the film. He came over and asked me if I had got the report. When I said I got it, he couldn't wait to open the report bag to find the report card. There was only one CT film. What about the report card? I said no, let's show the CT to the doctor! He always wondered why there was no report card.

At one o'clock noon, it was time for our appointment to see a doctor. I put the report in the CT bag while he was not looking, and let me go in with him after the date. I showed my bag to the doctor, and the doctor said that he would make 1000 mirrors. The doctor made a list and asked us to make an appointment on the first floor. When my husband and I walked out of the doctor's office, I told him to make an appointment first. I went to the doctor and gave you some cough medicine. He kept coughing and couldn't sleep at night. I went back to the doctor's room and asked him how my husband was. The doctor shook his head and said, "Not optimistic. You see, he is too young! " ! I don't have the heart to say it to his face. "I asked the doctor if he was saved. The doctor shook his head again, and at this moment, my tears welled up again. I said, "The doctor will give him some cough medicine! "He can't lie down at night. In the meantime, he leaned against the bed for one night. As soon as he lies down, he will cough violently. " As a result, the doctor said the medicine didn't work, so he gave me the medicine. I went out to find my husband with the list. At that time, my mind was blank and tears kept flowing. He went to the first floor. I just kept wandering on the third floor, and I don't know which floor I went to. Later, my husband called me and asked me why I hadn't gone down yet. I said I would find him soon. Because we have to draw blood before the appointment, we will go back to China three days after the appointment. At that time, I called my brother-in-law and asked him to come and help drive back to our county. They were sitting in the front row and I was sitting in the back row alone. My husband is still talking to my brother-in-law I'm behind, and tears will come out unconsciously. He turned his head and said, "What happened to your eyes?" I said, "The wind blew a small sand into my eyes, and it was very uncomfortable inside."

Three days later, the appointment time arrived, and my husband's cough became more and more serious. I'm afraid to drive at this time. I found a car to take us, but I couldn't open it when I went to the hospital. The doctor said I must wait for the result. As a result, I found a place outside the hospital and waited for the result. When the results came out, I didn't find cancer cells, but the tumor marker reached 270. We registered an old expert and asked to be admitted. Go to the inpatient department and say you have to wait two days to get a bed! We had to go home again. After we got home, we lived in the county hospital. Two days after the infusion, the hospital ambulance took us to Huaxi Hospital!

Go through the admission formalities and enter the inpatient department. There is no ward. Let's arrange it in the aisle first. In the hospital bed, after entering the hospital, the doctor still called for a moving mirror examination. My husband's condition is getting worse. First I can walk to the toilet, then I can't. Brush your teeth and wash your face on the bed. I do it for him. There's no way to do a dynamic mirror examination. I breathe by oxygen! One night in the middle of the night, his brother called him, but he still answered. My brother said, "Mom's gone!" "At that time, he burst into tears. I quickly hugged him and said, "Mom is 87 years old. It should be a funeral. Don't be sad. Sadness is not good for her state! "Maybe his mother's departure is also a great stimulus to him. His condition is getting worse. I had promised to go back on the day of my mother's funeral, and even found a nurse to watch for me all day. As a result, he became more and more angry. He didn't want me to go, so I kept him!

During this time, I am really helpless. I watched him suffer so much in front of him that I dared not cry every day. When I was in tears, I ran to the corner of the stairs, wiped my tears and came to him again, because he also relied on me during this time. I remember I went to the cancer hospital with his CT film, and he said you should go and come back quickly. I said yes, because there was a distance between Huaxi Hospital and Cancer Hospital, which delayed about 40 minutes.

One night, he coughed violently again, and his face turned red. I called the doctor at once, and the sputum got stuck in his throat and caused suffocation. Doctors and nurses cleaned him up quickly, and all the blood was cleaned up. At that time, I was frightened. He told me afterwards that I should call my son back, because he just graduated from the military academy and was assigned to the Guangxi Frontier Defense Company. I said yes, I'll call my son right away. After he applied, the leader approved it, and his son came back the next day.

When my son comes back to help me take care of my husband, I will be much more relaxed. During this time, I just kept checking. CT examination showed that the tumor had grown to 4.8CM and pleural effusion appeared. No cancer cells have been found during this period! At this time, the doctor told us to transfer to the lung cancer department of Wenjiang Park, Huaxi Hospital. Only here, we found cancer cells from his effusion and extracted cells for genetic testing. The doctor told me at that time that if the genetic test was successful, targeted treatment could be carried out to delay his life.

At that time, the time of genetic testing seemed to be seven days a week, and he asked me; "Medical expenses? Is my illness saved? " I told him not to worry about money. If you have money to treat you, you can save your illness. As long as you cooperate with the doctor, there is hope for the success of this gene matching. He told me that he would cooperate well with the doctor. He wants to live five more years and see his son get married and have children. I said no problem. We must be strong!

In fact, this time is just stalling for time. Every day, he keeps infusion, and his whole body is uncomfortable. My son and I take turns to massage him 24 hours a day and apply hot water towels to every part of his body. At that time, I thought, we have to accompany him to touch his body to divert his attention, so that he will have no pain! Cancer cells are developing too fast. CT examination showed that the tumor had grown to 6.8CM, and its condition became more and more serious. On the first day of the gene report, the doctor told me to use targeted drugs first, regardless of the report results. I said yes! As a result, the doctor didn't take the medicine the next day, so I asked the doctor. He said that the report had come out and targeted drugs were useless to him. I told the doctor at that time not to tell him the result!

Although my husband is very ill, he is sober. He said it's been a week. Why hasn't the result come out yet? I said that my son and I are taking care of you in the hospital. How can I get the report? Because the report was taken at the headquarters of West China Hospital. I said that if I wanted to get the report, I had to wait for my fourth brother to come, so I hid the results of genetic testing from him. It should be the third day after receiving the report. When the doctor came in to check the house, my husband asked the doctor about him and said that the results had not come out yet. The doctor was about to say, and I waved to the doctor at once. The doctor finally told me to go out and tell me. After I went out, the doctor said to me, "How long are you going to hide it from the patient?" In this case, you'd better leave the hospital and go back to your place! If you die here, you can't take it away, you can only be cremated in Chengdu. "I said," doctor, because you have seen many patients, you can feel that it doesn't matter if you die casually, but for me, he is my relative and trusts Huaxi Hospital most, and may die on the road. The reason why I don't want to tell him the result is that I want him to live one more day, so my son and I will take care of him one more day! Even if you die, you will die in this hospital! "The doctor said that in this case, you can live!

After a while, the attending doctor called the doctor on duty to call me to the office and said that I would start using human albumin now. Many drugs were signed by me at my own expense, so I signed them for him and then treated him. So we kept the test report a secret for a few days.

The report remained in my husband's mind, and he asked us to go to Huaxi Hospital to get it. I told him to wait until his brother came, and he kept calling his brother to get the report. In fact, the report has been taken over without telling him. I dare not tell him the incurable truth of the disease. I can't stand it! I just want to be with him. I'll massage him, pinch him and give him hot compress if he doesn't feel well! The body is getting weaker and weaker. One day, he said, "Give me a mirror and let me see myself." I said, "Where can I find a mirror without it?" He said, "Then take a photo with your mobile phone and I'll see what I look like." He couldn't even lift his cell phone, so I took a picture of him. When I saw the picture, I quickly deleted it and said that this mobile phone is a new one. I still don't understand the function, so I can't take pictures. He believed me at that time, too. In fact, he was close to death at this time, and those medicines could not be lost! The whole lung may have been corroded by cancer cells, and the effusion could not be discharged. Think about how painful he is!

He told me the report again, and I told him that my brother would come and get it for us the next morning and tell me at six o'clock that morning. Call your brother and remember to tell him the report! At nine o'clock, my brother entered the ward and couldn't wait to ask the result. At this time, I hurried out of the ward, I was afraid to see his desperate expression! My brother shook his head and said, it's cancer! And it's hopeless! At that time, I was standing outside the ward and peeked at his expression with tears in my eyes. For a moment, I saw him calmly say, "I have guessed that people will die, it is only a matter of time!" "I was relieved to see my husband face death so calmly! I dried my tears and went in.

When my brother finished talking to him, he called his brother out to talk to my son. He said, "Son, my life is coming to an end. Both you and your mother live a long life. I love you and your mother all my life. I spent a happy life! " I grabbed his hand, and my tears stayed ... this time, from his illness to the knowledge of his illness, tears flowed out in front of him! The tears flowed happily, and I didn't hide them. This time I realized the feeling of tears! Up to now, when I wrote it, I was in tears! He grabbed my hand with weak strength and said, "After this trip, go to the hospital for a good check-up. You have suffered during this time, and you look so haggard. " Tears came down when he said this, and then he said to me, "don't be sad, you will be very happy in the future." I will scatter my ashes in the river after I leave. I like swimming and fishing. Come and see me by the river if you miss me. " I have no voice, only tears! I looked at his face and couldn't speak and cried! The feeling of heartbreak is still fresh in my memory!

At this time, the nurse came in to change his fluid, and he told the nurse that he didn't need to give him infusion treatment, and he didn't need any medicine, so he wanted to stop treatment. The doctor said that the treatment could not be stopped until the family members signed it, so he said to me, "You can sign it. If I continue this treatment, it will increase my pain!" I'm not asking for anything now. I just want to give me some medicine in Dulantin to relieve my pain and let me leave this world peacefully. " As a result, I discussed it with my brother and son and respected his request! Without overtreatment, he was injected with liquid and then inhaled with oxygen. Give him painkillers and painkillers when he feels uncomfortable. Two days after stopping taking the medicine, the doctor said that they had prescribed too many red prescriptions. If the doctor is found to be held accountable in the hospital where the red prescription is made, the hospital will not give these drugs, and he will be impatient as soon as he feels pain, saying that I will not go to the doctor to alleviate his pain! As a last resort, I asked my nephew and daughter-in-law to give him some Demerol in the local hospital and give him an injection in the hospital. Quiet! Because it takes more than two hours to get to the hospital from our local area, he has been looking forward to the arrival of his nephew and daughter-in-law, because he knew at that time that this was the last time, and all relatives at home would come, and his nephew and daughter-in-law would not be able to come until after work. As a result, his nephew and daughter-in-law arrived at eight o'clock in the evening, and he said to his nephew and daughter-in-law; "You come to relieve my pain. Call me quickly! " After his nephew and daughter-in-law injected him with a medicine, his relatives went out to eat by themselves. At this time, the doctor came in to make rounds, and the doctor looked at his eyes with a flashlight. I asked the doctor how he was now. The doctor said, "Not tonight, but tomorrow during the day. Say something to him! " "I'll call his name and he'll say yes at once. I said, do you know who I am? He said you are my dearest!

It was not until after dinner that relatives and friends came over that he felt uncomfortable and kept lying quietly. I stood by his bed and held his hand. Results my niece said; "Aunt Liu, you are so tired these days. You might as well take a bath and have a rest in the hotel. My husband and brother will stay here with him tonight. " My husband seems to have fallen asleep in a daze. I hesitated, so they took me to the hotel.

We didn't go to the hotel until after 0 am. When everyone was taking a shower, my son's phone came and said that dad was dying. Come here quickly. We followed him. He left at 5 a.m. When I arrived, my son was changing clothes for his father. I held his warm body and cried. Later, the nurse said not to cry. I also know that it will affect others, control crying and let tears flow out!

There is no pain in heaven. I hope my husband laughs as happily as his photos in heaven.

From the onset of my husband's illness to his departure, it took me more than two months to endure the disease. My height is 1.80 and my weight is 80 kg. Finally, I may even weigh 50 kilograms. As his wife, before he entered the hospital, he was 52 kilograms. When he died, I came back weighing only 43 kilograms. What kind of torture do you think this is! Finally, I wish all my friends who read my article, protect their families, protect their health, be healthy and grow old together!