A letter to a lovelorn son.

My son is lovelorn. As parents, they should help their children get out of the predicament of lovelorn. Parents can try to write to their son and help him. Below I sorted out a letter to my lovelorn son. Welcome to reading.

Letter to the lovelorn son, model essay 1

Son:

I don't know if your generation of teenagers have seen the troubles of young Werther. Goethe, 23, fell in love with an engaged girl, which brought him great pain. When his pain was transformed into the art of writing, his pain was sublimated, but other young people clung to his book? Witt style? Clothes, had to commit suicide. Dear son, will the pain in our hearts become bigger or worse because of this world? Is it worth it? The pain becomes insignificant again; It may be insignificant to others, but for ourselves, every pain is absolute, real, huge and painful, which people who have experienced and those who have not experienced can't understand.

Goethe described young Werther in this way: He pursues the most beautiful stars in the sky/He yearns for all the desires on the earth? 16 years old, I think it is the time when the stars in the sky and the desires on the earth are intertwined, and the sweetness and pain overlap. You're at a loss, honey. I have been there as a mother.

So, what should I tell you?

Goethe first met Charlotte in the small town of Veraz, a pure and beautiful girl, wearing a white dress with a pink bow on her chest, which made him fall for it. In order to please Charlotte, he drove ten kilometers to send an orange to a sick girlfriend of Charlotte. Love without love, or love without love, do you have a better understanding of the pain of young Goethe now?

But what I want to say is that it is said that 40 years later, the world-famous Goethe met Charlotte in Weimar. She became a fat and haggard old woman. Before that, Goethe was constantly in love, lovelorn and creative. The pain of first love at the age of 23 is not so absolute if the lens of life is lengthened.

Can you still imagine that you might fall in love 10 times and get hurt 20 times before meeting your future life partner? Therefore, every time you are injured, you should put a tick on the timetable of your life and face the next compulsory course in life. What Goethe did, probably, was to sit down and write a report about his experience (reflective diary) besides checking the box? Aren't all the works his life's lessons? Since puberty? Victor's troubles? To the old? Faust? Is it his painful meditation and painful talk?

Should you tell the girl you like or hide your feelings? I may not have to tell you, and you can't expect me to tell you. What I am willing to share with you is my own? Experience report? That is, life is like a big river, with beautiful scenery and stormy waves. The partner you need is the one who can stand side by side with you at the bow, sing the scenery on both sides of the strait and hold your hand tightly in the stormy waves. In other words, it is better that she is not the stormy waves you have to deal with.

However, I can't help but realize that anything I say must be nonsense. Because it's pure and beautiful, white dress, not pink bow? Who can resist? Beautiful? This attack (more accurately? Trap? )? The infatuation with beauty can crush any wise man's self-righteous report, destroy people's reason and fall into the mire of emotion. Women are easily tempted by feelings, while men are easily tempted by colors. )

I can only watch you fall. I can only hope that you can get up from where you fell. I hope the sun will shine on you, illuminate your deep pain and sorrow, and illuminate the endless road before your eyes.

This is a mother's greatest wish?

XXX

XXXX。 X. X

Letter to the lovelorn son, model essay 2

Child: I know lovelorn is very painful!

Men and women in love don't want to hold hands until they are old, but fate is over and no one can stop them. Are you sad? Sad! Are you sad? Sad! Are you depressed? Very depressed! However, nothing in life is free from a little blow and frustration. What is lost is just a relationship. You should stop losing yourself. Don't get down if you are lovelorn! Don't be afraid that you will fall into a loveless life, because that is impossible!

I was young, I also loved vigorously, I also suffered, and I also lingered at the crossroads of love! But life goes on. A lot of beautiful things are waiting for you. Now, you have to work hard, and when something beautiful appears in front of you, you can grasp it more firmly.

Not to comfort you. On the contrary, this has been doomed from generation to generation; Yours is yours after all, not yours. Don't force it!

After breaking up, you should learn to be independent. No matter how lazy you used to be, you have to face everything yourself in the future, not to mention always thinking about the sweetness of the past, which will make you more miserable, and don't complain blindly, which will make you lose your way. There are many buds on the road of life, and there is always one for you!

Learn to think and change, and dare to change! Don't feel sorry for yourself, without him. Your world is still brilliant! Rain or shine is just a change in the sky. May your heart change with the day and everything drift with the tide!

mother

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A model letter to a lovelorn son 3

Children:

No matter what language you use at the moment, it is difficult to soothe your broken heart, but do you know that your mother is as distressed as you are?

Kid! People will be trapped by love all their lives, and we are the kind of people who put love in their hearts instead of in their palms. We will pay everything for the truth and will not guard against sudden storms.

Although advocating true love is our calm and pride, we must also firmly believe that true feelings will last forever. However, love will still fly away suddenly like a dove, and it will also drop from our fingers like a clear spring in our hands. That's their freedom, not our fault. Our mistakes just gave it too much trust and sustenance.

How distressed and depressed it is to clean up the feelings spilled all over the floor! You are right, the pain of the soul can't be saved by words. It takes time to calm down bit by bit and lick those blood stains with your own tongue. But we should also see that there will be a quiet corner in my heart waiting for the arrival of the next visitor, and love will never stop. Life is playing the colorful music of the years in this wave and noise. With the first time, will there be a next time? ..

And those pains are often what you think is a disaster and a smile of others. But it is really not as serious as you think, and it is not as easy as others think. That's just the way our hearts should go.

Son, your words may be very clear, and it's your turn to be confused, because feelings are unreasonable. They just listen to their inner requirements and ignore the principle of reason. What we can do is to maintain its dignity and order.

At this moment, * * * those familiar hands gently hold my son's forehead, telling you that everyone in the family will love you forever and there will be various problems in life. No matter what happens, you have no reason to be depressed, because we are close relatives, because we are flesh and blood. Because we are indispensable!

Cheer up! My child! Jump on the distant train and run to the next stop! There are many beautiful things waiting for you to fight for, and I believe that those beautiful things that belong to you will not really change because of one's escape. Be strong, my child! The sky is vast! Blue, tomorrow's sun will definitely rise as scheduled! .

XXX

XXXX。 X. X

A model letter to a lovelorn son 4

Son:

As soon as I got home from work, your mother said she would surprise me. What's the big deal? So that girl (just call her Xiaoqing) is going to break up with you.

I don't want to cheat you. The day before yesterday, your father went on a staff trip. When driving, a group of talents sang unrequited love for a flower and broke up happily. The lovelorn people sang lovelorn songs and were still so happy to go to work the next day. It turned out to be a sign.

To tell the truth, your mother and I are relieved. You just went to college, and you will be eighteen in two months, so you have a girlfriend. At first glance, it's incredible that you reported that a girl confessed to you online. When did you become so popular?

A boy in high school confessed to you, and we laughed it off. Now you say that Xiaoqing is officially in contact, and the class is right, but you are nervous. Why are you nervous? Afraid of you? Murder? All right.

Your mother and I agreed not to help raise grandchildren in the future. If you hear me now? Pregnant? This word must be a bolt from the blue. It's annoying to think that I haven't taught you what protection measures to pay attention to (I was negligent and your grandfather didn't teach me). In my mind, you are just a teenager who suddenly left home to go to college and will go home to nurse in a few days during the winter vacation.

Xiaoqing's family is better than ours. Although you are tall and handsome, your mouth is not sweet enough. What do people see in you? After the exam a while ago, you took the train south to go home together. When I first arrived at the station, you said she was crying and couldn't bear to let you go. Why did it only take a few days to change?

People's parents think that the boys who become the four famous schools in Taiqing deserve her, and it is normal for a good bird to choose a tree to live; Since she agrees with her parents, it's better to break up after two months of dating than when your father was dumped in college less than a month ago. The big deal is to try to transfer to another school and get her back.

? First love for two months? Well, that sounds ok. It will be a wonderful memory in the future.

Don't think the sky is falling. There is no such thing. Losing love only hurts for a few days. What else can I say? If you can't get it, you will ruin others and hurt yourself. Is the behavior of the meanest coward and loser.

Listen to your words, I am still worried about each other. I was tired of being together all day. Now I go to class, eat and go to K Book Center alone, but I'm not used to it. But a woman has a needle in her heart, and she may want to get back together with you one day. I know you can't get into it. Consider it a life experience. How's it going?

Tell you a joke. One day, your mother didn't know what was wrong with her. She cooked a pot of salty laver and egg soup and choked my tongue. I asked her to add some water, and she said calmly: Time will dilute everything. ?

Yes, let it be. You are lucky, but you are dead. If the other person is not the object of marriage in the future, he is also raising a wife for others. Besides, we will always be with you to cheer you up. Love You! Dad, the pen.

XXX

XXXX。 X. X

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