On daughter-in-law dealing with future mother-in-law

It is said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is one of the most difficult relationships in the world. I am afraid that a strong mother-in-law will meet a daughter-in-law who is also not a "fuel-saving lamp", so it is difficult for two people with similar personalities to get along well. My husband will definitely be angry with the splint inside.

There are many powerful daughters-in-law who also respond to the strong mother-in-law's practice. Let's see:

0 1@ Lan Xin: My mother-in-law is relatively strong, so I have been trying to be a good daughter-in-law for four years. As a result, I found it useless to be a good wife. People will pinch you and make me a bitch. I find this life much more comfortable, and people can't be too kind.

02@ Orange: My mother-in-law is very strong. Let's give her the salary and let me clean and cook at home ... But I am stronger than her and very gentle to others. Only when my husband defends her once will I drag my husband to divorce. I said get a divorce. I don't want to suffer indignities. I won't divorce her when she is old. See how I deal with her! He is too scared to protect his mother any more. Now that we have moved out, it is polite to see me. Such people should fight evil with evil. She is more unreasonable than she is, and she is afraid of you.

When trying to be a sensible daughter-in-law, her mother-in-law didn't know how to cherish it at all, but she was even more embarrassed. When forced to be a bitch, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is better, and the mother-in-law is more polite, so there is not so much.

Another daughter-in-law replied: "When you meet a strong mother-in-law, try to stay away from her. If you can't be provoked, you should avoid her. For the sake of harmony "and" she doesn't talk if she is a passerby, so there is no strong chance of winning. " My mother-in-law is very strong. No matter what she said, I ignored her. She is hundreds of kilometers away, and I don't see her several times a year. ...

Although the above daughters-in-law have their own ways to deal with it, after all, they are the mother of their husbands and always have to get along with each other for a lifetime. When you are old, you need the care of your daughter-in-law. If there are some methods with high emotional intelligence, will it be better for the development of the whole family and make the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law more harmonious?

Some daughter-in-law, with high emotional intelligence, really have a coup against a strong mother-in-law, because they will first observe the weakness of a strong mother-in-law, then "prescribe the right medicine" and get along well. So, do you want to be a daughter-in-law with high emotional intelligence? Let's study together.

1, respect face: don't confront her directly, even if she ignores you again, try to let her get the upper hand in front of others, so as to satisfy her psychological superiority, and it is always right to follow her in front of others;

2. The influence of daily filial piety and love:

A strong person is not necessarily strong inside. As a daughter-in-law, he should be filial to his mother-in-law. Therefore, in daily life, he can chat more with his mother-in-law, communicate more, be filial to her, and influence her with his own practical actions. With such a daughter-in-law who knows how to be polite and filial, her mother-in-law won't be so strong and aggressive to herself before she can boast.

3. The husband put in a good word for himself:

The mother-in-law is strong. If you feel tired, or you don't get along well with your mother-in-law, there is a little gap and gap, so let your husband reconcile and put in a good word for yourself in front of her mother-in-law. After all, mother-in-law and husband are mother and son, and they speak casually, and mother-in-law also trusts children. The mother-in-law is strong to some extent for her son. Her husband often talks about her own benefits in front of her mother-in-law.

4. Visit more during the festival:

Mother-in-law's strength is nothing more than fighting for a reason and a gift. Especially during the Chinese New Year holidays, as a daughter-in-law, she should take the initiative to accompany her husband and children to visit her mother-in-law, so that her mother-in-law can see that she respects her mother-in-law and has this mother-in-law in her heart. Especially during the Chinese New Year, as a daughter-in-law, being with her mother-in-law instead of her parents will move her. This respect and understanding will

5, the left ear into the right ear out:

As a daughter-in-law, you should relax a little. Little things really go in one ear and out the other. Don't care too much, otherwise the relationship may become more and more rigid and finally enter a "dead end." Sometimes, have some fun. Don't make a hasty statement, it will pass.

6, the reason should also put forward three points:

No one is perfect, everyone will do something wrong. There are contradictions with my mother-in-law in her daily life. When the fault lies with your mother-in-law, you should also learn to blame yourself. Don't be unreasonable. In the end, you can suppress her arrogance. This will only deepen the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. What people fear most is not repression, but respect, comity and three points, which will let their mother-in-law know that she is wrong.

In fact, today's daughter-in-law is used to being at home, and her temper is generally fierce; And now we all know that it is difficult to marry a daughter-in-law, so a daughter-in-law will give her mother-in-law a scare, which will make the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law particularly tense, and even lead to divorce, so don't follow the bad atmosphere of society to learn. If the mother-in-law is strong, she will be strong, and that family will only be a battlefield every day. Learn to show weakness, isn't it better to be less harmonious? what do you think?