Office troubles

Your problem is not the so-called interpersonal problem, but the so-called fear in your heart. You hear them talk about other people's privacy every day, and you are afraid that one day you will talk about yourself, or you are a relatively honest and quiet girl, and you are not used to talking to others. ...

I suppose you didn't join any cadres during your college years?

What you said is normal. You should have read many resumes online, and many people like to say: I can adapt to the working environment as soon as possible.

In fact, this is the working environment you have to deal with, and you should integrate as soon as possible, because just imagine, if you don't integrate well, you and them will have no * * * topic and no * * * language, which is an invisible wall separating you from the company. So do you think you will stay in this company for a long time? I don't think so, so you must find the same topic as them. But you can't blindly integrate. For example, if you talk to them about other people's privacy and shortcomings, what impression will you give them as a newly graduated college student?

You should break them one by one. First of all, you should pick someone who may have the same topic as you and make friends with her. I think you can do it, right? In this way, there is one more person on your front, and I think she will speak for you even if you are not here. Remember to hand in the first copy. Don't dislike mixing with them as much as you do. Otherwise, it will be counterproductive. Then you get to know everyone through her ...

But your outlook on life and values should also be changed, because society is like this, which is caused by this social factor. I think you will be depressed if you stay in the office every day! So you have to understand, but you must remember one thing. Don't be self-righteous like them and expose other people's privacy until you are completely integrated with them. You'd better just be an audience and perfunctory when appropriate.

I think you will be like them after a long time. Don't be afraid, this is a normal phenomenon, but you are not ready to enter this society.

I hope you can succeed and go to work happily every day.