The best love is to understand your sudden silence. ......

The best way to love someone deeply is to understand him.

Willing to penetrate his armor, being able to touch his weakness and finally reaching the deepest part of his heart. From then on, others only know why he cried and laughed, but only you understand the tenderness behind his crying, the loneliness after his laughter, and most importantly, the silence every time he wants to say goodbye.

1

I asked the orange, what kind of lover is the best?

Orange smiled and said, "Like my old Zhou, he is the best lover!" This answer is in my expectation. Orange became Lao Zhou's girlfriend six months ago. In half a year, the orange has changed from a girl who is always slightly shy to a lively and cheerful flower. My friend said that oranges laugh at least twice as often every day as before, and Lao Zhou contributed a lot to this.

I've always wondered what method Lao Zhou used to change the shyness and reticence of oranges.

"Tell me about oranges. Why are they the best lovers like Lao Zhou?"

The orange thought for a while and told me a story. According to the orange, it was because of that little story that Lao Zhou caught up with the orange, and the orange was lucky enough to hold hands and laugh with Lao Zhou.

At that time, Orange and Lao Li were still ordinary friends who didn't know each other very well. They went to a party together. During the dinner, the girls on the table discussed the fashion of the season, which was very warm. Because the clothing brand that everyone is discussing is the customer that Orange has been working with recently.

So she, who is usually quiet, joined in and told you some tidbits about this brand. The oranges on the dining table are smiling and in high spirits. Lao Zhou, who sat by, had already taken a fancy to this girl who smiled warmly and was a little shy.

it was midsummer. Talking about the brand, the girls naturally turned their painting style to the dresses popular in summer.

"This brand has produced a floral skirt this year, which is super beautiful!" "I like it very much, too, and the * * brand is also very powerful. This year, I have a super cowboy short skirt!" ..... Twittering, girls who are completely excited have turned the topic to the most popular short skirts this summer.

at this moment, the orange, which was just immersed in the topic, suddenly quieted down. The other girls were still talking about it, and no one noticed the orange that had returned to its former reticence and even had a little sadness on its face. Except Lao Zhou.

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That night, Lao Zhou volunteered to send the girls home, and the last one sent oranges.

The car stopped at the downstairs of the orange's house, and the orange seemed to be still immersed in the sad mood just after the dinner table. In others' eyes, this mood came inexplicably. Maybe it is the nature of a girl like orange to suddenly feel sad and silent, so no one cares. But Lao Zhou felt that he knew why the orange, which was originally very happy tonight, suddenly became silent.

that day, Lao Zhou suggested sending oranges off the bus. On the way, the orange still didn't speak. It was Lao Zhou who broke the orange's silence. "In fact, if you put on the short skirts mentioned by the girls at the dinner table, you will definitely look better than them."

The orange turned to look at Lao Zhou with a startled expression. After a long time, she whispered, "It won't look good. If you don't know, it will definitely look bad ..."

Lao Zhou looked at her, and his tone became more gentle and firm: "It will look good, because there is a rose branch on your leg that they don't have."

The orange suddenly became a little excited, and he could hardly control his emotions when he spoke: "I only have an ugly scar on my leg! You have seen it, haven't you? Because of this ugly scar, I feel sad every time I wear a skirt. "

Although Lao Zhou is not familiar with oranges, she also heard from her best friend that oranges had a car accident when they were young, leaving a long scar on their thighs. Oranges have been very sad about this and rarely wear skirts in summer.

"It's not ugly. When I see it, I always think it's just a rose flower with a printed skirt, which is just beautiful." Lao Zhou's seemingly simple sentence directly poked into the heart of the orange.

Orange said that she had never heard such a metaphor before. She never knew that there would be such a man in her life. This man didn't dislike her scar and helped her to open her heart with such a beautiful sentence.

"Maybe I fell in love with Lao Zhou from that moment, haha!" Orange told me this story, and now she is laughing heartily and happily.

Without personal experience, we can't imagine how much harm a scar can do to a girl. But fortunately, the orange met Lao Zhou.

At that time, friends who got together to chat and show short skirts were not necessarily unaware of the scars on the legs and hearts of oranges. However, only Lao Zhou saw the orange's sudden silence, and also read her heart for many years in this silence.

Lao Zhou understood her silence and her mind. Therefore, when the orange and Lao Zhou are together, she no longer has to endure the sad mood that she bears alone every time she is silent.

I look at the happy orange now, and think that she and Lao Zhou really give the best explanation to the word "lover".

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In the 49th story of A Dream of Red Mansions, it is said that Xue Ke, Xue Baoqin, Xing Xiuyan and other relatives came to the Jia family, and the Jia family, Mrs. Wang and others were very happy. Baoyu, Jia's sisters and even Jia's maids met their relatives, and they all went to the Jia family's room to see their relatives, talk about their divorce and get involved in the excitement.

only Daiyu is different from others.

According to Cao Gong's original words, Daiyu was happy at first, and then remembered that everyone had relatives and she was alone and helpless, so she could not help crying again.

At this time, everyone was immersed in the excitement of meeting their relatives. No one saw Daiyu crying, or someone did. Just think that she is used to crying every day, so she doesn't care if it doesn't matter.

Only Baoyu saw Daiyu in tears. Cao Gong said that Baoyu was the only one who "knew his feelings well and comforted him very much".

When I read this paragraph, I deeply felt that Cao Gong's brushwork was profound. However, a short line of words is very touching to read. This is Baoyu's love for Daiyu. Only he can understand why she is crying, her sudden silence, and her hidden sorrow and knot.

people only say that Daiyu cries every day, so it's not a big deal. Only Baoyu, who is distressed by Daiyu's tears, knows why Daiyu cries every time. This is the tacit understanding between wood and stone, and it is the most worrying feeling in the world.

This is the best lover. He can find the sudden silence of people around him and know how to take care of the sudden small emotions of people around him.

this is the best love. I know what you want to say, and you know my silence. We always keep each other's knots in mind, take care of them at any time, comfort them in time and love each other forever.

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