Let’s talk about 40-year-old middle-aged couples, are there still happy marriages?

I think marriage is a long and short process. It's short because a person's life is short, no more than a hundred years, but it's long because marriage must be managed carefully. There are several main stages in the process: Needless to say, the sweetness before marriage, everyone knows it after watching so many movies and TV shows. However, few movies and TV shows can clearly, completely and truly reflect the long period of marriage, because marriages are different, and are full of fireworks, and anything can happen. By the way, as a side note, if you watch the TV series "Golden Wedding", you will know what marriage is like and how to run it.

Can a 40-year-old couple still have a happy marriage? My answer is: yes. But exceptions are not excluded. Varies from person to person.

To be specific, it’s too long to finish in one sentence, and my ability to express myself is limited. So it was waived.

It is recommended to read "Golden Wedding" first. In addition, after a long marriage, I can’t say who is right and who is wrong because I can’t tell the difference. Maybe some people are numb, some people are used to it, and some people want to still have the warmth of the past, but real life is too busy and stressful, making it impossible for people to be calm and smile every day.

My husband and I have had many quarrels and fights. But I always believe that he loves me. Although he no longer talks about it and is even very cruel to me sometimes, I understand him more and more. I believe that he will understand me best after his anger subsides. His love for me has never changed. Although he doesn't say it anymore. He once said: A beautiful marriage can only be the result of mutual cherishment between both parties, and there is no other way.

In addition, the two people must share everything with each other, be honest with each other, and trust each other. No matter what you are thinking, including your dissatisfaction with the other party, you must tell the other party and listen to what the other party has to say. There will be no grudges. The cold war and the accumulation of small conflicts over a long period of time are detrimental to marriage. Remember: three feet of ice does not freeze in one day.

Men are indeed not good at expressing themselves, and women desperately need an audience.

Wish you happiness.