Don't be poor, don't be rich, don't visit neighbors.

In fact, "the poor don't leave their relatives, and the rich don't go home" is just two words strung together. The first half of the sentence is complete: "The poor do not leave their relatives, and the rich do not string neighbors." The original words are "the poor don't go far from the rich and don't string neighbors", because "the poor string relatives and are easily looked down upon; Rich neighbors are prone to false crimes. " If you are poor, even your relatives will not move around (that is, alienate). When you are down and out, don't think about going to relatives' homes to get any benefits, which is easy to be looked down upon! Even the neighbors are afraid to visit if they have money, for fear of being dragged down (that is, indifference)! From "Augmented Xianwen": "The poor don't ask in the downtown area, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains; You can tell the truth if you have money, but you can't believe it if you have no money. Look at the glass on the table and persuade the rich first. If you are poor, you won't leave your relatives. If you are rich, you won't visit your neighbors. Put a begging stick in front of your door to keep your relatives and friends away. It takes gold to make friends in the world, not too much or too deep. Even if you make a promise temporarily, you will always be a pedestrian. Money and wine make more friends, so you can't meet people in urgent need. The winner is king, and the loser is a shackle. Only clothes are not important. " These are the true portrayal of interpersonal relationships in the money society. Describe the world as cold. Many people think that the poor love the rich! "

The original words of the second half of the sentence that the rich don't return home are actually "riches and honour don't return home", which comes from Xiang Yu. After Xiang Yu, the overlord of the Western Chu Dynasty, captured Xianyang, some people advised him to build the capital, but because he missed his hometown, Xiang Yu was eager to return to the east, saying, "Wealth does not return to his hometown, like a night trip, who knows!" It means that if you go back to your hometown without wealth, it's like walking in the dark in gorgeous clothes! In fact, Xiang Yu is eager for the feeling of success, eager to return home with clothes and eager to show off in his hometown. It can also be said that he was carried away by victory.

The first half of the sentence is mainly highlighted when the two sentences are linked together, which means that poor people don't go to their relatives, they will be looked down upon and looked down upon, and relatives think they just come to borrow money to climb their relatives to find trouble; Don't go back to your hometown if you have money, lest those poor relatives borrow money to make trouble.