Talk about generations.

People say that every generation will get hurt, which is true. It makes a big difference whether the child follows the old man or his parents. Take my nephew for example, he has long been spoiled by my parents. That day, I took my daughter to my parents' home for dinner, and my father brought out a plate of freshly washed grapes for the children to eat.

The daughter picked up the grapes, sat on the sofa and ate them one by one. She vomited all the skins and seeds into the garbage basket next to the coffee table in the living room. This is the most common and simple thing, and we have taught her to do it since she was a child. But look at my nephew, that's very different. The whole person is lying on the sofa with his feet on the dining table. After eating a grape, he opened his mouth and spat at the table and the living room floor. When I saw him like this, I got angry at once. I said, sit up, stand still, sit still. Can this grape skin be spit on the ground at will? Besides, there are old people at home, and grandma comes out of the living room. What if she slips? Just when I was in a hurry, my mother ran out of the kitchen: What are you yelling at the child? He is only in the third grade. Isn't he a grape skin? Can't I sweep it later?

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I don't say how well I educate my children, but at least it's polite and reasonable. At the beginning, we lived far away from our parents. My brother, my sister-in-law and my mother lived together. My girl and my nephew were only one year apart. So, mom and dad can only see one child. My wife and I take care of the children and our daughter at work. My brother, sister-in-law, father and mother take care of a child, and finally they get used to it.

My mother is a serious son preference, especially for grandchildren. I said that there must be a correct pain method so that the child will not grow crooked. Last year, my brother and I took our nephew to menstruation's house to pay a New Year call. My brother and I talked to her in the house, but soon my nephew disappeared. When we came out to look for him, he had rummaged through the drawers in the back room and the outhouse. The old aunt looked unhappy. She said, "We are relatives and family. If you go to someone else's house to rummage through drawers, wouldn't you be a thief? "

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When I got home, I told my mother about it. But my mother said: which child is not naughty? It will be fine when you grow up. I said, how old is it? I'm in grade three now, and I'm almost 10 years old. I still don't want to talk about it How to change in the future? I just wanted to say more when my mother's face changed color. "At best, you are a big ye. What happened to your nephew? If you stop, forget it. If not, what about his parents? " What are you insisting on? "I said yes, his father and mother will take care of it. If I really become a thief in the future, don't blame me for not reminding you!

I haven't said this for two days, and something really happened. Somebody else's school teacher called and said that my nephew stole the USB flash drive prepared by the teacher at school and refused to return it to the school. My mother called me and said that she would plead with the teacher and not inform the whole school, which would make the children feel ashamed. I know my nephew's class teacher very well. Alas, I had to bite the bullet and find a shameful one. As a result, the class teacher said: The teacher repeatedly asked the child that you took the teacher's USB flash drive? But your nephew was very calm and said he didn't take it. The teacher asked again, did you take the teacher's U disk? It contains all the information about the teacher's hard preparation. But the child still easily said that he didn't take it. Finally, the teacher adjusted the surveillance, which was taken by your nephew.