It only took me two steps to seduce a boy.

Some people say that the premise for men to be interested in you is that you have high enough value (hardware such as appearance and figure). Of course, I don't deny this, but if you have enough hardware, will he just be interested in you and chase you? Not necessarily, because you may not be the only person with good conditions around him. Here, you need to take the initiative to let him notice you and take an interest in you. Under the same circumstances, men will be more interested in women who care about themselves.

Men are narcissistic and think they are special, so you have to do something to make him feel that he is special to you, and he will definitely notice you, but this degree should be grasped. If he is sure that you regard him as a prey and want to be with him, the game will be over and he will not continue to explore. How? There are four ways.

Method 1: Formally active, actually passive.

His circle of friends is full of praise, and he posts about anything he wants to show off in order to gain his approval. For example, he just sent a photo of a basketball game. Girls can leave messages below. I have never seen you play basketball. You must be good at it.

But when he replies something, please send it off with a cold expression and give it to the other party. Well, I care about you, but only about you.

But this is only about you. Need more attention, please continue the psychological hint of "action". Don't avoid his eyes when meeting, greet him generously, and then give him a meaningful smile, but don't drag him to talk endlessly, and don't just walk over and say, "Wow, you are so handsome, can I know you?" Would you please stop chasing him like a gift and a note? Too many.

Method 2: enthusiasm in eyes and small gestures and indifference in communication.

Men are sensory animals, so their eyes and perception are often superior to listening and speaking. So what you need to do in your eyes is an "attractive" sensory expression of "leaning against the door but smelling the green plum". Many girls may not even blink, so you need to practice in front of the mirror "imagine a mosquito above the corner of your left eye, and then gently pinch it to death."

After repeated practice, you will get a pair of happy eyes. When is the best time to use them? Imagine this scene. When you are face to face with a boy, please hold your head high and pass him quickly. At this time, he may call you. At this time, please turn around and smile, then make an eye and turn your head away at once.

In addition, you can achieve your goal by making some physical contact with him, such as pretending to tie your shoelaces and let him take your milk tea, but pretending to put too much hand cream on him. At this time, the other party must think that you are interested in him. When a man wants to further explore whether you are really interested in him, the usual behavior is to chat with you. At this time, if the girl is also very active and enthusiastic in communication, the basic man will decide his mind.

The desire to conquer will soon cool down, so at this time, you must let the other party cool down in communication, be friendly and polite, but keep your distance deliberately.

Method 3: Make him misunderstand.

Then let him think that he "misunderstood" what it means, that is, do something that makes him feel that you are interested in him, for example, by expressing your concern, appreciation and love for him. For example, take the initiative to tell him that "your actions just now were so handsome, there must be many girls who like you" and "I hope my future boyfriend is a gentleman like you".

When he thinks you are in love with him, look for opportunities to make him feel that he thinks too much. For example, say to him intentionally or unintentionally, "I have made friends with you" and "I regard you as a good friend, so I am willing to tell you everything".

Method four, meet the secondary demand, but not meet the main demand.

Compared with women, men's needs are much simpler. Playing games or something in daily life can basically satisfy half. Therefore, if women can play games well, or grasp men's interests and hobbies and can participate in them to satisfy each other's pleasure in this respect, then men generally will not resist maintaining friendly development relations with them.

But major needs, such as hormones that have nowhere to put them, will be rejected very severely. After all, a good beginning of love should at least start with a man who really wants to associate with him, not just to satisfy his own desires.

The second step is to brainwash crazily, control his emotions and make him fall in love with you completely.

To make a man crazy about you, a better and more effective way is to make him worry about you, and make him feel lost, sad, surprised and suffer from loss because of you. This feeling is similar to the feeling of heaven and hell for a second. Simply put, it is to make him have mood swings, so that he can't stop feeling for you. How to make him feel emotional fluctuations in getting along? The specific practice is as follows.

1, application of ultra-high cutting method and push-pull operation

At the climax of the date, I suddenly said to him, "I'm sorry, I have to go back. I have to work tomorrow." I can't chat happily until I play late. When the other party was about to tell his wonderful past, he suddenly said to him, "I'm a little sleepy. I'll talk about it tomorrow. Good night. "

Let's talk about push-pull technology first. You invited a boy to dinner, and suddenly you felt uncomfortable near the time, so you sent him a text message saying I wouldn't go. Just when he was depressed, you suddenly felt that if you didn't go, you would lose your beautiful makeup today, so you sent him a message saying, I'd better go, I want to see you.

Your refusal and acceptance are called "push and pull" in love psychology. This kind of push and pull will cause his strong mood swings, lead to his heart beating faster, stimulate the secretion of dopamine, and create the illusion of "falling in love with you" for him.

2. Pay attention to details and use gentleness as a trap.

In sexual intercourse, women tend to get more care. For example, girls will ask boys to pick her up from work at night, prepare all kinds of surprises for her, undress her when it is cold, and her boyfriend will come to coax her when he is sad. But many boys are also a small public action, eager to be cared for. At this time, if you can care about him properly, it will definitely make him feel warm, but of course it can't be too much. I suggest starting with the details.

Take shopping as an example. When the weather is very hot, take the initiative to buy him a bottle of water and hand it to him, saying, "Drink more water in this heat." . Or hand him a paper towel, "Look at the way you sweat, wipe your sweat quickly." Or take the initiative to say, "It's hard to go shopping with women. Why don't I accompany you to the Internet cafe to play two games? "

3. Keep it mysterious and never let him guess.

When a man thinks he knows you well enough, he creates a strong contrast through some behaviors, which makes him want to study you. I had a fan before, and she always gave people the feeling of a quiet and obedient girl! One day, she found that the boy she liked seemed to be in a bad mood, so she called the boy at night 10 and said, "Look, you are in a bad mood. Come on, I'll take you somewhere and have a drink with you. "

Then the boy went out with her excitedly. As a result, they stayed late that day, and the boy thought that the girl should not go back at night. As a result, the girl drank half and asked her girlfriend to take her back. This coquettish operation tickled the boy's heart and confessed to her in a few days.

Step 4 play the role of eyes

As the saying goes, "if the opposite sex stares at each other's eyes for 7 seconds, there is a 90% chance of falling in love with each other." You should learn to look him in the eye when you talk to him every day. If he stares at you for more than three seconds, I promise he can't sleep tonight, and his mind is full of you.

"What do you mean by her? Does she like me when she smiles at me? " She always stares at me to see if she likes me. The longer he is with you, the more he wants to tell you.

5, it seems that there is no physical contact, tickle him.

Men are most sensitive to physical contact, so we can use some physical contact to stimulate his dopamine secretion. For example, when everyone is chatting together and talking about funny things, you tilt your head to him while laughing, and casually lean on his shoulder or pat him on the back.

Fasten your seat belt and pretend that you can't pull it off. It's very laborious and it's natural to say, "What's the matter? I can't pull it down. " Can you fasten my seat belt? "These casual little affectations are the most exciting. What you should pay attention to is that "action" can only be calm water, just right.

6, will say love words, give him the illusion of love.

What if you say I'm too timid to take the initiative to contact boys? There's still something fishy. Just have a mouth The easiest way is to praise him. You should observe him carefully, and then find something that others can't easily find and praise him. For example, you find that he is not very handsome, but he has good facial features and is very attractive. This is a commendable point.

For example, you can boast that a certain body part is beautiful, such as a straight nose and beautiful eyes. Before, I just watched a girl pick up a boy she liked. The boy looks ordinary, but he has beautiful hands. He is slender and very suitable for playing the piano. The girl praised him, "Did anyone say that your hands are beautiful and suitable for playing the piano?" It's really God's fault. I gave you such beautiful hands, but every time I praise them, it's a different story.