Mom said that, which is more useful than yelling at the child 100 times.

Mom said that, which is more useful than yelling at the child 100 times.

I hope that as parents, I can communicate correctly and effectively and establish a harmonious and friendly parent-child relationship.

1, when the child says "no"

We can say: Baby, you can say "No". Can you tell mom the reason why you said "no"?

Don't say: What do children know? Listen to me. That's right.

2. When a child loses something,

We can say: it doesn't matter, everyone will lose things. Learning from this experience, we won't be careless next time.

Don't say: How can you be stupid enough to lose everything? Why didn't you lose yourself?

3. The child does something wrong and dawdles.

We can say: We will leave in five minutes. Which bag do you want to take? What clothes to wear? I'll wait for you at the door first.

Don't say: hurry up, you are so slow every time. We're gonna be late!

4. When children don't want to sleep.

We can say: 10 minutes to sleep. Do you want to wash or tell a story first?

Don't say: how many times have I told you, don't you get it? Don't sleep yet!

5. When children don't want to talk to us.

We can say: Son, I think you seem unhappy today. I'm a little worried about you. Can you talk to your mother?

Don't say: I'm talking to you, do you hear me? Why don't you talk?

6. When children cry to achieve their goals.

We can say: honey, mom knows you are sad, cry and vent, and we will communicate when you are in a better mood.

Don't say: cry! Cry! Cry! Cry! It's no use crying. How did I give birth to a child like you?