In the real society, how to keep your integrity?

In real life, if you want to keep your integrity, you should not be assimilated when you are hurt, but protect yourself by reasonable means. Although we are relieved by the practice of fighting violence with violence and fighting violence with violence, it is undoubtedly a practice of killing one thousand enemies and losing 800, which is not advisable. While taking revenge, we also ruined our lives, and it assimilated ourselves into people who are the same as each other, ugly, selfish and cruel, and that honest heart was abandoned by ourselves, so we should walk under the light of law and regulate our behavior under the moral bottom line. Having an upright heart is more than just doing good deeds. Doing good is certain. When we see others in trouble, it is undoubtedly good to help them, but only if we know whether they really need help? The human heart is the most difficult to understand. I used to think that I was the most commendable person who protected each other wholeheartedly, but this was just my self-righteousness, and the other party was just using me. I know her because I saw her being bullied, so I helped her when I saw her being so delicate. I don't know the truth. From then on, we became good friends. If we didn't meet by chance, I don't know that my good friend is just wishful thinking. The other party took me for a fool and asked me to help her block the gun. She got herself into trouble and slandered me.

I was not convinced, so I wanted to take revenge in the same way, but when I calmed down, I found that I couldn't, which would ruin myself, so I didn't want someone to beat her up and suffer the same pain as me. I find out the truth of the matter and let everyone see her true face, no matter how she plays, it's useless. In the real society, the interest relationship is very important, and it is difficult to keep an honest heart. If I don't pay attention, I will be assimilated. It's like I knew I was being used and almost wanted to hit her, but if I did, it would be my fault, so I stopped in time. Solve problems in the right way, with morality and law. To keep an upright heart, we must first keep ourselves awake. No matter what we encounter, we should not break through the bottom line, otherwise it will not be good for us. Do a good deed, but know whether the other person is worth it before doing it. Kindness and integrity should not be misunderstood as? Hypocrisy