My parents bought me a house. Why does her mother-in-law live so confidently? What should I do?

Some people say that marriage is the grave of love. Bian Xiao's understanding of this sentence. Probably when you were in love. You feel good about each other. I have a good temper, and I feel that my future will be beautiful and my life will be very happy. But when you get married, you will find that life is not as simple as you think. In love, you will encounter all kinds of problems. If you can persist, you will win. But if you really can't stand each other and think it's really hard for you to live together, it's unfortunate. You may really be unsuitable.

The most difficult thing to deal with in this marriage is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which is very subtle. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law needs to pay attention to many problems in getting along. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been complicated since ancient times. With the impact of various foreign thoughts since the reform and opening up, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been escalating. This is a huge problem faced by many daughter-in-law. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law don't like each other, and their ideas are quite different. Quarrels are common.

Xiao Jing and Xiao Ning (both pseudonyms) met while working outside the home. Xiao Ning is the only son in their family. Their family's economic conditions were not very good since childhood, so Xiao Ning dropped out of school very early and went out to work, and later met Xiao Jing. Xiao Jing's family conditions are not bad, so Xiao Jing's parents always disagreed when they knew they were together, but Xiao Jing always insisted, and her parents had no choice but to agree.

Xiao Jing is a very gentle girl, and their feelings are also very good. Even if there is a quarrel, it will be reconciled immediately, so it is highly valued by people around it. When they got married, Xiao Ning's family only gave tens of thousands of dollars as a bride price. Xiaojing's parents have always loved Xiaojing, fearing that she would suffer hardships when she got married. When they got married, they had a house, because the other party's economic conditions were not good, so buying a house after marriage was a big deal. Xiaojing's parents don't want Xiaojing to suffer.

They have been married for less than two years. Xiao Ning's parents died after being injured while working in the field. At that time, the construction site only lost a little money. Because Xiao Ning's mother is old and sick for a long time, and no one takes care of her at home, Xiao Jing and Xiao Ning discuss taking her to live with them in the city, which is also convenient to take care of. Although Xiao Jing hesitated at first, this is Xiao Ning's mother after all, and she has an obligation to take care of herself.

But it never occurred to him that he was hesitant and made his life desperate. After her mother-in-law moved in to live by herself, she found that she and her mother-in-law couldn't get along at all. Her mother-in-law's ideas are old-fashioned and her personality is stubborn. Moreover, the mother-in-law is very strong. Once her thoughts were different from her mother-in-law's, her mother-in-law forced Xiao Jing to change. No matter who is right or wrong, her mother-in-law thinks it is Xiao Jing's fault and doesn't listen to Xiao Jing's explanation at all.

Mother-in-law has another problem, that is, she is a face in front of Xiao Ning and a different face in front of herself. Every time Xiao Jing and Xiao Ning complain, Xiao Ning doesn't believe them. Xiao Ning thought Xiao Jing was talking nonsense, because what Xiao Ning saw was not what Xiao Jing said at all. Seeing Xiao Jing feels helpless and wronged. Moreover, once Xiao Jing accidentally discovered that her mother-in-law would tell her neighbors that she was not satisfied with her when chatting with them. Maybe Xiao Jing and Xiao Ning complained too many times. Xiao Ning always quarreled with Xiao Jing about this matter, and said that Xiao Jing was not filial at all, and found fault with her mother-in-law. The contradiction between Xiao Ning and Xiao Jing is getting bigger and bigger. Xiao Ning doesn't believe Xiao Jing at all. Xiaojing is really wronged in this family.

One day, a relative came to the family, and Xiao Jing was working outside. Xiao Ning called Xiao Jing and told her to buy something to eat when she came back, because there were guests at home. Xiao Jing bought a lot of vegetables when she came back from work, but when she went to the bedroom to change clothes and cook, she found that the newly bought laptop in the room fell to the ground and broke. This laptop is what she needs when she comes back from working overtime every night. She was very angry. The child was in the room at that time. It was obvious that the child did it, so she didn't stop yelling at the child and the child cried.

When the mother-in-law heard the child crying, she immediately came out and said that Xiaojing was still scolding Xiaojing. Xiaojing thinks there is nothing wrong with this. Shouldn't children be wrong? Can't we wait until the children tear down the house? When the mother came out, she also said a few quiet words and said that if something is broken, just pay for it. Our family can't even afford this thing. The child knows nothing. What are you doing to this child? Xiao Jing really can't stand it. She said to them, get out. This is my home, and you are not welcome in our home!

Xiaojing really can't stand this kind of life and doesn't want to continue. She thinks that if he does this again, he will become depressed. What do you think of this?