When a child falls, he will cry. What else should parents know besides femininity?

When a child falls, he will cry. What else should parents know besides femininity? I believe that babies in many families are parents' babies and are afraid of being wronged and hurt. So recently, many treasure moms have asked me this question, "Will the child fall?" When the baby falls, many parents are anxious to help the child up first. So, is this really good? Should the baby be helped when he falls? Let's take a look with Bian Xiao!

The baby cried after he fell. What are the hidden caution machines? Make a choice: it is inevitable that the baby will fall down while growing up. Sometimes his leg hurts especially when he falls to the ground and touches his arm. At this time, the baby's crying is really crying, and there is no hidden caution. But sometimes the baby doesn't touch the human body after falling, and it doesn't hurt so much, but they can't get up on the ground and gradually cry when they see their parents, mainly because the baby is making a choice. When the baby didn't see his parents, he didn't cry because he was unwell. But the baby is choosing whether to go down or not. As soon as they saw their parents coming, the baby cried at once. At this time, they made a good choice. According to sobbing, they are going to let their parents pick them up. Look at this careful machine. They have been villains since childhood!

I hope someone can comfort me: the baby is eager for all-round care. The baby's body has been well raised by his parents, but he is also eager to be comforted by his parents' mentality. Sometimes the baby doesn't feel pain after a fall, but he still has to cry with his mouth open, mainly because the baby wants his parents to come to comfort him. If parents are usually too busy to be around, they prefer to use this trick to force their parents to submit. This kind of careful machine also shows the baby's reluctance and nostalgia for mom and dad. Parents should not be too stingy, pay more attention to the baby's psychological state and give the baby more warmth.

I hope I can feel the love of my parents: it is the main expression of a very delicate feeling to see my parents crying after my baby falls, but behind this delicate personal behavior is a baby's heart that looks forward to parents' care. After the baby fell, he saw his parents and performed a crying performance by himself. Behind him, he hoped that his mother could come and hug me, and it was best to gently touch my body. This is a feeling of love for the baby. If parents see their baby like this all the time, they need to realize their desire to be loved every once in a while. Babies always attract their parents' attention according to this personal behavior to prove that they are a loved child.

What parents should pay attention to is that they should never let their baby develop a crying character. They should pay attention to these points: in the process of growing up, babies will inevitably engage in many interesting personal behaviors, which is particularly eye-catching and also makes parents have a headache and anxiety. Parents can't give in every time. Paying too much attention to them will make the baby's character more and more fragile and his ability to resist oppression is also very low. He always wants to rely on his parents. With the development of age, parents need to understand that they can't keep their babies on standby as before, and they need to work hard to be independent. With the improvement of their ability, parents need to use their working ability to make them a strong person.

Avoid overindulging children: Parents who spoil their babies often have a good relationship with them. One day, parents can't meet the baby's rules. At this time, the baby can't accept it, and then he will cry. If you overindulge your baby in cultural education, the baby will be ungrateful to his parents and feel that their attention and investment are taken for granted. Parents cry when they violate their baby's affection a little. Parents always spoil their babies when educating them, which will make them feel that they are the focus of their parents. It is particularly important for parents to treat them all.

Wrong way of education: the wrong way of education given by parents to the baby will also help the baby develop a crying personality. If parents are particularly strict with their babies, making their baby's psychological state very fragile, the baby will be more sensitive and noisy, while parents who usually don't pay attention to their baby's company can easily develop a sensitive personality. Moreover, some parents have psychological compensation for their babies and feel that they don't have so much time to spend with them. When the baby makes a request, the parents will say yes, and as long as they hear the baby crying, they will go there immediately. This kind of education will also turn the baby into cry baby.

The baby always cries when he is fine. How should parents respond? Learn to ignore: most parents think that their baby should not ignore as long as he sobs, because sobbing means being hurt. Sometimes babies sob on purpose. If parents can be sure that they are not hurt, ignore it at this time. It's best not to look at the baby and pretend not to know. In this way, the baby can stand up after falling without being hurt. If parents ignore them again and again, the baby will feel that he must get the attention of his parents.

Learn to handle it coldly: If the baby often cries because of a trivial matter, parents should not pay too much attention to the baby, but also learn how to handle it appropriately and how to deal with his personal behavior of intentionally crying. Some babies especially want to attract their parents' attention, so they cry and cause a lot of inconvenience to their parents. If parents let their baby know that no matter how they cry, they won't give in, and the baby will know that crying is useless and won't cry so much.

It is normal for babies to cry easily in childhood, but parents must pay attention to it and don't let them develop a sensitive and fragile psychological state. Crying all the time is not a good phenomenon. It just shows that the baby depends on everyone's psychological state, which is not conducive to the baby's real success.