What kind of experience is it to be put on a hoop spell?

Curses are things that appear in The Journey to the West, and gradually become a kind of bondage for many people, which makes people feel uncomfortable.

At school, I was put on a spell, because my parents always told you that I had to study hard, which made me feel very uneasy. But for my future, I have to study hard, which makes me feel helpless, but I have to do something. But after college, I got rid of the tight spell, which made me feel very relaxed and comfortable, and I liked this feeling of freedom very much. I hope I can do this in the future, so