Only after getting married did I know that these kinds of mother-in-law all like their daughter-in-law, and all the women they meet are lucky.

My best friend said that I didn't know until I got married that my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were not natural enemies and could get along well. They are all warm-hearted people. She said that when she first got married, she felt that her mother-in-law was too strong and always made decisions for the couple. Her mother-in-law made her feel disrespectful, but for the sake of her elders, my best friend didn't say anything.

Later, she found out that her mother-in-law was just trying to save face. As long as she doesn't contradict her in public, everything will be easy to discuss when she gets home, and she is not as strong as she thought. Moreover, the mother-in-law is very distressed by her daughter-in-law, and housework is always rushed to do, especially on the days when her best friend is uncomfortable, and her mother-in-law will not let her wash the dishes.

In fact, "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies" is the person who had contradictions before, exaggerating this relationship. Nowadays, people with good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are embarrassed to "show off" in front of outsiders all the time. In fact, there are many good mothers-in-law in real life. Therefore, many women feel that they only know after marriage that these kinds of mother-in-law are very distressed by their daughters-in-law, and all the women they meet are lucky.

No daughter wants a daughter's mother-in-law.

Most of the post-80s generation are only children, and many mothers who have given birth to sons actually hope to have a daughter. Therefore, a woman will be lucky to meet a mother-in-law who has no daughter and wants a daughter after marriage. Because such a mother-in-law will treat her daughter-in-law as a girlfriend. A friend of mine, her husband is the only child in the family, and her mother-in-law has always wanted to have a daughter. Therefore, after they got married, the mother-in-law pinned all her wishes for raising her daughter on her daughter-in-law.

My mother-in-law always takes her shopping, eats big meals and buys her clothes, shoes and bags. She is more willing to spend money for her than her mother. Now, their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along like mother and daughter. Usually she quarrels with her husband, and her mother-in-law is also a daughter-in-law who is more distressed than her son. Every time she makes her husband complain: "My son is married, you are the mother and daughter."

A mother-in-law who doesn't protect her faults

After marriage, the couple rarely have conflicts. If they quarrel and fight in front of their mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law can not cover up her mistakes, that is a good mother-in-law who knows how to take care of her daughter-in-law. Because in a family, the daughter-in-law is the one who gets married later. If she quarrels with her husband, and then her mother-in-law defends her fault and helps her husband to blame together, then this daughter-in-law is too sad. A mother-in-law who doesn't cover up her faults has the right to help anyone, or she is smarter to take it out on her daughter-in-law, who still has some comfort in her heart. Therefore, it is a woman's luck to meet her mother-in-law who doesn't hide her faults.

Wise mother-in-law

There is also a mother-in-law who knows how to love her daughter-in-law, and that is a reasonable mother-in-law. This kind of mother-in-law will not let her daughter-in-law be wronged in a muddled way, nor will she embarrass her daughter-in-law everywhere after marriage because of the idea of "old stubbornness", but she will also understand her daughter-in-law's contribution to this family as an "outsider". Therefore, when a woman meets a reasonable mother-in-law after marriage, life will be much smoother. Moreover, a reasonable mother-in-law will know how to think from the perspective of others and fully respect and sympathize with her daughter-in-law. This kind of mother-in-law is probably what every woman expects to meet.

Ladies and gentlemen, what is your mother-in-law? Will you feel sorry for your wife?