When you get older, do you live with your children or on your own?

“Being old-age, having support, being happy, and having peace of mind” are the thoughts of every old person. They hope that their children can fulfill their filial piety and support them when they are old. I hope that my children will be my support, and I hope that my children and grandchildren will be around me and enjoy family happiness, so that I can truly feel stable and at ease.

However, wishes are beautiful, but reality is always cruel. I don’t know when, many children and the elderly have established a line of defense between them. If each other wants to cross the line of defense, they must abide by each other’s rules. Rules, otherwise if you force them to exceed them, the consequences will be miserable.

I always hear people around me say that you should never live with your children when you are old. There will be many things that, if not handled well, will affect the family relationship. I didn’t believe it at first, after all. My son is so filial, how could he treat me badly?

When we actually live together, we realize what is difficult and tiring? My son and daughter-in-law both work. They leave early and come back late every day, which is quite hard. As a mother, I naturally have to be considerate of them. In addition to washing, cooking, cleaning, and picking up the children every day, I am also responsible for picking up and dropping off the children.

It doesn’t matter. The main thing is that the child has to attend interest classes every day. You can go with him. The difficulty is that the parents also have to follow suit and come back to tutor their children. If you don’t learn, then the WeChat group The homework cannot be completed.

I am so old, my brain is not working well, and I can’t figure out how to use a smartphone. My son and daughter-in-law have taught me many times, but they still can’t do it. Many times, when the children’s homework is not completed, the teacher calls the parents.

If your body allows, still help your children.