Talk about the feeling of being admitted to Xi Jiaotong University.

I study PhD in the same situation as you. At that time, the child was one and a half years old and studied full-time with her husband. Having children is also the most difficult engineering course to graduate. Usually, I was too busy to eat and drink my children, so I followed us to the canteen and was sent to kindergarten at the age of two and a half. I sit in the lab and watch cartoons in winter and summer vacations, eat hundreds of meals in the lab, and occasionally do experiments with them. Everyone teases her when she's fine. All the teachers and classmates know my children. People are even used to her being a member of the laboratory. She likes to ask a question that stumbles all masters and doctors. Wearing gloves to catch mice at the age of three or four is very professional.

It's really hard to read a PhD. It is harder for both husband and wife to bring their children to school, but it is also beneficial. Children's self-study ability is super strong. As soon as one gets to kindergarten, one can learn English loudly in the laboratory, read picture books independently and have a soft spot for science. I just graduated now and my children have grown up a lot. I think the biggest gain of reading a PhD is that besides improving my academic qualifications and working conditions, it also sets an example for children and has a very strong subtle influence on them.

Read it. It is worth remembering the days of hard work. Accompanied by children in hard work, children will have a clearer understanding of work and study.

I had a baby at the age of 32. How old is your baby? If you have reached the stage of kindergarten or elementary school. That's more suitable for doctoral studies.

Nowadays, many female doctors are often called extinct teachers, because they are older and have reached the doctoral stage, usually in their twenties and thirties. I'm not married. I haven't even talked to my friends. If you are now 32 years old, have already taken part in the work, married and have children, you can say that all the conditions are relatively mature. If you can solve the problem of taking care of children, I think you should have better conditions for going to school now.

And if you go to school now, you may be different from the people who go to school this year. Because you already know what you want in your actual work and how much influence reading will have on yourself in the future, you should be able to read more. Of course, according to the current general regulations, if you can get into a doctor's degree, you usually have to transfer files, that is to say, you have to resign from your original unit. But I think it is worthwhile to be admitted to Xi Jiaotong University even if you resign. Because after all, as a top university in China, it should be no problem to find a job after graduation. Of course, it depends on your major.

In a word, make up your mind and try to get a doctorate on time. I believe your future is bright!

Middle-aged women should think twice, but don't be impulsive. Impulse is the devil!

When I was admitted to the doctor's degree, I was 30 years old and my school was far away in Wuhan. At that time, I had two children, the older was four years old and the younger was one year old.

Life is very stressful, but I still devote myself wholeheartedly, leaving my children at my parents' home and going to Wuhan to study PhD alone. After four years of hard work, I finally graduated with difficulty.

After graduation, I came to Shanghai and became an ordinary teacher in a high school. I was 34 years old.

Looking back now, it was an eventful autumn and a beautiful memory of struggle. Through reading a PhD, I got the pleasure of scientific research and won the lifelong title of doctor.

That's all.

If the school is near your home, or if you are a teacher in our school, you don't need all the staff to work, then study decisively. This kind of reading won't have much influence on your life, and it is the icing on the cake for your career.

If the family background is average, it will definitely do more harm than good for middle-aged women who are married and have children, and they will lose too much, especially for their children's companionship and education.

In a word, PhD is a kind of entrepreneurship, and to some extent, it is also a bet on the future, and it is possible to fail. Middle-aged women still have to consider everything from the perspective of family. The family is stable, and it is best to read a blog by the way. If the two places must be separated and the children abandoned, then the doctor may not study.

Must go! My cousin is 33 years old now, so it is said that the whole family can enjoy happiness when one person studies PhD!

I was admitted to the doctor's degree last year, and now I am the same as the subject. I'm married and have a baby! Sister-in-law, in order to support my cousin, it's worth it to be bitter and tired again!

A few days ago, I heard that an employer was recruiting people with an annual salary of over 500,000.

And if you apply, you will be assigned to a three-bedroom and one-bedroom building. The key is not only to solve your own work, but also to assign a spouse.

Therefore, doctors are still very popular now. As long as you work hard enough, leave the rest to God!

The research object is 32 years old and has just been admitted to Xi Jiaotong University to pursue a doctorate. I think I must study, or my 20 years of study will be in vain.

So many years of study, is it not for this moment? In order not to have any regrets in the future, I advise you to go to school!

After all, after all these years, there is no harm in studying for a few years. Besides, since you are a woman, your husband will definitely support you.

You don't have to worry about it at home, just go to school with peace of mind. It is estimated that your salary will be several times higher than it is now.

What's more, you got a doctorate from Xi Jiaotong University, which is a double-class university: 985,211engineering university.

Seriously, I really envy you now. Learn to be a bully, and your family and studies will be rewarded!

If a more harmonious situation is read out, then the truth in the future society will be more and more extensive.

So, I think you still need to think about it. After all, it's gone if you give up.

I was a winner in life, but I lost without reading it. You are 32 years old, married and have children, and you have just been admitted to Xi Jiaotong University. How lucky you are! Everything accounts for the whole, and after reading a doctor, she is a goddess. Congratulations, don't give up the chance to become a goddess. Work harder when you are young, and the road will be wider and wider in the future.

Mu wants to congratulate you first, and congratulations on your admission to the doctor's degree!

According to the description of your question, it can be seen that this topic should be admitted to a full-time doctor. If it is a part-time job, there will be no such confusion.

For married and fertile mothers, there are really many things to consider now, and it is difficult to choose.

Next, Mu will analyze it carefully for you, hoping to help you.

(1) Self-analysis If five or more of the following seven articles "support" your study, you may wish to consider studying.

1 What is your occupation now? What is the salary? Is there room for promotion?

Is your family burdened? If I quit my job and go to school, will it affect my family's quality of life?

Who will take care of your children if you go to school? Can you bring it?

Where is your home? How far is it from Xi 'an? Can you take care of your family on weekends?

What do your lover and family think of this? Do they support it?

If you go to college, will family harmony be affected? Is the relationship between your husband and wife affected?

What is the employment quality of 7 Xi Jiaotong University doctors? What are your professional employment prospects?

(2) The reason why you should study 1 You have been preparing for so long, why don't you study?

Doctor, it's not that easy to get into the exam. It must take some time to prepare.

Your family must have known before you decided to apply, and I think they also supported it.

In that case, why not read it?

Dr. Xi Jiaotong University, with high gold content, is very helpful to your career after reading it.

Xi jiaotong university, 985,211engineering university, is a double-class university.

Xi jiaotong university's doctorate is among the best in the country. It will be easier to find a job if you finish reading.

(3) We should also consider whether we can graduate smoothly. It's a good thing to study for a doctorate, but you should also be fully prepared. Concentrate on your studies during school, otherwise it will be difficult to graduate!

Mourinho is not an alarmist, but a true statement.

If you go to search, you will find that there are not a few people who are admitted to the doctor but can't graduate.

Everything has advantages and disadvantages! Please think twice before you act!

If your family supports you and you have confidence in yourself, you might as well read it.

If your family doesn't support you and you don't have much confidence in yourself, consider studying for a part-time doctorate next year.

No matter which way you choose, you will lose something, and of course you will gain something, depending on how you choose.

Good luck! Come on!

My friends, what do you think of this? Welcome everyone to leave a message in the comments section below!

Yesterday, I saw a WeChat sent by my daughter in a circle of friends, and my mood has been difficult to calm down. Just meeting your question again can't help but make me more excited.

My daughter graduated from medical college. She has a good work unit. She is a wife and mother. Having a stable job and a warm home should be very happy. But last year I was admitted to a full-time doctor's degree and went to study in the northernmost and coldest city in China.

I have always opposed the question of whether my daughter should study for a doctorate, but I just didn't say it. Because the daughter is a wife, it should belong to the man's family. Fortunately, with the full support of the son-in-law, the mother-in-law and father-in-law agreed very much and gave them financial support. Last year, my daughter successfully studied PhD, and her mother-in-law stayed at home to look after the children.

The subject is in the same situation as my daughter. Whether to read or not depends on my own decision, as well as the support of my wife and the man's family. This is a necessary condition. Others just talk about their own views and opinions.

The road of life is long and short, and the short is a moment. Some people cherish the present, while others value the future. The beauty of anything depends on how you treat it. It's easy not to study for a doctorate, but difficult to study for a doctorate. It's rare to have several opportunities in life. Do you want to study for a PhD? Make up your mind and communicate with your family. I hope you have a bright future. It is not easy to persist in learning at this stage. If you have children, you can let your mother-in-law or grandmother take them. But you must do a good job of your lover and strive for his support.

Reading a blog alone makes the whole family happy? The person who said this may be a moon man!

The living environment of people on earth, especially China, is mostly influenced by a person reading a blog!

Yes, you are your daughter's role model. A 45-year-old civil servant in Shanghai bought a house and went to the United States to study for a master's degree as a marriage counselor. Among them, the difficulty is far greater than yours. I overcame the language barrier, took the IELTS test, had no communication abroad, and my health was not as good as that of young people, but I abruptly gnawed away my degree. Bitterness is more difficult than you think, but as long as you set a good goal and work hard bit by bit, you will slowly come to an end with the passage of time. At that time, the lady's daughter in Shanghai was also in the second day, and the second year was the senior high school entrance examination. Didn't she do what she wanted? Some netizens said in the comments that this lady is too selfish and doesn't care about her daughter, but her daughter didn't do well in the exam because she didn't have her mother's company. In fact, her daughter was admitted to a better high school. What children need is a spiritual role model. Spiritual companionship is often deeper and more powerful than physical companionship. ...

Finally, may you be yourself. ...