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Weddings have always been a touching etiquette. With changes in material conditions and life concepts, the format of weddings is being renovated almost every year.

This year is a "prosperous year" for weddings, and various personalized weddings are being planned by couples and wedding companies.

"Taking it on the spot" brings romantic surprises

Mr. Lu, who was born in the early 1960s, is a software engineer. By nature, he is relatively slow about emotional matters, until his classmates Colleagues

only take their marriage issues seriously when they are in pairs. Later, with the help of friends and family, he fell in love with a girl who was nearly 20 years younger than her. The two fell in love at first sight, and when discussing the wedding ceremony six months later, Mr. Lu decided to leave it entirely to the wedding company. After soliciting opinions from both parties,

the wedding company decided to make personalized designs for them. When the wedding march started to sound, Mr. Lu, who was unaware of it in advance, followed the request of the emcee and once the gongs and drums sounded, he sprinted from the hotel door to the bride on the stage at a speed of 100 meters. Because the gongs and drums were beating so fast, He was over 40 years old and ran out of breath

and he stumbled several times before arriving at the bride's side, much to the annoyance of the relatives and friends present. That's not all, they also received an even bigger surprise - the emcee organized on-site text messaging, lottery draws and other activities, and everyone interacted on stage and off stage. Mr. Lu, who had never performed before, was even Ask to sing on stage

. Because it was real, relatives and friends felt very good. Everyone asked Mr. Lu why he gave them so many surprises? He hesitated for a long time before replying: I am also surprised! The bride said coquettishly: I never thought he could create romance. The emcee said that men and women born in different eras

get surprises at the same time during the wedding, which is also the effect they deliberately pursue.

11 butterflies flying around the bride

"European-style weddings started in the mid-1990s. After nearly 10 years of interpretation, they became outdated around 2003. In order to satisfy the newlyweds

In pursuit of new and unique things, now we are planning to launch an electronic wedding. "According to Mr. Chuan Hai, president of the Nanjing Wedding Host Club and a well-known wedding officiant

, this year's wedding in Nanjing. Based on last year's candlelight wedding, the wedding scene fully borrowed modern sound and light technology and used electronic candles or fluorescent liquids to create an electronic wedding. When the glowing ice cubes are poured into the champagne, the blue light beams flash, creating an unexpected and wonderful effect on the scene.

This year’s wedding pays more attention to thematic design based on the characteristics of the couple. Mr. Lin, who works at an insect research institute, gave the bride a box of butterflies as a surprise at the wedding. 11 butterflies representing "wholeheartedness" surrounded the bride. While flying,

the wedding reached its climax, with thunderous cheers on and off the stage; a couple who both worked in a hospital, their wedding theme was Eternal Angel, and they exchanged gifts

It's strange but expected: what the newlyweds handed each other was a prescription - the groom's prescription read: "lovesickness", and the bride

's prescription read: "marriage madness". In the refreshing wedding design, the wedding company is constantly adjusting the characteristics of the wedding ceremony in accordance with the more fashionable requirements of the couple. The main purpose is to deepen the details and highlight the theme, in order to make the couple's relatives and friends Remember this unique wedding.

The income of wedding emcees has increased 10 times in 10 years

According to reports, there are currently more than 300 people specializing in wedding emcees in Nanjing. Due to the acceleration of market demand, this team is still expanding. ,

While the salary has doubled, the requirements for emcees are also getting higher and higher. Ancient costume wedding, European wedding, water wedding...the formats used by others can no longer be used. For this reason, after taking over a business, many emcees will have a detailed understanding of their relationship and hobbies with the bride and groom.

We strive to be just one example and never repeat it, so the various weddings are dazzling. The wedding company's excessive efforts also received corresponding returns. According to a professional emcee who has been in the wedding industry in Nanjing for 17 years, in the mid-1990s, it was rare for some fashionable young people to hire emcees to show off. He was at a wedding Just say a few words and everyone usually just immerses themselves in eating.

The couple paid a symbolic hard fee, which was only about one or two hundred yuan. At that time, the cost of hosting a wedding for about 10 people was only three to five thousand

yuan; now the same wedding has risen to about 30,000 yuan. This year, due to the increase in various wedding expenses, the total cost of the wedding has also increased by 20 to 30. A more professional and experienced emcee can A wedding can net about 1,800 yuan to 2,000 yuan. "No pain, no gain", which also prompts wedding companies to do their best to create unique weddings.

On May 1st, a couple in Jinan witnessed their love by candlelight. The whole ceremony was warm and romantic. Photo by our reporter Liu Jun

Faced with the pursuit of personalized weddings by many young people, relevant people believe that in addition to the need to expand public concepts, those who specialize in wedding

services The industry should also eliminate its limitations in vision and knowledge and learn more from foreign counterparts and exchange experiences to promote the development of personalized weddings.

"Undersea wedding", "bus wedding", "walking wedding", "palanquin wedding", "yacht wedding", "fairy tale wedding", "bungee jumping

wedding"... Searching for the term "personalized wedding" on the Internet, reporters can easily find dozens of different wedding styles.

Many new wedding ideas are so amazing that they have become the focus of various media. Since this year, various forms of weddings have been reported in the newspapers. This is actually It has contributed to the increase in personalized weddings. However, the main reason is that individuality is a requirement for improving living standards and is a reflection of social development and progress. Therefore, compared with those cities known for their fashion, Jinan, which has always been conservative and moderate, has also seen "candlelight weddings", "bus weddings" and so on this year, revealing some signs of personalization.

However, how should this marriage be considered personal? Many newbies may be worried about this. In fact, in the reporter's opinion, no matter what form a wedding takes, it is unfamiliar to newlyweds. As long as the form is in line with the preferences of the two people and can confirm their love, this is their own personality. wedding. It is neither

fancy dressing up, nor is it simply seeking novelty and change, nor is it a deliberate attempt to make a fool of oneself, because it is actually a kind of blind obedience, accommodating

others. people’s feelings, preferences and concepts. Therefore, a "personalized wedding" is not only a change in the form of a wedding, but also reflects the parties' understanding and grasp of the connotation of marriage.

It must be mentioned that while "personality" exists, happy newcomers still have to consider whether their behavior conforms to certain social norms. Previously it was revealed that a Ph.D. student from Peking University rode a bicycle to marry his bride, and faced the embarrassing situation of being punished by the traffic control department due to traffic violations, which made people psychologically have opinions on this "personality".

On the other hand, compared with people’s diversified demands for innovation and changes in weddings, Shi Kangning, director general of the Wedding Industry Committee of the China Association of Social Work, believes that

The current wedding companies can There are really not many services available, and those wedding companies that "make wedding dresses" for couples should gradually eliminate the limitations in their vision and knowledge.

Personalized weddings give birth to personalized planners

“The train is leaving quickly, the train is leaving quickly, I’m on the train bound for the south, but my luggage is a letter...” Accompanied by Qi Qin The music was full of American country flavor, and a very "cartoon" "train" with the number 526 (the wedding date of the newlyweds) drove into the wedding stage.

The two children acted as train drivers, and the two newlywed leaders acted as train conductors...

This personalized wedding was directed by the wedding master of ceremonies, Huang Xiaoqing. Her inspiration came from the love story of the couple, who met and fell in love on the train and eventually got married.

The wedding recreated the scene of the two on the train, which made the relatives and friends at the scene happy and happy. The newcomers were very moved. Xiaoqing told reporters that although she is only a master of ceremonies, she strives to host every wedding differently. Therefore, she often "oversteps her authority" and arranges many things. Therefore, some newcomers believe that Xiaoqing plays not only the role of master of ceremonies, but also the role of wedding planner.

Nowadays, as more and more couples hope to make their weddings personalized, a new industry - wedding planners - has begun to emerge and make a name for itself in Rongcheng.

Wedding planning is more than decoration

Wedding planning is more than decoration. A senior wedding planner told reporters that the various services provided by many wedding companies in Fuzhou are, in a sense, just the decoration of a wedding. Simple service.

“Many people have misunderstood wedding planning as the work of the wedding officiant, or doing intermediary work such as booking cars and banquets. It is not enough to host the wedding ceremony, but also to be chosen by the wedding planner

Wedding date, choosing wedding attire, finding wedding venue, scene decoration, determining background music and wedding cakes, stimulating the mood of guests, especially arranging some special details to personalize the wedding

The senior planner made an analogy: Organizing a wedding is like organizing an article, which requires a keyword. , organize everything together through this keyword to form a thoughtful and personalized article.

Xiaoqing believes that wedding planning is actually a wedding assistant. It must not be like some wedding hosts who are so active that they become the protagonist of the wedding; Have fun making fun of the many vulgar and even obscene "game shows". More and more people are beginning to pay attention to the personalization of their weddings and pursue high-grade, high-quality wedding formats and content.

A good wedding planner is the protagonist in realizing this pursuit.

Love is colorful and weddings are colorful

Having been accustomed to seeing the same stylized weddings in hotels, the reporter expressed her opinion on Xiaoqing’s “Everyone’s love is different, and so should weddings.” Very interested in what he said. All weddings are not

the same. How can each wedding be different and what can be used to highlight its individuality?

Xiaoqing said that each couple has its own characteristics in terms of cultural background, social environment, and love history. Therefore, the couple also has different understandings and assumptions about their wedding. This requires professional planners to plan and implement wedding cases with distinctive personalities and different styles according to the different characteristics of the couple. This is what people often call "personalized weddings".

There was once a wedding that made Xiaoqing quite proud. A few months ago, Xiaoqing hosted a wedding for a couple. While chatting with the bride, Xiaoqing found that the bride was a very happy person.

Both her husband and parents loved her very much. The bride is a teacher by profession and she loves her profession very much. The only regret is that not all her students can come to her wedding. So,

Xiaoqing secretly noted the incident and went to her school without telling the bride to record a VCD of the whole class blessing the teacher. When she played this VCD at the wedding, the bride burst into tears.

Xiaoqing herself is also very happy and satisfied, because she makes the bride have no regrets.

Become friends with the couple

The most important qualities for wedding planning are communication skills, imagination skills and planning skills.

“Wedding planners must first understand that they are not planning a wedding for themselves, so they must be good at understanding the needs of the couple.

"Before each planning, Xiaoqing will talk with the couple a month in advance to understand their hobbies, love affairs, financial status, family thoughts and other information, and then produce planning copy according to the couple's requirements. Until the final ceremony During the meeting, the copy was revised at least three times, and

we communicated with each other five or six times, not including regular phone calls. During this process, Xiaoqing often became friends with new people.