Why can some people get along peacefully after divorce, but we can't?

Some time ago, a cartoon was circulated on the Internet. The author is a 6-year-old boy from Indonesia. He used paintings to show people the picture of his daily life with his divorced parents: parents were in love, but divorced because of trivial quarrels. After the divorce, my mother moved out, but she came to see him every day, got along with my father slowly and chatted like friends. * * * spent a lot of unforgettable parent-child time with the little boy. As soon as this cartoon came out, although it was only a few simple paintings, it immediately attracted the attention of more than 1 10,000 netizens and caused a lot of parents to sing bad songs.

Let's look back at most divorced families now. Why is it so difficult to live in peace?

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One of my best friends divorced her husband because of buying a house. A loving couple and a lovely daughter, an enviable family of three, went to court for divorce because of a small problem. Since then, the children have never had a complete family, and there is no love given by their parents at the same time. Why can't many families get along with their children like mom and dad in that cartoon? In the final analysis, the concept of marriage has changed now. Many people's marriages are not based on love, but are mixed with many external factors. More importantly, the house and car. There is a lack of communication when there is a contradiction, because everyone is too proud to pull their faces down. I always think I'm right. If you want the other party to accommodate yourself, without effective response, the contradiction will only get deeper and deeper, which will easily lead to personal attacks. Couples at this time are impulsive demons. How can they talk well and get along well?

After divorce, it is difficult for husband and wife to live in peace because of lack of communication and embarrassment.

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A sister who lives next door to me, she and her ex-husband can really be a perfect match. Later, the man's business failed and he became very decadent. The family beat up the woman every day and finally divorced. Their daughter lived with her mother, but as a father, she never came to visit. How can we live in peace? Two people who once loved each other stood on the same level, because one party's slip led to the failure of marriage. People who fail lose the code of conduct in their hearts, become unreasonable and unwilling to fail, and finally ruin their marriage.

It is difficult for divorced couples to live in peace again because they don't want to pretend to be lofty.

In fact, the children's requirements are really simple. They just want a complete family and a mom and dad who love her. However, their face, mentality and unwillingness have caused many divorced families to become strangers and find it difficult to live in peace. Whose fault is this sadness?