Father-in-law borrows money

1. If you are sure that when you got married, the 5000 yuan was given to your wife by your father-in-law, that is, his own daughter, then it can be understood as her bride's dowry, and there is no question of borrowing or returning it.

2. Lend money to your father-in-law, or give it to him directly, provided that it does not affect your normal life. It's a period of normal life, not a few years. That's too far. In other words, do what you can, and don't punch the fat man in the face. For example, someone fell into the water, saw it and jumped directly to save it, but forgot that he couldn't swim at all. As a result, instead of being saved, he took his own life.

3. With family members, especially elders, even if he says it's an IOU, he can't write an IOU. Because your brother-in-law didn't lend it to you and the old man asked you for money, you gave up the idea of being able to pay it back. Can give the best, but also depends on their own ability, if not necessary, you can not. If you don't return it, don't worry. Money is earned by others and spent by others. Change your mind. If your father-in-law's financial situation is not good, my brother's marriage is arranged by my sister as a whole. What should you do? Regardless? No You can promise to give 20 thousand, which proves that you are very kind, not the kind of person who values money more than family.

As for the plan to have children next year, first discuss with your lover, and if the economy allows and your job is stable, you can include it in the plan; If you don't think too much, just wait. There is not enough money to raise a child to save this 20 thousand.

5. If your economy really can't bear 20,000 yuan, then give it to 1 10,000 yuan. Let your lover tell home directly that he is not well off financially. This 10 thousand yuan is not borrowed by the old man, but the money you gave to your brother-in-law

For your reference. No matter what the result is, don't be separated because of this matter, and everything at home will be happy. Bless you, good people have a safe life.