My boyfriend is 12 years older than me, but I still feel insecure. What should I do?

What kind of person you choose to fall in love with actually determines your future life state. Once two people have feelings, age and distance are not problems, and they can all be solved. If you find a man much older than you, don't worry, as long as two people really love each other. But if you feel insecure, there are probably the following reasons.

Generally, if your boyfriend is much older than himself, then he is relatively mature and has been relatively successful both psychologically and professionally. Then in the face of such a successful man, when you are with him, maybe you will feel a little insecure. When I see him, I will always remind myself that there are many shortcomings. If so, I must change my thoughts as soon as possible. Because since he chose to be with you, there must be something excellent about you. First of all, let yourself become confident, but also keep learning, constantly improve yourself, and strive to be on the same level with each other.

If this man makes you feel insecure, then he is also responsible. When two people fall in love together, they must take into account the feelings of both sides. If he gives you enough care and love, let you feel that he loves you very much and cannot live without you. So in this case, you won't feel this kind of insecurity, so ask yourself and ask him if he really loves you and wants to spend his life with you. Not just for fun.

Another point is whether he doesn't want to marry you, which makes you feel insecure. After all, at his age, if he is really with someone, he should consider getting married. If he doesn't give you such a promise, or if two people imagine the future together, it may also indicate that he doesn't really want to be with you.

so it's no use imagining things by yourself. Try to sit down with two people and talk about your feelings. If two people want to go on sincerely, they must be honest and sincere enough to each other. Falling in love is not a one-sided thing, and it is not enough for only one person to work hard. It is necessary for two people to work together.