The difference between talking and not talking.

Before graduation, the school took away the student ID card and school badge that accompanied us when we were freshmen. The school emblem has hardly appeared several times in the whole university career. Most people put them at the bottom of the box, and their student ID cards were collected and sent back, but when they came back, the information column under the photo had four characters "graduation souvenirs".

When I saw "graduation as a souvenir", I felt sorry at once. I used to get a few discounts when I went out with my student ID card, but I never had a chance to show my student ID card to make the fare cheaper, and I also lost the right to half-price train tickets in the future.

Personally, I feel so good that I can't help but want to take pictures and make friends, but I feel that I am too diligent in making friends. Will it be a little bad? Roommate said, "It doesn't matter, it's you who sent a circle of friends."

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High school has just come into contact with mobile phone network, and QQ is still popular. I want to buy a mobile phone with Internet access, log in to QQ to chat with people I don't know, open the QQ space on the WAP login page, and press the up and down keys hard to see every word in the space.

At that time, there were not so many pictures, but more words. Talking is not talking. Dynamic can be brushed for a long time, and many functional comments are not well received. There is a diary in the post, and occasionally I write something myself. When I see something useful and touching, I will forward it. Often go to other people's space and stay on the message board.

Later, the smart touch screen machine developed, and the rise of WeChat QQ became more and more deserted. How convenient it is for WeChat to send voice directly, and how good it is for people who are not friends to see each other. You can pay attention to the subscription number and receive all kinds of dry goods every day. It has always been unclear why WeChat has slowly replaced QQ, but in order to integrate into the circle, everyone switched to WeChat and used more.

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At first it was just a small circle of friends and classmates. Later, the elders were keen to play WeChat. There are parents, uncles and aunts in the friends list, and even grandparents have kept up with the times. Later, when I worked, my leading colleagues also entered the circle of friends.

Before making a circle of friends, you should consider whether it is too late for your relatives to see the education, whether your elders will be too negative and worried when they see it, and whether you will play with the criticism seen by the leaders.

However, WeChat is also quite understandable. I know that there are people in various circles among my friends, so I added the grouping function. As long as you add a label, put some specific people in it, and set "public", "private", "partially visible" or "don't show it to anyone" when making friends, you can decide which circle your circle of friends corresponds to.

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I don't know why people seem less and less willing to comment on other people's developments. Most of the time, they just take a look. I know, and they don't want to be further involved in other people's lives. Although sending a circle of friends is for sharing, not everyone has to reply, but I always feel that it is valuable to reply.

Yesterday, I saw Xiao W's circle of friends vomit, saying why some people chat and don't go back to comment on other people's circle of friends. Judging from the tone, Xiao W is extremely dissatisfied with this matter and even a little angry. In fact, we all know that this kind of behavior does not only happen to individuals, nor does it happen only once or twice. There is a reply from Xiao S under Xiao W's circle of friends, saying that she has encountered a similar situation, so the circle of friends no longer likes comments.

There is too much information that may be fragmented, and people pay less and less attention to contact with others. Chatting, chatting, saying nothing and ignoring people. Everybody hates this. It could happen to anyone. It's not that I don't want to talk, but that I don't care enough. When I have nothing to say, even typing a few more words is redundant. Then I saw the news of concern in the circle of friends, but I still couldn't help but leave a few words. I didn't have the heart to think who would see it, and I didn't realize that I had cut a knife in someone else's heart.

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Although wechat abuses me thousands of times, I will still make friends. Friends circle is the most convenient way to share. A few simple pictures and a few sentences can let people know the current situation no matter how far away from me, and let me appear in others' field of vision more and not be forgotten. Therefore, when you want to send a circle of friends, you will still send it. No, just tell you. I know you watch friends.

It doesn't matter if there is no comment. I know you can all see it. I hope that the next time we meet, there will be a buzz through the circle of friends.

I don't want to drift away from you, and I hope you can make more friends and let me know more about you.

Friends in the circle of friends, are you still there?

Text/Bao Yang

20 16.06.25