Jia Ling responded to the urge to get married with high emotional intelligence. Tell me what you did when faced with the push for marriage from your family?

Everyone must have experienced or are experiencing the urge to get married, especially during the Spring Festival holiday, whether it is a gathering of friends or a family reunion, especially when visiting relatives, as unmarried young people, Most of them have received pressure from relatives and friends to get married, either directly or from the side. Sometimes young people choose to escape because they don't want to face this topic, and many people choose to face it directly. After all, escaping is not an option.

No matter how successful you are outside, it seems that in the eyes of your family, if you don’t get married or have a family, you don’t grow up and you don’t succeed. During the Spring Festival of 2021, the most popular movie has to be "Hello, Li Huanying". As the director and starring Jia Ling, her fame has soared. When Jia Ling was doing promotions, she also encountered pressure from fans who liked her to get married. However, Jia Ling, as a representative of high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, when she answered this question, it really made people feel that people with high emotional intelligence speak differently. ah.

When we generally encounter pressure to get married, the ways we choose to face it are generally as follows:

1. Look around and talk about others

The elders in the family It seems that they have the same goal on the issue of urging marriage. Regardless of whether young people are willing or not, as elders, they are willing to warn young people that getting married early is a good thing for them. Some young people feel that their elders' urging to get married is also a kind of care for them. No matter what, this care cannot be hurt. When they meet their elders urging them to get married, they will change the subject inadvertently and slowly avoid the topic of their elders urging them to get married, so as not to hurt their elders' feelings or embarrass themselves.

2. Face it directly

When faced with the issue of urging marriage, many young people choose to face it directly. Whenever they encounter this topic, they will directly tell each other that they have not found another partner to fall in love with, and then show that they are still working hard. On a certain short video platform, there is this young man. When paying New Year greetings, his first sentence is to greet his elders, and in the second sentence he directly tells them that he has not found a partner yet. Although it is a bit funny, this kind of directness The method of telling each other also made the elders stop urging the marriage. Moreover, during the Chinese New Year, this way of catching up with others is not a "funny" way.

3. Respond actively

Although many young people are disgusted with their elders urging marriage, there are also some young people who are busy with work and have a relatively small circle. There are few people, but they have a heart that wants to fall in love and get married as soon as possible. When these young people encounter elders urging them to get married, they not only do not resent it, but are happy to discuss this topic with their elders. They even actively give feedback to their elders about what type of partner they want to find, and will tell their elders to introduce them to them when they meet a suitable person, so that they can fall in love and get married sooner.